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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Sex |
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Posted: 05 Jul 2021, 8:22 pm
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Replies: 51
Views: 907
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| Not really a fan of sex. It can be enjoyable under the right circumstances, but mostly I find it messy and a bit smelly. It’s a chore of sorts, something I’ve had to do in relationships for a partner to stay. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Liking the idea of sex but not the reality of it |
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Posted: 15 Jun 2021, 7:30 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 203
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| I tend to agree, I find sex boring mostly. It can feel nice for a little bit, but soon I start thinking about other things and prefer to end it. I don’t really like when someone tries to pleasure me because I do it better (pleasuring myself that is) than they can do. And vice versa, they will be far... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: If you have sexual intercourse with a sex worker is it rape? |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2020, 2:42 pm
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Replies: 82
Views: 671
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| You are talking about exploitation of the under-privileged and vulnerable. That is a serious, horrendous, global phenomenon. I once had a student, a 70 year old man, who boasted, in my class, in front of, among others two young teenage arab girls dressed in traditional Burkas that he had sex with a... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: If you have sexual intercourse with a sex worker is it rape? |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2020, 7:34 am
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Replies: 82
Views: 671
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| Is it assault to beat up a woman, even if she needs the money enough to “consent” to being beaten against payment? In my opinion, yes, it is still assault. Does sex inflict harm inherently in the way an ass-whooping does? :? Further, there's plenty of jobs where slowly being harmed as a result of d... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: If you have sexual intercourse with a sex worker is it rape? |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2020, 7:14 am
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Replies: 82
Views: 671
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| Is it assault to beat up a woman, even if she needs the money enough to “consent” to being beaten against payment? In my opinion, yes, it is still assault. Your analogy is broken. Paid-for assault is still assault. Paid-for sex is still sex. It does not follow that paid-for sex is rape. Alternative... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: If you have sexual intercourse with a sex worker is it rape? |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2020, 2:44 am
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Replies: 82
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Pepe wrote: And by extension, you are saying anyone who has sex with a sex worker is a rapist?
Sure, I suppose I would. Thank you for pointing it out, I think it's a fair conclusion. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: If you have sexual intercourse with a sex worker is it rape? |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2020, 2:42 am
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Replies: 82
Views: 671
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| Getting back to the topic. So you are saying all sex workers are coerced into prostitution? What I'm saying is that circumstance drives them into prostitution. It could be addiction, or mental health issues, or a difficult financial situation, or a way to self harm, or any combination thereof. I do... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: If you have sexual intercourse with a sex worker is it rape? |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2020, 1:16 am
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Replies: 82
Views: 671
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Is it assault to beat up a woman, even if she needs the money enough to “consent” to being beaten against payment?
In my opinion, yes, it is still assault. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: This is not a support forum |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2020, 6:52 pm
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Replies: 22
Views: 1,557
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Sylkat wrote: I am glad you are back/still here.
You are a nice person, and I like reading your posts.
I like reading your posts too. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Are People with Asperger's Syndrome Hypersexual ? |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2020, 6:45 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 136
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| I think aspies are like most other people in that regard, could be anywhere along the sexuality spectrum. Maybe a bit more open to accepting their sexuality, or lack thereof, less bound by convention that is. I’ve known completely asexual aspies, all the way to hyper sexual ones. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: If you have sexual intercourse with a sex worker is it rape? |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2020, 2:35 pm
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Replies: 82
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| Yeah, we very much disagree on this. It’s like saying that sweatshops are okay because people voluntarily work in them; Yeah, sure, technically people “choose” to work there (because they are not physically forced to work there), but that doesn’t make sweatshops okay. A vast majority of the people w... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: If you have sexual intercourse with a sex worker is it rape? |
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Posted: 21 Sep 2020, 8:17 pm
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Replies: 82
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| In my opinion, if you have sex with someone who doesn’t want to f**k you (if they did, they wouldn’t charge you for it), then yes, I consider that rape. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What does a healthy sexuality look like for you? |
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Posted: 14 Sep 2020, 8:51 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 84
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| In my opinion, the minimum requirement for a healthy sexuality is to be able recognize when you don’t actually want to have sex, and be okay with that (and as an extension, a healthy relationship is when your partner doesn’t try to pressure you into it). Once you can accept that, then you can begin ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Asexual |
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Posted: 23 Aug 2020, 8:53 pm
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Replies: 21
Views: 286
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| I’m likely on the asexual spectrum. Sex has never been something I think about, although I can occasionally enjoy it. My marriage has been sex free for the last decade or so, and even though we technically have an open relationship, I never really have sex with other people either. I just feel it in... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: As guys how would you describe your first sexual experience? |
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Posted: 01 Aug 2020, 10:31 am
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Replies: 62
Views: 628
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| I was 17, and like many others here I never realized that she was into me until she forced a kiss on me (she had tried every trick in the book to hint it to me before that). A week later we had sex, I remember it going on forever, and I thought it was really boring. After a while I just stopped, I g... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Female Attractiveness Scale |
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Posted: 12 Jul 2019, 11:02 am
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Replies: 97
Views: 814
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| I find the whole concept unnerving and offensive tbh. |
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