I am a 51 yr old man in New York. Two years ago, I heard about Asperger's and learned enough to diagnose myself, then went and had myself formally diagnosed. I am a health professional, married, two kids in middle school. I always thought I was (and was thought to be) "normal, just a little eccentric". But I always knew I was really different and it all made sense. My first reaction was elation that I had an explanation, then depression of the "if only" kind. I am still sorting out what parts of me are AS, and which are just me, and I am not even sure that there's a point to thinking this way.
There is more to the story than that, but at least up to this point in the story, I wonder if anyone else has gone through something similar.
I am also currently out of work for the first time in twenty years, and I wonder if anyone has any interview advice.