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31 Jul 2007, 7:32 am

Or the next page button.



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31 Jul 2007, 7:51 am

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Or the next page button.
After all, the threads haven't gone away - they've just been put lower down on the list. If somebody feels strongly enough, they can reply and put them back near the top. I don't see the problem.


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31 Jul 2007, 8:13 am

Pandora wrote:
Laney wrote:
Or the next page button.
After all, the threads haven't gone away - they've just been put lower down on the list. If somebody feels strongly enough, they can reply and put them back near the top. I don't see the problem.

But then it just becomes an exercise in who can post the most threads up. Would get even further back that the 3 pages you've already dominated. But I suppose this what you want.



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31 Jul 2007, 9:27 am

0_equals_true wrote:
Pandora wrote:
Laney wrote:
Or the next page button.
After all, the threads haven't gone away - they've just been put lower down on the list. If somebody feels strongly enough, they can reply and put them back near the top. I don't see the problem.

But then it just becomes an exercise in who can post the most threads up. Would get even further back that the 3 pages you've already dominated. But I suppose this what you want.
No, what I really wanted was to have discussions on some different adult topics. I was away from the website for a long time and missed a lot of things. I am seriously thinking of pulling the plug as it seems obvious to me that this website is meant for the borderline AS/NT rather than people like me who are further down on the spectrum. Whilst I am holding down a job, it has been always a struggle and I have a lot of executive dysfunction issues.


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31 Jul 2007, 9:35 am

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Laney wrote:
Or the next page button.
After all, the threads haven't gone away - they've just been put lower down on the list. If somebody feels strongly enough, they can reply and put them back near the top. I don't see the problem.

But then it just becomes an exercise in who can post the most threads up. Would get even further back that the 3 pages you've already dominated. But I suppose this what you want.
No, what I really wanted was to have discussions on some different adult topics. I was away from the website for a long time and missed a lot of things. I am seriously thinking of pulling the plug as it seems obvious to me that this website is meant for the borderline AS/NT rather than people like me who are further down on the spectrum. Whilst I am holding down a job, it has been always a struggle and I have a lot of executive dysfunction issues.

I've got a cognitive dysfunction too that includes bad executive dysfunction. Executive Dysfunction is really my main problem. I just want it to go away. As far as I'm concern you are welcome here. I would like to hear from people that suffer from cognitive dysfunctions. I felt quite different, not yet found someone with the same problems.



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31 Jul 2007, 10:10 am

0_equals_true wrote:
Pandora wrote:
0_equals_true wrote:
Pandora wrote:
Laney wrote:
Or the next page button.
After all, the threads haven't gone away - they've just been put lower down on the list. If somebody feels strongly enough, they can reply and put them back near the top. I don't see the problem.

But then it just becomes an exercise in who can post the most threads up. Would get even further back that the 3 pages you've already dominated. But I suppose this what you want.
No, what I really wanted was to have discussions on some different adult topics. I was away from the website for a long time and missed a lot of things. I am seriously thinking of pulling the plug as it seems obvious to me that this website is meant for the borderline AS/NT rather than people like me who are further down on the spectrum. Whilst I am holding down a job, it has been always a struggle and I have a lot of executive dysfunction issues.

I've got a cognitive dysfunction too that includes bad executive dysfunction. Executive Dysfunction is really my main problem. I just want it to go away. As far as I'm concern you are welcome here. I would like to hear from people that suffer from cognitive dysfunctions. I felt quite different, not yet found someone with the same problems.
Thanks, that's very kind. I don't think Alex wants me on the site any more so I should probably leave. The thing that makes the executive dysfunction so hard to cope with is I'm told I look completely normal so others don't understand why I can't just do things that they find easy eg. making phone calls.


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31 Jul 2007, 10:36 am

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Hey now, hasn't anybody heard of using a scroll bar? It isn't difficult you know.


A couple of problems with that.
This bbs software removes the
unread flag, fairly quickly. Also,
even if that weren't the case, one
more or less has to wade through
all the newly raised threads.



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31 Jul 2007, 10:38 am

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Thanks, that's very kind. I don't think Alex wants me on the site any more so I should probably leave. The thing that makes the executive dysfunction so hard to cope with is I'm told I look completely normal so others don't understand why I can't just do things that they find easy eg. making phone calls.

I know that is very, very frustrating. Sometimes I feel I'd be better off dumb.



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31 Jul 2007, 10:38 am

Pandora wrote:
Thanks, that's very kind. I don't think Alex wants me on the site any more so I should probably leave. The thing that makes the executive dysfunction so hard to cope with is I'm told I look completely normal so others don't understand why I can't just do things that they find easy eg. making phone calls.


If Alex didn't want you here, he
would have banned you. You
are a valuable member here,
and I, for one, don't want to lose
you. Even if you dislike me.

Hmm...can't make phone calls?
s**t, maybe this is part of what is
wrong with me too. I can't understand
how people can do the simple things that
everyone seems to manage without a thought.



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31 Jul 2007, 5:57 pm

Ok, Look. I'm going to say this. and I'm going to as kyou all to be calm about it. i don't haveany idea why you are bringing up"utter ubbish" websites. it sounds like some exclusis adult Aspie club to me, can't find anything on it, and frankly I don't give a monkey's rectum. But I am sick and tired of all this crap arguing and fighting! Lets just shut the crap up about it and KNOCK IT OFF! ok? because this is not cool. or is it fun. Ok? no more arguing. no more talk of conspircay among wbsites, forums, administrators and mods. stop arguing, banning, advertising, and acting like 3 yeaar olds. we get the idea. we know whats going on, and whats not! lets keep it cool, and calm, and stop freaking out over stuff. This is suposed to be about support and over the past two months my opinion of the AScommunity has been severly lowered. I see no support. Lets get back to the supporting, and stop the bickering, ok people?



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31 Jul 2007, 6:20 pm

ShadesOfMe wrote:
Ok, Look. I'm going to say this. and I'm going to as kyou all to be calm about it. i don't haveany idea why you are bringing up"utter ubbish" websites. it sounds like some exclusis adult Aspie club to me, can't find anything on it, and frankly I don't give a monkey's rectum. But I am sick and tired of all this crap arguing and fighting! Lets just shut the crap up about it and KNOCK IT OFF! ok? because this is not cool. or is it fun. Ok? no more arguing. no more talk of conspircay among wbsites, forums, administrators and mods. stop arguing, banning, advertising, and acting like 3 yeaar olds. we get the idea. we know whats going on, and whats not! lets keep it cool, and calm, and stop freaking out over stuff. This is suposed to be about support and over the past two months my opinion of the AScommunity has been severly lowered. I see no support. Lets get back to the supporting, and stop the bickering, ok people?


Oh yes. Let's everyone shut up and toe
the line.

Look, if something unreasonable happens, this
is exactly where it should be discussed. In this
forum. I'm not sure what the hell you're going
off about, but trying to squelch debate about
the site is the worst thing one can do.



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31 Jul 2007, 7:25 pm

ShadesOfMe wrote:
Ok, Look. I'm going to say this. and I'm going to as kyou all to be calm about it. i don't haveany idea why you are bringing up"utter ubbish" websites. it sounds like some exclusis adult Aspie club to me, can't find anything on it, and frankly I don't give a monkey's rectum. But I am sick and tired of all this crap arguing and fighting! Lets just shut the crap up about it and KNOCK IT OFF! ok? because this is not cool. or is it fun. Ok? no more arguing. no more talk of conspircay among wbsites, forums, administrators and mods. stop arguing, banning, advertising, and acting like 3 yeaar olds. we get the idea. we know whats going on, and whats not! lets keep it cool, and calm, and stop freaking out over stuff. This is suposed to be about support and over the past two months my opinion of the AScommunity has been severly lowered. I see no support. Lets get back to the supporting, and stop the bickering, ok people?


If we do what you say, then not only will the issues continue, bubbling under the surface, but they will escalate and get worse. These issues are best dealt with out in the open. We can't just will them away.


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01 Aug 2007, 5:20 am

Funny thing is there is honesty and "honesty". I leave it to the readership to decide which one you're referring to.


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01 Aug 2007, 8:59 am

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Funny thing is there is honesty and "honesty". I leave it to the readership to decide which one you're referring to.


But lies are best dealt with, with further
openness.



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01 Aug 2007, 10:20 am

calandale wrote:
Pandora wrote:
Funny thing is there is honesty and "honesty". I leave it to the readership to decide which one you're referring to.


But lies are best dealt with, with further
openness.
Yeah, to expose them as such.


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