Regarding being a fit parent
What a b***h.
Get a good lawyer.
No, there is no LEGITIMATE reason people on the spectrum can't be good parents-- but it's not the first time I've heard of someone saying it or even making it fly. It's pretty widely believed.
I've had medical professionals threaten to get DCFS involved-- not because anything was actually wrong (other than that I had the unmitigated gall to have a panic attack in public) but simply because I disclosed my diagnosis.
Not having a formal diagnosis works in your favor.
Get a good lawyer. Pay whatever you have to. Do whatever they tell you.
Personally, I'd try to press charges against the f*****g whoremaster. That's probably the only thing that's going to shut her up.
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"Alas, our dried voices when we whisper together are quiet and meaningless, as wind in dry grass, or rats' feet over broken glass in our dry cellar." --TS Eliot, "The Hollow Men"
