Several LAW AND ORDER: CRIMINAL INTENT episodes:
"In the Wee Small Hours"--there's a scene where Eames has to testify in court about her partner's (Goren's) mental stability. She's forced to tell the truth about what she first thought of him when they were paired up--the look on her face, and the sound of her voice, is heartbreaking--I think she has to admit that she initially wanted a different partner. She does get to say (finally) that he's one of the best partners she's ever had, and a damn good detective. The fact that he is right there, listening to all this, and his expression DOES NOT CHANGE, makes it even worse for her (and the audience).
Of course, afterwards, when she's apologizing to him, he just shrugs nonchalantly and says "I am an acquired taste" and that's the end of it.
There's a later episode where she's kidnapped by Goren's former mentor (or, rather, his daughter) as a "test" of sorts, and Goren's going crazy trying to find her--his fear for her safety...wow.
The one where he finds out that his real father is this psychotic killer who's in prison for life--making him question who (and what) he is, all over again.
The ending episodes where he's kind of "lost it" and is seeing a psychologist. Every emotion he's ever had comes pouring out. Vincent D'Onofrio is a brilliant actor.
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The existence of the leader who is wise
is barely known to those he leads.
He acts without unnecessary speech,
so that the people say,
'It happened of its own accord.' -Tao Te Ching, Verse 17