liloleme wrote:
My daughter who will be turning 18 in June went though an entire year of being a cat when she was about six. You would ask her question and she would just meow at you...she is my other Aspie :)
Oh, man! I did that. I would crawl on the floor and meow and purr and rub up against things. My first grade teacher thought I was mentally ret*d because of that and because I refused to pay attention during reading time. (Which was only because she handed out the reader and I read the entire thing while she was still handing it out and then I was like, "okay, I'm done. What's the next book?" and as it began to dawn on me that we were going to spend months on this book -- weeks just on the first page, which only said something like "Look! Look! See Dick! Look! Look! See Jane!" Well, I'm much rather crawl around and be a cat instead. Wouldn't you?)
The teacher tried to get me put in special ed. because of my alleged mental retardation. So the principal had me brought in to his office where I was given a test that I dimly remember taking. A maze with a duck you had to get to a pond and those blocks that have sides that are red, sides that are white, and sides that are half red and half white on the diagonal and you have to put them together to match the pictures. I can't remember the rest of the test, but after that I was put in the second grade classroom. But mom got upset because she didn't believe in grade-skipping so I had to do second grade again all the way through the next year.
Mom later told me she let me stay in that second grade classroom, though, because she knew I didn't belong in special ed. and she didn't lke my teacher so she didn't want to force me to be in her class. Mom told me that the teacher had called her about a week after my brother died and said she wanted mom to come in for a conference about my behavior. Mom told the teacher to give me some space because my brother had just died and mom thought my behavior would normalize after a while but to accept that I was grieving right now. The teacher replied, "she's not grieving. She's too young to know what's going on." The teacher then pushed again for a conference and my mom got mad and yelled at the teacher that she had just put her only son in the ground and damned well wasn't coming in for a conference and hung up on her.
That's when the teacher started pushing to have me put in special ed. I wonder if she really, truly thought I was ret*d (I didn't want to read Dick and Jane because I was reading Gulliver's Travels. My reading was excellent but I don't know if the teacher ever realized it. I got caught once hiding the book I was really reading behind Dick and Jane but maybe the teacher didn't think I was really reading the book?) or just didn't want cat-girl in her class and after my mom yelled at her and hung up on her the teacher tried to put me in special ed. as a sort of revenge?
What a horrible teacher she was! She should never have been put in charge of small children.
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