Well, I've never been diagnosed with AS or any other psych condition (where I grew up in the 50s there were no psychologists) but since i was 5 yrs old some form of autism has always been evident. From the first morning I showed up for school, before the doors of the school even opened, I felt sure that i was on the wrong planet.
Despite that, i've worked 35 + yrs as an insurance adjuster/accident investigator and, at approx 10 yr intervals, i've made 2-3 yr forays into the social or NT world, withdrawing in despair or disgust at the end of each one.
Throughout my life i've also been a writer - with approx 20 unpublished short stories & a self-published novel which i won't name here because I don't want to be accused of advertising.
My discovery of Wrong Planet was an unexpected surprise - shy/autistic people communicating with each other in a group - that's historic - but this discovery came during my most recent withdrawal from humanity, so at first I planned to remain a spectator.
But the topics you've been debating here are too interesting & i have too much to say about them, so it's time that I started contributing.
AC