A question about 'stimming'
My 7 year old does quite a bit of this kind of "stimming." She doesn't do the typical autistic stimming, but she flaps her hands when she gets really excited. She chews her hair if it's down (we have to keep it in a pony tail). She also sings....constantly...especially in the car. We are always having fights in the car because she wants to sing the whole time and her sisters want a chance to sing too. She'll sing the same song over and over and over. Then my 5 year old points out all the lines that she sung wrong. If she gets upset or feels stressed out, she'll just come out with some garbled speech that means nothing. It's very frustrating for everyone. So, yes, I do think it's a form of stimming...something that happens when she is stressed. She also seems very auditorily sensitive as well...which is kind of funny since she is technically deaf...but can hear quite nicely with cochlear implants.
From what I understand, there can be different types...there were some listed here on this site. When I was still very small (before I could talk) I would make humming noises and 'sing' jibberish when I was put down to go to sleep. My babysitter would tell my mom I sang myself to sleep :] I think I may have been verbally stimming, and that could be what your daughter is doing as well. I still do it a little, to be honest. When no one is around I just hum nonsense to myself or if the television is on, sometimes I repeat what they're saying. For a long time I thought I was just talking to myself like some people do, but recently I've thought it may be a stim.
‘Stims’ may include things like rocking back and forth, twirling or pulling at hair, swaying from side to side, spinning in circles, pacing back and forth, flapping arms, or picking at skin. Conversely, breathing and blinking your eyes are both repetitive, but they serve a definite purpose and thus are not considered stims. Stimming can also be used to describe more OCD type behaviors like lining things up in strait lines.
So, would making sounds be considered a stim? I don't really know. It is both repetitive and non functional, but it isn't what people would normally would think of when they hear the word stimming. So.. I don't know, maybe?
To be honest, does it matter whether or not it qualifies as a stim?
You mentioned picking at the skin. My daughter who is about to turn 18 and was recently diagnosed was doing serious damage to her arms and legs when she was about 13. She was not diagnosed with AS then but the pediatrician put her on celexa and it stopped for awhile....I have noticed that she is doing it again but not to the extent that she was. She says she does it because she is bored, but not sure if that is the real reason. Im thinking its like a stim and she also says it does not hurt when she does it. She, like me, has a high pain tolerance so she can really make serious holes in her skin and it seems she does the most damage when she is under a lot of stress. Our Psychiatrist has put her back on celexa since her DX but it is not working as it did. She already has terrible scars that she is very self conscious of to the point where she rarely wears short sleeves or shorts (only around her family or boyfriend). I got her some cream from the dermatologist that have faded some of the more shallow scars but now that she is doing it again she is getting more.
Have you heard of or do you know of any help for this type of thing?
My youngest son picks at the skin on his face. His OT told us that he has sensory issues and it was not stimming. He does not pick sores in it though so I am not sure what to do about that.
That doesn't make any sense. The reason people stim is because of sensory issues. That's like saying your child isn't a boy, he is young male. Its the exact same thing.
