peterd wrote:
Don't be taken in - they're not answering your question because they don't know the answer.
If you have aspergers, you're different. That's the nub of it. There's a way of being that builds empathy between individuals, and we don't have the right socket to get access to it.
In the old days, we assumed everyone else was just like us and made our way through life as best we could. Nowadays they call us aspies and tell us there's nothing can be done about it. So we make our way through life as best we can.
Experts need entire books to explain the condition to others. People with it can fill an entire book telling people how it affected them or how it was part of experiences that shaped them. A birds eye description may be good for when you are telling someone else that you have AS and what it means. But, I think most with AS want specifics to see if the label applies to them. Each persons experiences are unique for various reasons, so finding those things presented in a manner that you connect with takes a while. If I could explain something that is so complex and integrated into my own being that it affected my own perception of my entire life, in just two lines, I wouldn't hesitate to do so. I don't think I'm capable of that type of thought compression, and I don't think that compressed thought would be very useful to the OP. So, I agree with what Willard suggested.
To heisenbug:
Welcome to Wrong Planet!
One suggestion I have is to use the search feature up on the top right corner of the page. You wouldn't believe some of the off the wall topics that have been discussed on this site. Just throw in any question you have and hit search.
Example:
Is [insert odd personal quirk here] a symptom of AS?"