ASDMommyASDKid wrote:
Sometimes boys can be more impulsive and maybe a greater percentage of them cannot do this. My son does not attempt to blend in at all.
Part of it with girls is they are much less likely to be spotted early and so I think the resources for girls are more likely to be geared for "hidden" cases. A lot of times the stereotypes do a better job of catching the boys, and in fact just being a girl is more likely to make a pediatrician think it could not possibly be ASD. It is not that there are not ASD boys who have these skills, though, Many, many of them do.
I am not diagnosed due to age, but also I think I would have flown past the radar in many ways. My brother is also (I think) ASD, but he is milder than I am. I would not have been surprised if he were younger and growing up today if he might have gotten a diagnosis, today. I do not think I would have, despite having more social difficulties.
My daughter presents more like a boy and is considered to be moderately autistic rather than passengers as a result. She makes no attempt to fit in or get along and admits to just not caring at all. We caught it early as a result, she was just shy of five. Nearly every point on this list applies except for parts pertaining to fiction, writing, imitation, and imagination.