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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The difference? |
| ThinkingMonkey |
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Posted: 27 Mar 2015, 1:27 am
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| Very easy. If she initiates talking to you, If she initiates texting you and if she suggests to go to places, then yeah she's romantically interested. Sorry to intervene. I do not know about this. Every time this happens(including mild touches etc.) to me and I ask the girl out, it turns out that t... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: emotionally feeling bad |
| ThinkingMonkey |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2015, 12:22 pm
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| You are feeling low presumably from a lack of close and loving human relationships. Also a lack of sexual relationship of any kind. Since you have a dog I'd mention that exercise does as much to help mood as rest does. Or both. I'd go for a long hike in nature with my dog, and then rest. You probab... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: emotionally feeling bad |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2015, 12:20 pm
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| Why are you feeling so low? I would be on a "high" if I were in your position. I think "reality testing" is in order. Maybe taking a few days off is a good idea. Maybe you're overworked? Ha Ha Thank you. Not overworked, had work for an hour just now due to some emergency. I thin... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: emotionally feeling bad |
| ThinkingMonkey |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2015, 9:01 am
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MjrMajorMajor wrote: Taking a few days off is probably a good idea. When I hit those, a day or two of vegging/napping puts me back to rights. 
I do understand what you are saying. Trying to do the same. but a bad discomfort. Thanks for the kind words. |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: emotionally feeling bad |
| ThinkingMonkey |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2015, 4:34 am
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| Hi All, Just here to rant.. Feeling a lot low, and emotionally needy. Took a couple of days off telling my employer that I am ill(feeling bad about this). Have no one to talk to here. Parents are manipulative. Not in an intimate relationship(have never been). Friends do not comprehend etc. I have be... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: scale of -10 to +10, how do you feel right now? |
| ThinkingMonkey |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2015, 4:16 am
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to know when a girl is flirting with you? |
| ThinkingMonkey |
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Posted: 29 Jan 2014, 11:02 pm
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Replies: 50
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| When you are not paying attention to them and they come towards you and start acting all friendly and saying how cute you are etc and also if they grab you hand and put it down their shirt!. As for the second point, something that obvious did happen to me. Unfortunately I was petrified and did not ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to know when a girl is flirting with you? |
| ThinkingMonkey |
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Posted: 29 Jan 2014, 10:58 pm
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| If they're shy but want you to know they like you, usually they'll just smile very obviously. Otherwise they'll compliment you, accompanied (optionally) by some light touching. The bigger question is: how can you tell when a girl is flirting back ? The implication of the original question seems lik... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to know when a girl is flirting with you? |
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Posted: 29 Jan 2014, 7:15 pm
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How to know when a girl is flirting with you?
This probably would help all the guys here as well. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Tips on how to separate emotion from sex? |
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Posted: 22 Nov 2013, 8:36 pm
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| I am 27 and having the the usual problems with finding a companion/dating. I think, I can manage to get into casual flings (which I philosophically dislike & disrespect the most). I have had no intimate contact with the other gender whatsoever till now and not a single date till now either. To c... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Has anyone been told 'You do whatever the f**k you want...' |
| ThinkingMonkey |
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Posted: 30 May 2013, 1:16 am
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| I have been explicitly explained that I listen, agree too, to whatever people are saying. And afterwards I go and do whatever the the f**k I want to do. My parents & other elders very often accuse me of this. I had may of my relatives, parents, a lots of friends tell me(a lot of times) " You are... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: How did you deal? |
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Posted: 25 May 2013, 1:43 pm
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Replies: 23
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Not to offend any of you guys.
I understand that you are trying to help and I appreciate it.
But, none of it is helping me. May be, I need to give it some time. Keep the things, that you guys have quoted here, in mind. Any may be I will be able to to get a coherent in my head. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: How did you deal? |
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Posted: 24 May 2013, 6:58 am
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Replies: 23
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| until recently it was just my square pegs aspie meetup group, wrong planet, and having abundant porn plus silicone sexual simulacrums, which basically drained all the frustration out of me but it was not the same as having close companionship. but it did the job, so to speak. I was getting ready to... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: How did you deal? |
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Posted: 24 May 2013, 6:56 am
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abacacus wrote: More alcohol than is healthy. Bad way, but my way.
No alcohol for me |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: How did you deal? |
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Posted: 23 May 2013, 12:15 pm
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Replies: 23
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Vectorspace wrote: I plan on becoming a zombie of my special interests.
ha ha.. I am planning on something similar  |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: How did you deal? |
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Posted: 21 May 2013, 2:08 pm
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Replies: 23
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| I was a virgin 'til 30, and that was despite wanting to lose it since I was in my teens. Never any luck, and I only was able to talk to girls and women who had serious issues, and this would wind up costing me money or emotional distress. The worst advice I ever got, was from a friend who meant wel... |
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