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 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: When my friend interprets what I say a critical... and I am

cwhizkid
Posted: 04 Jan 2013, 5:55 pm 

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just trying to express my feeling/reaction about something... we end up clashing. She thinks I am being critical and hurtful on purpose and that is not my intent at all. I then get the silent treatment- which I HATE. When I express myself I try to use I statements, etc. and give an example or two an...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Best friend's husband hates me

cwhizkid
 Post subject: Thank you for your reply
Posted: 05 Nov 2012, 7:38 am 

Replies: 3
Views: 5,587
My friend is my kindred spirit and is just or almost as miserable about this as I am- and I think she is far worth the pains of this. We are just trying to figure out a solution to fix this. At one point all three of us got along. The rest of her family has no problem with the friendship. Loss of a ...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Best friend's husband hates me

cwhizkid
Posted: 04 Nov 2012, 4:25 pm 

Replies: 3
Views: 5,587
and because he does we have to spend less time together- especially quality time/ alone time as best friend's. Wife has said that I did nothing to start this behavior in him. I admit some of my reactions to his rudeness/bullying was less than stellar at times but nevertheless was just that- a reacti...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: How do I explain to or get a friend to understand what life

cwhizkid
Posted: 27 Oct 2012, 6:55 pm 

Replies: 8
Views: 1,604
I am typing out my thoughts this evening. My friend will be eating supper in my home tomorrow night and I hope to share a very basic rough draft and discuss it with her. The situation with her husband has to stop. It is hurting us all, especially my friend/his wife. I can't continue to be treated in...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: How do I explain to or get a friend to understand what life

cwhizkid
Posted: 27 Oct 2012, 3:50 pm 

Replies: 8
Views: 1,604
Thanks. I do write an awful lot of the time and love to do so. Sometimes though that is all that I seem to do to get a point across.... I will consider this advice. I have been composing a note to the husband in my head and need to get it down on paper. I was also going to show it to my BFF before e...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: How do I explain to or get a friend to understand what life

cwhizkid
Posted: 26 Oct 2012, 7:57 pm 

Replies: 8
Views: 1,604
I can't loose yet another friend. This one tries so hard to "get" me- despite the pressure from her husband not to get me......

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: How do I explain to or get a friend to understand what life

cwhizkid
Posted: 26 Oct 2012, 7:55 pm 

Replies: 8
Views: 1,604
I NEED my friend to understand me. What can I give her or say to her to help her understand me- how i think- how I operate- why I can't let go of hurts etc

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: How do I explain to or get a friend to understand what life

cwhizkid
Posted: 26 Oct 2012, 1:12 pm 

Replies: 8
Views: 1,604
I only have one very close friend who I know loves me. I also know that I frustrate her to no end. Her husband used to be a friend. My friend and I are BFFs and love to spend time with one another and discuss things of consequence- no small talk- and used to do so regularly and fairly often. Husband...
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