Joined: 5 Mar 2013 Age: 35 Gender: Female Posts: 753
26 Apr 2014, 1:40 pm
If you are more logical, those fields can be great. However, you should be warned that more and more tech/engineering companies are wanting extroverted people with good communication skills. I think as long as you are ABLE to communicate in a way people understand, you should be fine. Lack of eye contact, being "quirky", and other traits shouldn't matter unless you are speaking to clients.
Joined: 12 Nov 2011 Gender: Female Posts: 1,040 Location: Maine, USA
26 Apr 2014, 2:48 pm
I'm also in a male-dominated profession though over the last twenty years that has been changing. I do get along with males better but I also manage stress less effectively due to GAD/ASD combo so they don't like it when I get "emotional". Of course on the other hand, they love my calm focus on the hot line during a busy rush! Also the attention to detail matters in a restaurant, it's one of my top selling points when looking for more work.
The downside to restaurant work is poor management, that can be a complete stress nightmare, you're left to fend for yourself in a very schoolyard way that sometimes ends up in fist fights right on the line! Get a good crew though-- you're working with 2-3 other people very closely and you have to be a good communicator -- so they have to be too!
Joined: 25 Feb 2014 Age: 43 Gender: Female Posts: 3,543 Location: Mostly in my head
08 May 2014, 7:48 pm
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I think male dominated professions, like: Engineering, Accounting, Medicine, Computer stuff, anything male dominated really, even Law Enforcement and Firefighting, are better career fits for Aspies versus female dominated professions, because in general women have better social skills than men.
Yes, yes, a hundred times, yes! I'm high functioning, but I'm just not wired to deal with communication or hierarchy or allegiances or disputes on a female level. I just don't have the skills.