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14 Jan 2017, 7:45 pm

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Mr. A., you are not who I thought you were at all. You are making excuses for certain people. In this circumstance, she finally figured out she was wrong and still nothing happened. If I had said that word, I would have gotten another warning.


That is an unfair accusation. You don't know what warnings were given, or under consideration. Your imagined version of events is incorrect.

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And how come you just dismissed my question on your "Deplorable" thread?


A personal attack is a hostile statement about a person. At the point when I joined this discussion, personal attacks were under discussion. I didn't mean to slight or dismiss you, but was focused on something else.

Your question was:
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Since we are on this subject and you are bringing up these examples, wasn't your thread about "Trump Deplorables" out of line? You actually had a few Conservative members here (including myself) who were offended by the thread and it was left open. Why was that thread any different?


And you posted this in response to my discussion of personal attacks, with discussion and hypothetical examples of insinuation and indirect attack.

I freely admit that my deplorables post was strongly worded, but it was also not directed at an individual or group of individuals other than those promoting racism, misogyny and xenophobia.

Many conservative posters immediately jumped down my throat for it, though my words were far less strong than those some conservatives routinely deploy against the left without moderator interference.

My words were "We know that some Trump supporters are perfectly decent Americans who don't espouse these heinous views, but there are those others and I will be using this thread to look at what makes them so very deplorable."

I chose the Some/Others dichotomy carefully, matching the words used by Trump in his infamous speech enumerating the qualities of Mexicans "sent" to the United States. If it's OK for Trump to say that because of his some, how is it not OK for me to use the same language to decry that portion of his supporters that I truly deplore?

I explicitly stated that this was not a comment about all Trump supporters, but some ignored that. That doesn't make that topic a personal attack. That the hateful people I was talking about happen to support the same presidential candidate as you doesn't make the post about you and no such targeting was implied or indirectly stated, it was explicitly excluded.

I don't think any PPR regular wants a safe space where they are free from the danger of ever reading a political opinion they disagree with.

So to directly and unambiguously answer your question, the other mods looked at those complaints and concluded that the post did not meet the standards for offensive content and wasn't a personal attack. Had they found that it crossed the ppr guidelines or site rules it would have come down.


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14 Jan 2017, 7:49 pm

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You are no better than filth on the bottom of my shoes that I'm going to walk all over tonight.


In passing, this is a really good example of a direct personal attack.


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14 Jan 2017, 8:04 pm

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You are no better than filth on the bottom of my shoes that I'm going to walk all over tonight.


In passing, this is a really good example of a direct personal attack.


Kind of illustrates the issue, people get punished for responding to something while the initiator gets off scot free far too often. Angie said that some poster here created a sockpuppet account to said hateful messages to her, that would be a bannable offense would it not?



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14 Jan 2017, 8:18 pm

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Adamantium wrote:
nurseangela wrote:
You are no better than filth on the bottom of my shoes that I'm going to walk all over tonight.


In passing, this is a really good example of a direct personal attack.


Kind of illustrates the issue, people get punished for responding to something while the initiator gets off scot free far too often. Angie said that some poster here created a sockpuppet account to said hateful messages to her, that would be a bannable offense would it not?


You literally don't know what you are talking about. You don't know who gets warned or banned or when.

Yes, creating a sockpuppet to launch attacks would be a bannable offense. I can't answer the truth about what may or may not be in Angela's messages. Mods have no access to PMs unless they are reported, she says hasn't reported these.

Now might be a good time to remind people of site rule 3 which prohibits, among other things:
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discussion of locked topics, discussion of banned members and why they were banned


There are good reasons for that rule, even if they aren't immediately obvious, and they aren't about protecting mods.


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14 Jan 2017, 9:18 pm

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Now might be a good time to remind people of site rule 3 which prohibits, among other things:
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discussion of locked topics, discussion of banned members and why they were banned


There are good reasons for that rule, even if they aren't immediately obvious, and they aren't about protecting mods.


Personally I think that rule should be ammended to include discussing warnings as well


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14 Jan 2017, 9:27 pm

There was a user recently who requested a voluntary ban before anyone could report them for the multiple toxic posts they made that broke multiple rules.

There are threads that get locked before someone can report the user who got it locked in the first place and reporting someone for what they said in a thread that is already locked seems pointless and sounds like something the mods would ignore.

Or is it actually possible to report a user in a thread already locked once action has already been taken to prevent the user from spewing any more toxic speech?

Like Jacob,y I too have often seen a thread get locked because TWO people begin arguing with one another and flinging personal attacks around, and by the time I see it unfold the thread's already locked before I can report anything, and it seems everyone else must be too hesitant to bother reporting as well.

This could be why some users who have broken a massive amount of rules for a very long time on WP remain relatively untouched aside from a few warnings.

Mods don't read every thread, and I'm sure some of the one's who lock threads probably just skim it over, see that the last 2 pages are toxic arguing and rulebreaking even if it's only two bullies who should be banned and posts deleted, and decide that's enough to warrant a thread lock.



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14 Jan 2017, 10:10 pm

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Personally I think that rule should be ammended to include discussing warnings as well


Then what recourse would someone who received one for an innocuous statement have? We already have virtually no accountability here with regards to the site moderators, why give them another tool to shut down discussions they'd rather not have?


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14 Jan 2017, 10:12 pm

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I know what site you are referring to and I also saw the log being posted and I was surprised at how paranoid three of the mods were so that explained why I had problems here. It made me glad all of them were demodded. We don't want anyone here who is going to be modding other members on other sites and then read into things here they post that are not even there or wanting to punish them for stuff they do elsewhere. Those people should not be mods.


Those were interesting times.


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14 Jan 2017, 10:13 pm

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But you know what? It's not going to work with me because I will never read your PM's so you are just wasting your time.


Open his PMs, and there will be a little red exclamation point near the reply button, use that to report them to the mods if they're abusive, which will allow action to be taken against him.


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14 Jan 2017, 10:17 pm

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You are no better than filth on the bottom of my shoes that I'm going to walk all over tonight.


In passing, this is a really good example of a direct personal attack.


Then do something about him because the moderators aren't so I end up having to take care of it myself.


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14 Jan 2017, 10:18 pm

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That's why I've always thought that Janissy would be perfect, and Cornflake was pretty much perfect too.


Janissy and Visagrunt have long been my personal top choices, but unfortunately both of them are too smart to take the job. Cornflake truly was great, but even he got personal with people on occasion, just part of the human condition.


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14 Jan 2017, 10:19 pm

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But you know what? It's not going to work with me because I will never read your PM's so you are just wasting your time.


Open his PMs, and there will be a little red exclamation point near the reply button, use that to report them to the mods if they're abusive, which will allow action to be taken against him.


They don't do anything - they ban me instead. You saw how Adamantium brought up my supposed "personal attack" but said nothing about doing anything to pcuser. Nothing changes in this place and it never will. Just forget it.


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14 Jan 2017, 10:23 pm

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We are trying to recruit new mods right now. There are suitable candidates around (although so far my call for volunteers has resulted in nobody putting themselves forward; this might be because some people don't think they'd be good enough, or because people realise what a crappy job it is and don't want it). The is another issue which I'm sure long-term users can't help being aware of, suspect we're talking about the same thing. The same issue also makes it pretty hard for a mod to get removed.


There's also long been an unwritten rule that putting yourself forward for moderator was the quickest way to disqualify yourself.

As to that other "issue", rattling his cage on Facebook sometimes works.


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14 Jan 2017, 10:27 pm

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Adamantium wrote:
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You are no better than filth on the bottom of my shoes that I'm going to walk all over tonight.


In passing, this is a really good example of a direct personal attack.


Then do something about him because the moderators aren't so I end up having to take care of it myself.


Trying to avoid bringing out the content of specfic PMs here, but I asked you once by PM to report examples of the harassing PMs from him and you replied that there was nothing specific. You complained about some other harassing emails and those users were banned.

I don't understand your perception of injustice here, but if by "taking care of it myself" you mean attacking the person you believe is attacking you, don't do it. Give me something actionable, even an indirect attack loaded with insinuation and I'll take care of it. At the moment I have nothing at all to go on and can't help you.


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14 Jan 2017, 10:29 pm

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Nothing changes in this place and it never will. Just forget it.


I disagree, I've actually gotten quite a few abusive members removed over the years, it's just takes persistence and consistently reporting their bad behavior rather than retaliating yourself, which just muddies the waters.


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14 Jan 2017, 10:33 pm

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Well it seems like most long term posters are disqualified for one reason or another which is the issue, I'd do it but something tells me I'm not being considered. Come on, it would be so easy tho! :roll: :P


I think that's part of the problem, they want a squeaky clean member, but none of the people who'd be good at modding contentious forums like PPR or L&D can meet that criteria.


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