Twilightprincess wrote:
sly279 wrote:
alex wrote:
Men's issues do matter. The issue is you're framing this conversation from a negative anti-woman POV.
If you care so much about men's issues, why don't you advocate for them instead of complaining about how women are advocating for women's issues?
I will lock this thread soon if it continues to be just another excuse to rant about women by the men of Wrong Planet.
I am taking actions to stop this environment of hostility in L&D because it's turning off women (and men as well) from wanting to participate on WP.
Will you also put a stop to women framing the conversation from a anti-man POV? Or is it just going be against men and let feminist do as they please?
I and others including few women have seen this forum going feminism biased for while now and it seems now your just filling supporting feminist only side.
Saying women have right to fear all men cause women get raped more is anti man.
Say it’s sexist tonhave air conditioning on cause women get cold is antiman(men get warm, so not having it on hurts men. Gender differences I guess.)
It’s been suggest men should go to other autism forums. Do you want wrong planet to just be women and feminist? From a pure business side, wrong planets customers like dating sites is mostly men. If all the men leave, less advertisements are seen, advertising gets pulled. I’d like to stay here but it seems the policy’s are being changed to silence and force men off wrongplant. I’ll be looking at other autism forums that hopefully don’t habe a extremely feminist bias. All the mods here are feminist? There’s no balance. Mods are like the Supreme Court of wrongplant. Would you want a all feminist or all conservative Supreme Court? How could such a Court be balanced and fair? How can a all feminist mod team be balanced and fair?
I’ve been here for a long time and I’m constantly worried I’ll be banned last year or so. I worry anything I say will be taken wrong by feminist and I’ll be banned. Yet I see women post things that’d get me warned and it’s ok. It’s not ok to say women, or most women, or lot of women think or do this(even if it’s true) but it’s fine to say men, most men, a lot of men do/think something. It’s fine for feminist to post studies about how horrible men are , but nit ok for men to post any studies even from the federal government or United Nations that may have anything bad to say about women or contradict feminist “studies”
Even if it’s the people who did the feminist studies posted saying that’s not what they mean and that yes their study was bit biased.
Your policies and mods leaves me unable to express my personal struggles and experiences as a weak autistic male cause such experiences go against the dream world of feminism extremists. Is that what you want? For male aspies to feel invalidated for them to feel their experiences are false and lies that they’re just crazy?
There are far more anti women threads on WP lately than there are anti men. I don’t like either of these things. If we have a bad experience with the opposite gender, we should be able to talk about that experience without making sweeping generalizations about the entire male or female population.
Problem is how is something determined anti men or anti women? Often it’s men expressing their experiences with women like myself and those experiences gonagainst an ideal world someone else lives in(no women would do such a thing cause I don’t)
Imagine if every time a woman talks about how guys have harassed her or touched her some mra guy came in and said that’s sexist and no men would do such things and demand her post be removed. Would that be ok?
That’s how I feel I’m treated here, that my experiences are invalid , I’ve had feminist here tell me I’m crazy and making it all up. So I’m crazy or a liar.
The male hating thread are supported never removed, anything feminist decide is female hating is removed and user warned, it’s a clear bias. There’s also far more men on wrongplant then women. Would you still come here if it was just the women left?
In past I was corrected and told instead of saying women do ___ to say most women do blank and thst it wouldn’t be taken as generalization, but mod was wrong feminist decided most=all despite being two different words, is 75% 100%? Is 2/3 3/3 no they’re different things. Most isn’t all. Most is 75% or 2/3 or 3/4 so a lot or most is now same as saying all and thus a generation. But some doesn’t fit with how many women I’ve seen or experiences doing or thinking something and imagine and some will be called out by feminist as some=all. Feminist want to believe women do no wrong, so it’s not saying some most or a lot that matters, even saying 1 woman does wrong would upset them and be found sexist and offensive. I’ve tried to be politically correct as directed and had that found offensive by feminist here. I also am autistic with adhd. I have poor grammar and I make mistake, so I slip up and forget to put some or most before women sometimes, and I’d imagine everyone here by no onos that but rather then be like sly you messed up there I get called misogynistic creep sexist and demanded i be warned and banned. Feminist here just want me gone, my existence goes against their ideas.
Again I’m just a crazy liar. I never lie so I find that highly insulting and now we can’t ven share anything that supports our side or experiences as anything that doesn’t go along feminism is sexist and is allowed on wrongplant anymore.
We are effectively being silenced. If it was going other way I assure you feminist would be throwing a fit. Imagine if Alex and the mods were pro mra and slanted decisions that way and said any pro feminism studies wouldn’t be allowed.
For your knowledge I’ve neber ever said all women ever never not a single time. I was raised by my mom, grandma and older sister that’s it. Didn’t have a grandpa or dad, my uncles came around occasionally. I support equality. I get super sad hearing how women have been rape or molested, 95% of my close friends are women, I just don’t support feminism as in its current form it’s bad even th founders if feminism say it’s lost it’s ways. An equality organization is far better to be in. Feminist completed its goal then had nothing to do so started looking for stuff to find sexist. As one feminist says “everything is sexist” the pay gap has been disproven so many times. The only place it might still happen is executives and I don’t care if some female ceo is paid less then a male ceo. She still make way way way way more then most people. I don’t care abiut inequalaty between th rich elites, I don’t think any of them should make what they make.
Feminism has not nearly “completed its goal.” I really just can’t even go into how far off base that statement is, and I shouldn’t. This thread is about men’s issues. Let’s continue to talk about that.
09 Aug 2018, 4:00 pm
so confidence is never showing emotions and weakness. Most women here say most women want a confident guy and finds lack of confidence a huge turn off. So don’t show emotions or be open is the answer. It’s not confidence to be like.mi feel you don’t like me much anymore and that makes me sad. 
