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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: First time I've had to really deal with homophobia. |
| Asperbear |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2014, 1:12 am
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Replies: 36
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| I sense a misunderstanding. At least I cannot decipher what your post was trying to say. So a person with actual homophobia, Is mentally ill and afraid and you would get onto them, but another phobia you wouldnt, There has to be a better word. like, People who have a different opinion wtf is that su... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Got anything random to say? Adult Version |
| Asperbear |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2014, 8:42 pm
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Replies: 21,410
Views: 197,501
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| The tendency for entropy to increase in isolated systems is expressed in the second law of thermodynamics — perhaps the most pessimistic and amoral formulation in all human thought. |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: First time I've had to really deal with homophobia. |
| Asperbear |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2014, 8:16 pm
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Replies: 36
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| Whenever I tell people I am gay they have the same reaction. Either the normal one, what you expect, which is nice OR (90% of the time) "What? You? But...how....wow! You look soooOOOo not gay. I would have never thought! Who could have known?" which I find funny and sad, they have such strict image ... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Gay Bears! woof |
| Asperbear |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2014, 7:49 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 2,478
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Marky9 wrote: AdamAutistic wrote: i am kind of in the middle. i like the hairy body but i don't like the size. i like my boys to be thin and hairy. I wonder if this might be what I have heard referred to as "Otters".
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: High IQ in an Alien world. |
| Asperbear |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2014, 7:20 pm
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Replies: 62
Views: 5,164
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| Writing quite literally stopped me from going insane from this. Write essays! is my tipp. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Foggy Brain |
| Asperbear |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2014, 6:39 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 2,554
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| Stress can also increase the hypostimulation issues. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Foggy Brain |
| Asperbear |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2014, 6:09 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 2,554
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Of course there can be many reasons for that stupid fog. Just wanted to make that clear.
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Foggy Brain |
| Asperbear |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2014, 5:36 pm
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Replies: 32
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| What are you stimulating when you are lying in bed reading? I ask because this could help me as well, not to be offensive. =P As everything concerning autism the details are not well understood, but it is like this: The problems are not caused by the understimulation itself, but by the difficulty o... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Foggy Brain |
| Asperbear |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2014, 1:43 pm
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Replies: 32
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| I have found the answer! It is under-stimulation from hypo-sensitivities!! ! This changes my world completely. E V E R Y T H I N G about me makes so much sense now. Already using the knowledge and holy-crap! RESULTS - finally! http://dreugeniasteingold.wordpress.com/2012/12/27/is-your-child-hyposens... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How Often Do You Think About Suicide? |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2014, 7:30 am
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Replies: 155
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| My brother committed suicide, so I think often about it. It basically saved me from doing the same. Was contemplating it doing myself, but he beat me to it. As strange as it sounds: It helped me a lot. Made me realize what life is about : Living. I strongly dislike the notion of "the cowards way out... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How do I Deal with These Clingy ASD People? |
| Asperbear |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2014, 7:25 am
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Replies: 31
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| If I were the clingy person (I was in the past to people) I would react positive to a very rational, "emotionless" explanation of the issue. And I would be destroyed by an emotional reaction. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Dirty Talk |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2014, 7:20 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 129
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| I think many autistic people (or in general, people with low sex drive) suffer from one problem. My boyfriend also has a very low sex drive, and we basically solved our issues. The issue is this: We pretend sex as this instinctively driven thing, that we know it perfectly, blablabla. "It comes from ... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Trying Too Hard, All My Life |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2014, 6:49 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 3,164
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| Hello. I feel the strong need to share something. My autism is severely affecting every aspect of my life, for as long as I can think. The way I coped with it was easy: Trying as hard as I possibly can. And it is ruining me. I can pass as being relatively normal, if a little hyperactive, when I try ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Anybody here find the Cinema a nightmare |
| Asperbear |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2014, 6:00 am
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Replies: 34
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| I *hate* cinemas. I cannot shut out noises, I hear every person in the room. The screen is too big, I don't see anything. I prefer small screens. 3D does not work on my eyes. My boyfriend once insisted on me trying out a heavy metal concert. Panic attack. At least I could flee. In cinemas I do not w... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Gay Bears! woof |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2014, 5:48 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 2,478
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| Given my mentality I don't participate in any community or associate with groups though, therefore, I am hesistant to self-identify as a bear. But man, it describes my type well... I live in Germany, and where I live there is absolutely no "bear culture" whatsoever. If it were I could see myself ha... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What is A Special Interest? |
| Asperbear |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2014, 5:40 am
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Replies: 20
Views: 1,186
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| A special interest for me is like the glasses I put on to make sense of the world. Sometimes I am in-between interests and that is an awful time for me. For example: A long time my special interest was Doctor Who and it helped me made sense of the world. I pretended that we life in a world in which ... |
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