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Forum: Kids' Crater Topic: Any people learning Japanese? |
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Posted: 08 May 2015, 12:14 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 3,688
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| This is my special interest. I've been studying the japanese language for about seven years and I love anything to do with japan. I really do enjoy learning it. Have you learned the Hiragana? Are you using a textbook? |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Earliest Pop song memories |
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Posted: 08 May 2015, 12:04 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 824
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| My earliest pop song memory is listening to Mariah Carey on my tape player in the back of my dad's car. I remember my dad was really into Depeche Mode. My mom was into Green Day and Metallica and would play her music really loud while cleaning the house. |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Savage Garden |
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Posted: 07 May 2015, 11:49 pm
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Replies: 22
Views: 2,770
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Thank you. I forgot they even existed and haven't heard them since high school. Crash and Burn.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: need advice on my marriage... |
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Posted: 02 May 2015, 9:15 pm
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Replies: 84
Views: 3,667
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| Thank you everyone for building up my confidence or else I'd still be in the same situation. I wish I could repay everyone that's helped me. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: need advice on my marriage... |
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Posted: 02 May 2015, 9:10 pm
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Replies: 84
Views: 3,667
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| What a day. I'm staying with his mom indefinitely while I recover and make a decision. She survived a mentally and physically abusive relationship and she understands what I'm going through. I do trust her. He asked why I don't trust him today. So I just told him everything by text and took the kids... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: need advice on my marriage... |
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Posted: 02 May 2015, 12:46 pm
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Replies: 84
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| When I was working and he stayed at home with baby girl, he would lay her on couch and prop her baby bottle up to feed her. A few times I came home she was alone in living room in bouncy chair in front of tv, screaming because she fell face down and her legs were tangled in buckle holding her there.... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: need advice on my marriage... |
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Posted: 02 May 2015, 12:26 pm
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Replies: 84
Views: 3,667
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| He said a few days ago he loves me more than I love him. He said he cares about me more than he cares about himself. That he has done so much more than me to make this marriage work (something like that, I don't remember the exact word. Invested so much...) |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: need advice on my marriage... |
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Posted: 02 May 2015, 12:16 pm
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Replies: 84
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| While I was rubbing husbands back my son started choking/coughing either cause he swallowed air down wrong tube or was having trouble swallowing snot. Husband got mad and punched the headboard. He told me after diagnosis all the physical attention I give him is nice but he would rather I be there fo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: need advice on my marriage... |
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Posted: 02 May 2015, 12:06 pm
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Replies: 84
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| Two weeks ago while massaging his feet and listening to one of his new songs, little girl asked me to turn a new toy video on on her kindle. It took about five seconds to click a new one. He says I can stop rubbing his feet, shuts off music, walks away. I ask what's wrong. He says it doesn't matter.... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: need advice on my marriage... |
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Posted: 02 May 2015, 11:58 am
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Replies: 84
Views: 3,667
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| http://www.agape-aid.org/abusiverelationships/in-the-abusers-controlling-mind.php I'm barely through this and it sounds familiar. Trying to not cry. In the beginning he said he didn't want nookie with me that much because it was boring. Not enough like porno. So I worked on it. I have improved it. A... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: need advice on my marriage... |
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Posted: 02 May 2015, 11:17 am
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Replies: 84
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| This morning baby put a cracker on the floor. He yelled at him to pick it up and when baby walked away he said "what's wrong with you?!". I said he doesn't fully understand. While I held upset baby he said sorry to him. I handed baby sippy cup and baby said "dit doo"(thank you). ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: need advice on my marriage... |
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Posted: 02 May 2015, 9:26 am
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Replies: 84
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| We just found out about my AS last year. That's when things got really bad. He said he thought I was just damaged and would get better and change eventually. He is home sick for a week at least. I'm going to use this time thinking about what to do. There are women's shelters. I can call to apply for... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: need advice on my marriage... |
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Posted: 01 May 2015, 12:47 am
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Replies: 84
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He apologized in February for blaming me for past. He said it was nobody's fault. Just a result of asd.
And he realised saying the thing about throwing daughter against wall was wrong after I pointed it out in January. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: need advice on my marriage... |
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Posted: 30 Apr 2015, 11:48 pm
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Replies: 84
Views: 3,667
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| He was very good with kids tonight. Didn't get mad little girl is sleeping on couch tonight because of her nightmares. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: need advice on my marriage... |
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Posted: 30 Apr 2015, 11:42 pm
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Replies: 84
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| He knows I dont trust him. He said "who have you ever trusted?". I said friends and family. He said "what friends?". I said "this again?" (I was getting a little too brave). He said."well you don't have a lot." I said "I don't need a lot." |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: need advice on my marriage... |
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Posted: 30 Apr 2015, 11:38 pm
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Replies: 84
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| I can't point out his lying. He won't believe me. Am I just doing typical AS fact checking? His mom said he used to lie to her when he lived at home when I asked her today if she was "disturbed by my behavior" yesterday like he said she was. He told her also he stormed out because I just d... |
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