Does anyone else agree with feminism?

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My two cents:

It's hard to explain how positive and reassuring it feels to submit to your husband. To me it just feels right! I love and most importantly, Respect my husband. I want to show him that by letting him lead me threw life and obey him in loving biblical submission. I believe, that is the most truest form of showing your love to your husband. I trust him. Not many wives can say that about there husband. (and I just wrote an hour long message to my best friend who was worried that she couldn't trust her husband.) God has put a role in my husbands life to fulfill, And that's leading me and keeping me safe. My husband basically has my life in his hands. I can understand how it would be scary to submit yourself to your husband because you are giving up control and your most intimate part of your self to that man. To me, It is the ultimate sacrifice of love a woman can give a man. And I trust Ragtime because he is a Good Man. He is righteous, rational and loving. I am proud to have him as my husband and I prove that by giving him the reigns in our marriage because he can do it better then I ever could. And I am women enough to admit my natural "faults".

I know that I will not be a good leader because I become irrational a few days out of the month. I am woman enough to understand and admit that I am affected by PMS. PMS is not who I am and I hate it as much as my husband does. It makes me hurt him and makes me feel bad emotionally. Women are emotional creatures. We are different in that sense. Our emotions mostly govern our lives. And sometimes our emotions steer us wrong. And then we end up regretting and feel guilty for what we did. And this is why many women who ask for CDD want it so they can have help controlling there over emotional side. And they want to feel they have a husband who is strong enough to tell her whats what and that what she is doing is wrong for a healthy marriage. And I trust my husband will keep me toward God and with a positive out look on life.

The first time I was spanked it was because I was having a rebellious and fearful attitude toward positive changes that was happening in my life.-Being offered a Job-. My emotions couldn't see threw to how my life would change for the better if I took this opportunity. More money to spend on things I want, Meeting new people and being able to help them using my creativity. Exercise everyday (walking to work only a mile away!) In a field I used to love doing in the past! It was all positive and life progressive work! But my attitude was negative. I wanted to still be lazy at home. I was afraid of how hot it would get in summer. I didn't want to work hard. I didn't want to hear from my husband how "good" the job was. I got so upset that the only way to show how upset I was about the change was to push my feet against Ragtime's chest/side while we we're sitting on the couch talking to me about it. He obviously knew that I wasn't going to understand it just by talking. Since my rebellious self didn't want to even hear it anymore! So he restrained me to the bed and spanked me with his belt until tears weld in my eyes. And I apologized for MY behavior! The next words out of my mouth was about how GOOD it is to get this job! I was even amazed at how natural the words came out! It was like the belt spanked the negative feelings out of me and made me realize how wrong it was to think such negative and selfish thoughts on something so rare as to get a job I've been wanting, in this economy! Before the belt, my mind didn't even want to think about how positive this change will be! No amount of talking from Ragtime would change it. And it went on for days! In the end, I had to FEEL that it was wrong. Women are emotionally ruled. Sometimes being physically corrected is the only way to get threw to them. I love my husband even more because he loved me enough to correct that wrong train of thought! And deep down I knew it was what I needed! I like knowing that my husband can control me when I can't control myself. Because I want the control. I don't like feeling like that, when I can't even see the light at the end of the tunnel because my bad emotions get in the way. I know you all are not going to like me saying this but women, Emotionally, are like children. We don't grow out of tantrums like men do because they are not emotional beings by nature. Sometimes you will have to spank a child because there emotions are governing them in the wrong direction. And having that sudden shock of pain by a displeased hand, resets there train of thought and they learn that what they did was wrong. That is why women can still benefit from being spanked. And I see it in not only myself but my Mom, my aunt, My friends. All the women in my life. They will get in fights with there husbands and boyfriends. Throw tantrums. I see it in my Mom all the time when she fights with my father and step father. She becomes out of control and I felt exactly like her. She is actually crying out for control. She wants to feel that what she is doing is wrong and deep down she knows it but she can't help it because she is being controlled by her emotions. I want to tell her about CDD but we are embarrassed. It's not considered the norm any more. It used to be but feminism actually changed that.

End o' Two Cents! :V

Tolerance of religious practices goes only so far. Some things are simply inexcusable and hiding behind faith is not going to work

no, i am not attacking your religion. in fact, most Christians do not subscribe to your brand of domestic discipline. YOU used the analogy of a team, but you are not playing on the team together. you are making the calls. a teammate doesn't do that.

No, we signal back and forth to each other, just like the players do. We each take turns signaling, and watching and listening to the signals. You seem to think this is all one way, when cues are both taken and given by both of us. I need her, and she needs me, just like the players on a team. You seem to image that I have disrespect for my wife. If you buy into modern societal b.s., I can see why you'd think that, but you are mistaken. I love and respect my wife highly! That's why I chose her, and vice versa.

I mean, ya know, none of this is anyone's business but ours, but I thought people in this thread might like an exchange of views.

No, we signal back and forth to each other, just like the players do. We each take turns signaling, and watching and listening to the signals. You seem to think this is all one way, when cues are both taken and given by both of us. I need her, and she needs me, just like the players on a team. You seem to image that I have disrespect for my wife. If you buy into modern societal b.s., I can see why you'd think that, but you are mistaken. I love and respect my wife highly! That's why I chose her, and vice versa.

I mean, ya know, none of this is anyone's business but ours, but I thought people in this thread might like an exchange of views.

you expect her to defer and submit to you. that is not equal.

I do not see how any women or wife would want a man to dominate her in any way shape of form.