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17 Feb 2005, 11:22 pm

I am a 51 yr old man in New York. Two years ago, I heard about Asperger's and learned enough to diagnose myself, then went and had myself formally diagnosed. I am a health professional, married, two kids in middle school. I always thought I was (and was thought to be) "normal, just a little eccentric". But I always knew I was really different and it all made sense. My first reaction was elation that I had an explanation, then depression of the "if only" kind. I am still sorting out what parts of me are AS, and which are just me, and I am not even sure that there's a point to thinking this way.
There is more to the story than that, but at least up to this point in the story, I wonder if anyone else has gone through something similar.
I am also currently out of work for the first time in twenty years, and I wonder if anyone has any interview advice.



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18 Feb 2005, 1:04 am

Welcome to WP, aspiedad! I'm 17, and I was formally diagnosed over a year and half ago.

I was so relieved when I first discovered the reasons for all my oddities. Then I went through a stage of depression when it really sunk it and I realised this is permanent. Just like you, I have also wondered how much of me is me and how much is the AS. I think it is one of those things I will wonder for the rest of my life. You are in good company here!

I am still in high school and I have only been employed by parents so I can't give you any advice about interviewing. Sorry.



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18 Feb 2005, 10:16 am

Welcome Aspiedad! You are going to love it here. :D



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18 Feb 2005, 12:15 pm

Welcome to wrong planet aspiedad :D


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20 Feb 2005, 6:51 pm


Hi there : ) I am a mom of an 11 year old wonderful son with AS : ) He was diagnosed at age 4........so I think I'm a pro right? WRONG!! !! !! My son is having a real tough time now that he realizes aspergers is for life.
His moods are all over the place and I am very patient but very tired too. I adore this child........but if I make it through this puberty stuff sane....I'll sure surprise myself! We are from Massachusetts. Any one wanna say Hi ?



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20 Feb 2005, 7:17 pm

Hi Koreana, welcome to WrongPlanet! You sound to have your hands full - the teenage years are hard for any parent to cope with I imagine, I know I was hard work. Our kids are 8, 6 and 18 months so we have the joys of leading our asplet through his teens in a couple of years... the blind leading the blind you could say, as I did such a fine job myself. :roll:

Hopefully someone can give you some helpful advice Koreana... pass it on when you get it. :D

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20 Feb 2005, 8:01 pm

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Hi Koreana. I am from southern New Hampshire, though I attend school in Rhode Island. New England is a great place :) .



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20 Feb 2005, 8:19 pm

Cool Civet.My son and I were shopping at the Rockingham Mall today : )



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20 Feb 2005, 9:09 pm

I'm from Massachusetts and I go to college in New Hampshire.



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21 Feb 2005, 7:49 am

Small world....not to be taken literally of cource :wink:



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21 Feb 2005, 8:07 am

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Where in Massachusetts and where in NH, Ghotistix?

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Though in the grand scheme of things... :)



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21 Feb 2005, 10:23 am

Civet wrote:
Where in Massachusetts and where in NH, Ghotistix?

My home is in Stoneham, about 15 miles north of Boston. I go to Plymouth State University in Plymouth, NH. It's convenient because Route 93 goes straight through Plymouth and Stoneham :)



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21 Feb 2005, 11:23 am

North Andover here. We are neighbors Stoneham.......not too far.