Caitlin wrote:
DW has some EXCELLENT advice. I just wanted to comment on your description of a christian marriage - is that her own personal definition? It certainly is not the definition of the mennonite church - maybe 50 years ago it was, but some of the most modern and progressive Christian sects are mennonite. I still feel you should contact him yourself. Something tells me, as a guy prowling the internet instead of the nearest city, he's got a bit of the coward in him, and hearing from you, her family, could make him disappear.
DW has excellent advice . That is her personal description of a Christian marriage. I have emailed him and his mother but have not heard from them recently