Mindtear wrote:
Its one of the things i could never get my head around ...
I can go along with you here.
The classic thing to explain the universe, and how space behaves, is to say:
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Think about the two-dimensional surface of a balloon being inflated. All the points on the surface end up further apart, but there's no "special" point on the surface, that stays still. They all move equally, out from the centre of the balloon. That "direction" of travel is at right angles to any motion that would be meaningful to a two-dimension creature living in the balloon's surface.
The mind twist needed after that, is to try to visualise our own situation, as three-dimensional creatures, living in the three-dimensional surface of a four-dimensional hyper-balloon.
The "centre" of that hyper-balloon may exist, but it is in a direction that is not one we can apprehend. We cannot measure motion in that direction.
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All the above rubbish aside, the point is that (our) three-dimensional space isn't embedded in another, somehow "bigger", more "fixed" three-dimensional space.
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