Kraichgauer wrote:
I think a case can be made that if the angels had arrived as women, the crowd would still have wanted to rape them. The sin of Sodom wasn't homosexuality, but rape and murder.
And it was also a corrupt place where the women, who were traditionally thought of as the caregivers and workers of charity, were only concerned with themselves and self indulgent.
I do have an insight as to why the passages about Sodom are so strange. People who read it wonder how Lot could ever think of giving his unwed, young daughters to the raping mob. He must have not cared about them.
What has to be kept in mind is, the reason for this heinous offering is actually to make Lot look like a more righteous man. He is so determined to care for his guests, he would sacrifice his own flesh and blood to protect them. This is why God saves him and his family, until his wife disobeys God and is turned into salt.
This is why the passage reads the way it does and appears so bizarre and inhuman. It's to illustrate a point. Lot was a righteous man. Lot deserves to be saved. If you are righteous like Lot, God will save you. God favors those who protect others rather than harm, especially those they don't know passing unawares through their town. It is a sacred duty to protect and care for them, not cast them aside, raping them, or throwing them to the wolves just because pressure is applied and coercion is abundant.
So we get the picture of Sodom being a place where people are defiled on a regular basis and the women only care about themselves and their own appetites, not the welfare of others (which was a woman's traditional duty.)
Of course what is written later is even more bizarre. It's like the Bible is giving men permission to copulate with their daughters.