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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Modern Love, Aspergers + Marriage by David Finch |
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Posted: 26 Mar 2013, 1:41 pm
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| LOL I sometimes think I have already had several. |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Nt Feamle spouse trying to wrap my head around My AS husband |
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Posted: 26 Mar 2013, 1:28 pm
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| No not something that was imposed upon me for certain! I definately Love my Husband and It was my choice to marry him and I am still commited to him. I think that I am finally really getting a better picture of the original issues. I knew when I first met him something was off and I told myself and ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Modern Love, Aspergers + Marriage by David Finch |
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Posted: 26 Mar 2013, 12:31 pm
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| yes definately, its just really really strange at how many incidences of things I have had to endure that most only have one in a life time. multiple pregnancy losses, The loss of my youngest daughter after being terminally ill for several years, the loss of my first spouse 10 months later. I guess ... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Nt Feamle spouse trying to wrap my head around My AS husband |
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Posted: 26 Mar 2013, 12:13 pm
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| I am sorry this is all fairly new to me, and I hav'nt quite figured out how to post yet. Only in the past few years Identified my Step- Son as AS and then in the last month gotten the final diagnosis for my Husband, although I knew something was different all along. |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Nt Feamle spouse trying to wrap my head around My AS husband |
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Posted: 26 Mar 2013, 12:08 pm
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| no no he has not cheated on me, I am talking about understanding the aspies diagnosis. One day I feel like finally I understand and the next day I am completely bewildered as to how I got into this situation |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Modern Love, Aspergers + Marriage by David Finch |
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Posted: 26 Mar 2013, 12:06 pm
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| Had a really great Session with My Hubbies counselor last night and he had him and I doing alot of role playing to see if he can try to get into my head regarding this silly issue and it was really tough, As he says he can't spell the word feelings let alone describe what they are. He was given a li... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Nt Feamle spouse trying to wrap my head around My AS husband |
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Posted: 26 Mar 2013, 11:50 am
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 Are there any other women out there that know what it feels like to swing wildly back and forth between being relieved to have found out what is going on to utter and complete dispair as to how did my life take this turn.
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Modern Love, Aspergers + Marriage by David Finch |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2013, 5:06 pm
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| That was a Genuine question, Somehow it seems that I am not being heard. I have done everything I can think of that is RESPECTFUl I chose to treat people with the Golden rule. Even peole with AS can learn to figure it out. I shouldn't have to always be changing everything to accomidate bad behavior.... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Modern Love, Aspergers + Marriage by David Finch |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2013, 4:52 pm
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| Does Aspie"s prevent him from making the connection ? I truly don't want to result to those exteme's, I am just really down and tired of feeling invisiable. We see his counselor this evening and I am hopeful he has some clear suggestions |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Modern Love, Aspergers + Marriage by David Finch |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2013, 3:51 pm
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| Yeah, its definately chosing my battles. This is one that has been going on for so long that I have finally gotten tired of taking a back seat over and over again, when all he has to do is ask if I am finished with it. He does the same thing when we are at a restrauant at first I would think he didn... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Modern Love, Aspergers + Marriage by David Finch |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2013, 3:04 pm
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| I asked him if he would rather I have one cup that I use and put my name on it wit DO NOT Touch and he seemed to think that would be belittling him and he would like grow to have resentment. I have had a DO Not touch rule and he just doesn't seem to remember, so I am thinking that it is not making i... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Modern Love, Aspergers + Marriage by David Finch |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2013, 2:31 pm
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| I knew from the moment that I met my Husband that something was off, But I thought because I had been in so many unhealthy relationships with NT's that being with one of the Good guys ( as his sister described him to me was going to really change my life) It certainly has. I ignored all my Clinical ... |
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