Newbie here
Hi, everyone~ I finally decided to look into support forums and connecting with other Aspies after a horrible day...after all getting 'If you have a disorder like that you shouldn't be in society because you can't handle it!!' yelled in your face has a way of hurting one and ruining their day...
I guess, in general, I'm just sick of more or less being written off, hurt, and disregarded by neurotypical individuals who don't understand the Spectrum and those that hold the general view of people on the Spectrum being somehow sub-human. It's one thing to hear it on the internet a lot (can't really help when you're a 22 year old who doesn't feel the need to hide my diagnosis), but to finally hear it literally yelled in my face...it was something painful on a new level.
So yeah, I'm really looking forward to meeting others like myself and who can relate to the struggles I face, but also understand I have a great capacity to live life and enjoy myself. I'm also really wanting to get involved in more advocacy (something my life coach is currently helping with) because, like I said, I'm tired of the general view, and I desperately want to change it. I really do hope for a world where people can have a better understanding of the Spectrum and where future individuals on it might not have to suffer some of the same pains that I have.
I really do apologize for such a downer of a introduction post, I'm just in a bit of a strange situation right now.
There is nothing that irritates me more than hearing all the BS media portrays about aspergers such as "people with aspergers have little to no empathy" or "people with an asd are less intelligent or more violent" blablablabla you get the idea. I am not even sure i have aspergers to be honest, im just accepting that either way i am similar to people who have it. Have you ever felt that you literally have tried everything possible in order to "fit in" and function properly in society only to conclude that it is not my fault for who i am, it is societies fault for not accepting my behavior because its abnormal? Does anybody ever feel like that?
