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JoanWatson709
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05 Jan 2013, 8:39 am

First of all, I'm not sure if this is in the right forum or not. Hwever, it seemed likely, so here goes nothing!
I would like to be a graphic designer after college. However, one of the main parts of this job (and most jobs, for that matter) is having interpersonal skills. I don't know about you guys, but that's an area in which I'm lacking. I don't want to pursue a different job, but I don't know how to connect with people.
Any tips?
Thanks in advance!


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05 Jan 2013, 10:48 pm

It's a valid concern but don't let that stop you. I too have (very) limited social skills, though they've developed over time from being exposed to my colleagues. What ultimately matters is that you do great work—that's what will get you noticed and will keep you employed. I've worked in small and big agencies—in small ones, you work closely with most of the staff and it might be easier for you to integrate to the team. They would likely be more accommodating of any particular needs you may have. Larger agencies have the benefits of anonymity—we're over 200 employees at my current job, easy to blend in. That being said, it's a more stressful environment and you will most likely be expected to participate in client presentations and "sell" your work. It personally causes me a LOT of anxiety every time one is coming up.

Your social impairment doesn't invalidate your work. Always present designs that you are proud of and you'll do alright—trust me, they'll tolerate your quirks if they need you because of your skills. Best of luck!