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Simonono
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24 Mar 2011, 1:36 pm

I have, okay my mum has, reported the prick who was touching me very innapropriately and generally pissing me off the entire year, to college. Well he isn't out of my life forever just yet. He has been suspended from college for a week, and I'm praying that something good will come out of it.

If not, then I will just have no choice other than to actually use proper physical force against him to make him stop. If he does know it was me who reported him, well I'm screwed and will have enemies for life (him and his "friends"). I also feel bad about letting it go on for so long, and not telling my teachers, because I have never had the confidence to do that; I am weak.

My tutor was crying over the phone when she had heard about what was happening. :roll: I really should have done something properly about it myself way back in last year. But then I can't change the past.

So that's it; he won't be coming in for a week, and I am screwed if he or his friends know it was me. In which case I reckon I'll have to be prepared for a fight with somebody. Of course if it was my way I have loved for him to go to jail, or perhaps a final showdown where I tie him to a chair in a dark room and torture him, like in the movies.

I cannot wait till college is over and then I'll be free, escaping to France in the summer and whatnot.



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24 Mar 2011, 2:02 pm

Glad your tutor was upset; at least the adults are taking this seriously.

Don't worry. If he tries any crap again, the college will probably kick him out.



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24 Mar 2011, 2:42 pm

Nice to see you did something about it. People like that should be locked up in jail.



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24 Mar 2011, 5:13 pm

Wow, he's just sent me a message on Facebook saying he's so sorry about what happened. I'm grateful for that. :)

I know what I did was right, but I still can't get these thoughts of guilt and worry out though, getting him suspended and whatnot, and what people may think of me. Has anyone got any advice for this?



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24 Mar 2011, 5:50 pm

That's just Stockholm syndrome ; its a human reaction. You are still in the right for the action; and he needed to learn.

Interesting use of facebook. Accept the apology (or pretend it for your own safety). Never see him again, so that chapter of his life is completely over. Seeing you will only renew it.



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24 Mar 2011, 6:03 pm

Infoseeker wrote:
That's just Stockholm syndrome ; its a human reaction. You are still in the right for the action; and he needed to learn.

Interesting use of facebook. Accept the apology (or pretend it for your own safety). Never see him again, so that chapter of his life is completely over. Seeing you will only renew it.


Thanks :). Although I've still got 3 months of college left with him :(



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25 Mar 2011, 4:58 pm

Honestly? Get pepper spray for a key chain or a stun gun. You don't have to use it but if he knows it's there he may back off. And what ever you do, do not talk to him, internet or otherwise. Block him from your facebook page.

And don't feel guilty, bad behavior has consequences.