Hello all, really new here.

Post Reply New Topic

Let's see. I guess I should start from the top. I'm engaged to a wonderful girl named Brittany both of us have AS. I'm dealing with Major Depression as well as OCD. I all ways knew that I'm different from other people. I didn't realize until I found several AS forums and joinned them that I'm not the only one. I thought I was going crazy. I've been living in Ga since 5ft grade and before that I lived in Wisconson, Alaska and other places that I don't really remember since being really young. I have trouble remembering things that aren't repeated over and over. So does Brittany she is very forgetful. I don't know if it's just us but we hate being bored we always want to be busy. She's the one deciding on when our wedding day is but she wants to go to an art school before she marries me. She wants to get paid making cartoons. I enjoy writing novels if you've played any of the Final Fantasy series then that's how my novels are like. I'm really trying to get over this depression because I hate it and it's keeping me from being mentally stable. Without being stable Brittany is afriad to be with me. She's currently in a Voc Rehab center in Warm Springs GA and the staff there won't let me visit her since they don't know that I'm stable. I do want to get stable and so does my fiance' We're both 19 and I can't wait to see her again. I miss her so very much. I'm trying to get through day by day but the last few weeks has been really boring since I haven't been able to get any therapy or any work. Since I don't have a job, don't have a liscense and don't have a car I'm really helpless when it comes to being somewhere other than being at my parents house all day long with no one to talk to. I'm sorry that this is sort of long but I go on and on without even knowing it. The years I needed my dad the most my dad was always away doing his job on a Coast Guard Cutter since he used to be in the Coast Guard. I never did get along with him. I think this is the place where I end it now you guys can reply or something. Sorry for the ranting.

Don't be sorry for your post! Its a great way for us to get to know you!

Welcome. Please visit the forums and starting posting when you are confortable.

BeeBee

Thanks. I'll be around.

And I think a welcome to Wrongplanet is in order!



That is always a good starting point! And don't mind if I pry open you brain occassionally.



How did you meet?



Can you describe to the degree of your depression and OCD?



That seems to be a reflection of my finding this, as well as others due
to the lack of adult support that is overridden by the age 21 and cap
our government see! What forums did you go to before this?



Hmmmmm? Creeeaaaaakkkkkkk! as your casket is being opened and
your bones being sifted through. Hmmmmmm? Where do I start?

Hmmmmm?

1)....Describe your childhood issues
2)....Describe your adolesence
3)....Describe your parents
=These often unlock pieces of your present state!

Thanks for answereing if you chose to do so!



Hmmmmm? Military family?



sounds like me. My last employer, the one who brought AS awareness
has often said the same thing about me.



Describe her forgetfulness



Nothing wrong with this. I am a extrovert and require external energies.
Yet other aspies are introvert and hide in a book.

For me, I go into my worst memories if left alone for days.
Is this one of the reasons for your exrovertness?



Good for her, a education is a key to expansion, be it personal or externally motivated.



Artistic talent is a common thing in autism, god bless it!




Pryyyyyyy! Open goes your casket door again!

Sift, sift! Hmmmmm?

pre-aspie outing or post aspie outing depression?
Describe it's characteristics?
Describe your younger years that may have created this unstablility?



Zooooo! Vat do ve got vere????

vhat duz Yuz Do that causes this reaction?
Vhat duz She do that causes you to react?



Prryyyyyyy! casket gets opened again!

Were your parents addicted to something, abusive or something of that
nature that caused this adulthood characteristic? Just a hunch!

Describe your childhood?



Hmmmmm? Pryed open casket again!

Hmmmmm? Are your or her parents forbidding this meeting?
hmmmmmm? Are their court issues?

Hmmmmm?



so I safely can say you havent seen her for over 1 month?
What therapy?
What makes them not work?
What do you do specifically that makes them ineffective?



Then don't move to Dakota County, it is just as bad in a non-connecting way?
Here is Dakota County I am just allowing what I feel is importable to another
place to live due to lack of social and transportation requirements. I don't drive
a car since I am not confident in such a responsiblity, and I am 40.

Why don't you drive a car?



I luvvvvvv long posts, they allow me to better understand new members.



A-ha, I thought you lived in a military family!

Thanks for joining Wrongplanet and Enjoy!

Sincerely,
Ghosthunter

You just love picking things apart don't you? Those are to many questions to answer all in one day. Let see my depression I don't know what it's really called other than Major Depression haven't really studied about it. Yes my dad was in the Coast Guard but since 5th grade he's retired. I don't have a car, don't even have a freaking driver's license even though I'm 19. How did I meet my fiance' well I met her when I 'was' in this Voc Rehab Center. When I first met her I knew that's she's the one. Yeah I haven't seen here since January. I was discharged because I was really mentally unstable I was having to many melt downs and I'm still having melt downs yesterday was the last time I had one. Childhood...don't remember much from it. What would you like to know? I've been with my fiance' even before she came my fiance' since Oct 23 of last year and we really got closer together in Nov. No actually no addictions at all my parents don't. No her parents really have no clue about me my fiance' she can't seem to get her self to tell them but I don't see where they wouldn't let me visit her. It's just that the staff there in Warm Springs GA won't let be even visit her since I'm not a member of her family as yet. Don't know where you're getting at with the all these many questions. If I'm not careful I'll probably make this reply into a novel a really long one. Couldn't you get to know me little by little? I don't know what caused me being unstable I really don't know. Or maybe I do and I don't want to tell. Actually it's really embaresing really. All right I had many melt downs and the last one I had was the one that really got me kicked out of there. I had a melt down in front of my fiance' and even a campus cop had to ask what's going on. Since not only me was there with her but with my friends. I don't really want to go into it with detail but things are much better between me and my fiance' I just want to get better. No I never went to court luckily. Yeah I know it's good for her get her education but what I supposed to do until our wedding day? She want's to go to a four year art school. Hopefully I'll be able to get a job, save money for rent for an apartment which should be in Rome GA or Tucker Ga. Her parents live in Tucker. Am I talking to much? I don't really feel like telling you about everything besides what I just listed.

And thanks for being open! In the best way you chose!

sincerely,
Ghosthunter

Welcome to Wrong Planet. I wish you and your partner a bright future together. I look forward to reading your posts.

Congrats on the engagement Tiger, I am happy for you that you found a nice Aspie girl!