lostonearth35 wrote:
I never understood the big deal with trains, plains, ships, cars or vehicles in general. They are nowhere near as fascinating as animals, insects or even plants, which I read and learned a lot about as a kid.
Even so, special interests should be encouraged instead of labeled as obsessions because if the kid is NT that's what adults would be doing. I hate to think that my interests as a kid, which were usually praised and encouraged until I was a teenager, would have been seen as "wrong" instead if they knew back then I have Asperger's.
My Dad had a word with me one day when I was in my teens. He said I was a bit old for the teddies and the toy cars etc.. (And a few things). He was trying to help me. I did then give up quite a few things. But I remember. He was going to say about the trains. I would have been heartbroken... But somehow he knew. He knew how important thwy were to both me and my future. He said "No. There's something about the trains. Keep the trains!" I was soo relieved. Trains were and are more then a special i terest or a hobby to me. They are part of me because they are part of my life.
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