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31 Mar 2011, 12:03 pm

This is just great...an aspie community, so when I fail here and end up alone and depressed here too, than I am really _f_u_c_k_e_d_ I guess.



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31 Mar 2011, 12:10 pm

Hi there! I doubt you'll "fail" here!

I hope you find this planet to your liking!



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31 Mar 2011, 12:12 pm

193cm wrote:
This is just great...an aspie community, so when I fail here and end up alone and depressed here too, than I am really _f_u_c_k_e_d_ I guess.

Yeah, I guess that's technically correct, but maybe not the most auspicious way to get into this. What makes you believe you're destined to fail? A lot of (as you say) skeptical people end up really thriving here. You should, too.


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31 Mar 2011, 12:25 pm

40 years of practising...

RainingRoses wrote:
193cm wrote:
This is just great...an aspie community, so when I fail here and end up alone and depressed here too, than I am really _f_u_c_k_e_d_ I guess.

Yeah, I guess that's technically correct, but maybe not the most auspicious way to get into this. What makes you believe you're destined to fail? A lot of (as you say) skeptical people end up really thriving here. You should, too.



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31 Mar 2011, 12:31 pm

I used to feel like that too...when I first joined I was very fragile and low-esteem and needed something to give me an identity/justify my life. Being a clever aspie forum poster/meet up goer had go to perfectly to make up for my failures in the NT world. I had done the same thing previously with other hobbies, put all my identity in them so that had to go well or I was crushed. Then I just sat back and realised that most aspies are jerks, chilled out to enjoy the ride. People here, and in every aspie group can be pricks and probably will exclude you at some point...just find peace in yourself.



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31 Mar 2011, 12:33 pm

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40 years of practising...

OK, ya got me by a couple! :mrgreen: So, you're a witty failure. Give it a shot anyway ... you may surprise yourself.


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31 Mar 2011, 2:26 pm

Welcome to WP, FNAO :lol:


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31 Mar 2011, 2:32 pm

Welcome!


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31 Mar 2011, 3:25 pm

Welcome to Wrong Planet. :)

With your perspective, you'll probably fit in pretty well here. I used to think of myself as "an outcast, even among outcasts", until I came here. Now, okay, maybe I'm a little weird, but I'm not an outcast, either.


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04 Apr 2011, 12:53 pm

Welkome to WrongPlanet. :)

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04 Apr 2011, 5:01 pm

193cm wrote:
40 years of practising...

RainingRoses wrote:
193cm wrote:
This is just great...an aspie community, so when I fail here and end up alone and depressed here too, than I am really _f_u_c_k_e_d_ I guess.

Yeah, I guess that's technically correct, but maybe not the most auspicious way to get into this. What makes you believe you're destined to fail? A lot of (as you say) skeptical people end up really thriving here. You should, too.


Yup. 41 years of faking it and just diagnosed last week here. It was a shock, but also a weight being lifted off my shoulders. You know what? I'm almost certain to f**k up and say something wrong at some point on this board, 'cos that's how my brain is wired. However, I know that here I'm also surrounded by people who understand what it's like to have a brain just like mine. They'll get it; we'll all move on together.

At least, I HOPE they'll get it. By the way, you're all a bunch of bastards.
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P.S. Welcome :)


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04 Apr 2011, 9:27 pm

LankyBrit wrote:
193cm wrote:
40 years of practising...

RainingRoses wrote:
193cm wrote:
This is just great...an aspie community, so when I fail here and end up alone and depressed here too, than I am really _f_u_c_k_e_d_ I guess.

Yeah, I guess that's technically correct, but maybe not the most auspicious way to get into this. What makes you believe you're destined to fail? A lot of (as you say) skeptical people end up really thriving here. You should, too.


Yup. 41 years of faking it and just diagnosed last week here. It was a shock, but also a weight being lifted off my shoulders. You know what? I'm almost certain to f**k up and say something wrong at some point on this board, 'cos that's how my brain is wired. However, I know that here I'm also surrounded by people who understand what it's like to have a brain just like mine. They'll get it; we'll all move on together.

At least, I HOPE they'll get it. By the way, you're all a bunch of bastards.
:twisted:

P.S. Welcome :)


Oh boy, now I'm second guessing myself as to whether that came across as funnily as it sounded in my head. For the record, that was meant to be ironic and cheeky, not insulting in any way. Isn't having absolutely no idea of what's socially acceptable, or how any given statement will be read fun?


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05 Apr 2011, 9:33 am

LankyBrit wrote:
Oh boy, now I'm second guessing myself as to whether that came across as funnily as it sounded in my head. For the record, that was meant to be ironic and cheeky, not insulting in any way. Isn't having absolutely no idea of what's socially acceptable, or how any given statement will be read fun?

It was funny. :D Take it easy on yourself... :wink:



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05 Apr 2011, 10:14 am

RainingRoses wrote:
LankyBrit wrote:
Oh boy, now I'm second guessing myself as to whether that came across as funnily as it sounded in my head. For the record, that was meant to be ironic and cheeky, not insulting in any way. Isn't having absolutely no idea of what's socially acceptable, or how any given statement will be read fun?

It was funny. :D Take it easy on yourself... :wink:


*phew* that's OK then. I was worried there!


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05 Apr 2011, 11:27 am

You just made me :lol: !

And just relax! - You're among friends here!! !

Just got my Dx a month ago, myself. and the papers two weeks later. And what a reliewe it was!! !
Finally i got the tools to understand how NT's saw me! - And why they are always surfasing, being "social" :wink: