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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to get a girlfriend? |
| Rodney00 |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2014, 10:45 pm
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Replies: 40
Views: 4,322
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| basically you gotta be friends with her but not either get put in the "friend zone" or put her there. You get put in the FZ when you do something which implies she knows or does more than you about social skills, like whine about stuff, ask for girl advice, etc. And you put her there when you do tha... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Ethnicity/Race and friendships |
| Rodney00 |
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Posted: 27 May 2014, 5:11 am
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Replies: 2
Views: 1,033
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| My mom used to tell me she got "better vibes" from people her ethnicity, her "own kind" and when I was young, I didn't know what it meant. At school, where most kids were of two groups and I was not (I'm not non-white tho), I thought it was sheer coincidence, and that any if all racism was overt. Th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What are the best places to meet others with aspergers? |
| Rodney00 |
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Posted: 25 May 2014, 12:59 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 786
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| bookstores a good place to spit game |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What makes someone a GF or BF? |
| Rodney00 |
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Posted: 25 May 2014, 12:52 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,859
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| shorthand, a girlfriend/boyfriend is someone you're both physically and mentally attracted and emotionally attached to. Only mental attraction=friend. Only physical attraction=fuсkbuddy. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The UCSB shooter--an Aspie with a rant against women |
| Rodney00 |
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Posted: 25 May 2014, 11:20 am
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Replies: 591
Views: 42,027
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| Well, things in posts seem to be disappearing and things I've quoted from those posts are disappearing too. I'm not being critical of the moderators, I think they do a good job and I appreciate their work. However, if anyone wonders what I was referring to in some of my posts, it's gone. And, that ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The UCSB shooter--an Aspie with a rant against women |
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Posted: 25 May 2014, 11:17 am
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Replies: 591
Views: 42,027
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| For what its worth, look at pop culture today. The beer commercials associate good times with pretty women. The TV shows, teen movies, show the happy guys with hot girls, and the guys without them miserable. Rodney, who do you think makes beer commercials? People attuned to what is "popular" cultur... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The UCSB shooter--an Aspie with a rant against women |
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Posted: 25 May 2014, 10:58 am
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Replies: 591
Views: 42,027
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| For what its worth, look at pop culture today. The beer commercials associate good times with pretty women. The TV shows, teen movies, show the happy guys with hot girls, and the guys without them miserable. Rodney, who do you think makes beer commercials? People attuned to what is "popular" cultur... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The UCSB shooter--an Aspie with a rant against women |
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Posted: 25 May 2014, 10:51 am
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Replies: 591
Views: 42,027
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| For what its worth, look at pop culture today. The beer commercials associate good times with pretty women. The TV shows, teen movies, show the happy guys with hot girls, and the guys without them miserable. College today is associated with parties, girls, etc. Look into "sexual determinism," and pe... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The UCSB shooter--an Aspie with a rant against women |
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Posted: 24 May 2014, 11:59 pm
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Replies: 591
Views: 42,027
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| I think the problem here is psychiatry and psychology tends to attract lazy types, people looking for a lifestyle job. Not all of them, but too many of them. I've had several of them, some of who were good, some of who thought I was going to figure out things, and they sat back and laughed, enjoyed ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Ever worry you'll marry someone you DON'T love? |
| Rodney00 |
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Posted: 24 May 2014, 8:30 pm
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Replies: 48
Views: 4,263
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| yes bc I am freakishly short and have AS, as well as my ethnic makeup, and that deadly combo will scare away the good ones. I'm scared I'll wind up "settling" for someone. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Am I attractive? |
| Rodney00 |
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Posted: 24 May 2014, 12:08 am
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Replies: 175
Views: 16,596
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| to the OP, if you go on Atkins, get a new haircut, you would be attractive. Assuming you're taller than I am, which isn't hard, and at least 5'9'', which is wayyy taller than me, you'd have a shot. Atkins is basically eating only meats/poultry/fish, non-starchy vegetables, and no-calorie drinks. Als... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are all the good ones REALLY taken by 27? |
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Posted: 22 May 2014, 6:12 pm
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Replies: 92
Views: 10,732
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| how screwed am I? I'm 25 and have only been in one relationship, with a girl who was a closet lesbian, and one ONS. I'm scared I won't be able to hide my inexperience with women, and I'm being left in the dust by my high school and college classmates. How many more years of dating should I get befor... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Any Aspie guys feel they can bond with girls better? |
| Rodney00 |
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Posted: 22 May 2014, 3:18 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,327
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| to a point, yea, because in the past I wasn't into watching sports too much. I'm also into fashion, etc. Problem is that turned off many more girls than I ever really made friends with. And to make more girl friends, like pretty and fun ones, you need a social circle of your own sex. This is somethi... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: "The world doesn't owe you anything." |
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Posted: 22 May 2014, 12:12 pm
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Replies: 81
Views: 13,191
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| The world does owe you, but it defaulted because it owed everyone else, so you gotta get the money another way. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are there any girls who LIKE short guys? |
| Rodney00 |
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Posted: 22 May 2014, 1:50 am
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Replies: 47
Views: 4,734
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| Its rare that women will date a man that is significantly shorter than they are. Some will, more so now than back in my day. (I'm 57 years old, and 5' 5") I've asked women about this and they always deny it, but it is almost always the rule. Personally I believe its because of peer pressure (other ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are there any girls who LIKE short guys? |
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Posted: 22 May 2014, 12:52 am
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Replies: 47
Views: 4,734
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| Personality and mutual interest is the biggest factor. Now THERE is the biggest obstacle to girls and friends thats been in my life. Altho I made another thread about the subject, I wanna know what you mean by "personality." I've always kind of struggled with what that word really means, esp. when ... |
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