equinn wrote:
"I'm going to try to be mindful in my response here because I feel like I just got rather unfairly jumped on. "
I apologize--I just think that too many parents are a bit oveerreactive to their kids--when there is so much more to be concerned with in the world.
I think it's getting to me--I got caught up myself and have found it's much healthier for my son and me to back off a bit. If someone needs some info, fine. But, I just like to think he is the way he is. So, I guess when I note other parents too observant or too concerned, it makes me want to comment.
I still like to check in, offer advice when I can--but, truly, I think it's about time for me to fly the coupe. I was becoming a bit too fixated on every thing my son did!
Now, he's in a wonderful new school and team doesn't fuss, comment on everything he does--and, boy, is it nice!
Sorry, again. Hope I wasn't too harsh. I'm in a different place.
Totally accept the apology - I know sometimes I can be a bit overly defensive myself. Thank you for this. I agree some parents are too overreactive with their children. Balance is always the best goal, definitely.
I find I come to WP for awhile, get a little obsessive about it, and then walk away for awhile. Then when I'm ready, I return with new energy.