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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: First time in history!! !! The NT/AS open hotline ! !! !! ! |
| Madge23 |
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Posted: 27 Jun 2013, 2:58 pm
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| hmmm, i guess it is.. another way of a person trying to make another look bad to make themselves feel better due to their own low self-esteem, unfortunately... and yes, I do agree that some people would get away with saying the same thing, which another would not... people are strange creatures - in... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: First time in history!! !! The NT/AS open hotline ! !! !! ! |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2013, 2:06 pm
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| I believe that some people are tactless through no fault of their own - i.e. they do not intend to hurt someone. If a person does feel hurt by what someone says, they should voice it, so that the person who made the comment can learn that what they said was indeed tactless and can perhaps be more ca... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: First time in history!! !! The NT/AS open hotline ! !! !! ! |
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Posted: 25 Jun 2013, 2:28 pm
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whooops, didn't finish that..
meant to put, I can't imagine anybody not having ANYTHING to offer...
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: First time in history!! !! The NT/AS open hotline ! !! !! ! |
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Posted: 25 Jun 2013, 2:27 pm
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| Hey ialdabaoth, "A) When is tact socially effective, and when does using tact make you look weak? More explicitly, what exactly is tact, from an instrumental perspective? B) When does backing down gain you support, and when will backing down backfire? C) How do you gain the respect of others if you ... |
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: I am having problems with my sent folder and PMs |
| Madge23 |
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Posted: 25 Jun 2013, 12:45 pm
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hmmm, you could be right Cornflake, as the test I just sent to you is in my Outbox...
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: I am having problems with my sent folder and PMs |
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Posted: 25 Jun 2013, 12:43 pm
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| I sent 2 PMs but cannot find them in my outbox OR my sent box .... |
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: I am having problems with my sent folder and PMs |
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Posted: 24 Jun 2013, 12:11 pm
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| I sent 2 PMs but cannot find them in my outbox OR my sent box .... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: First time in history!! !! The NT/AS open hotline ! !! !! ! |
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Posted: 24 Jun 2013, 12:03 pm
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Many thanks again Werewolf Poet,
I hope you don't mind that I have PM'd you, as my returned message had gotten quite long!
Appreciating all the advice... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: First time in history!! !! The NT/AS open hotline ! !! !! ! |
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Posted: 23 Jun 2013, 4:47 pm
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| Just taken a look at that link. Hmmm, he doesn't appear to get distraught when we end - he seems to be fine, busies himself and I don't hear from him, then maybe a month later, I get lots of messages and attention and he says he misses me and wants to do anything to make it work. The young children ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: First time in history!! !! The NT/AS open hotline ! !! !! ! |
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Posted: 23 Jun 2013, 4:37 pm
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| Thank you very much, I am finding your replies very helpful in understanding all this. Well I've backed off completely from him to give him his space (I read that the more you push/.... the further Aspies can retreat? This has worked previously - as much as I hate the fact that it feels like game pl... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: First time in history!! !! The NT/AS open hotline ! !! !! ! |
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Posted: 23 Jun 2013, 12:18 pm
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| I guess I've just been trying to work out if it is the Aspergers or whether it is just his personality and/or issues... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: First time in history!! !! The NT/AS open hotline ! !! !! ! |
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Posted: 23 Jun 2013, 12:01 pm
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| Thank you WerewolfPoet, I have read into Aspergers a LOT since he mentioned it, and also sent him some info about getting diagnosed and places he can go to get help. I've read Cognitive Behaviour Therapy can be very good. Basically, he has had to move home a few times - last October - when he last w... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: First time in history!! !! The NT/AS open hotline ! !! !! ! |
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Posted: 22 Jun 2013, 4:28 pm
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| Sorry, hi, everyone - pretty new to this, so not really sure what I'm doing! :S |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: First time in history!! !! The NT/AS open hotline ! !! !! ! |
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Posted: 22 Jun 2013, 4:27 pm
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| I met a guy who I found really interesting, full of energy, VERY intelligent and, well just, different - which I loved! However, has turned out to be a rollercoaster, up-down relationship over the last year with me ending up getting hurt, now for the third time after being shut out/pushed away. This... |
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