Does anyone else agree with feminism?
For the record when it comes to submission and such, all my past relationships I tend to be submissive and put the woman on a pedestool. I dont know if its a good habit or bad habit any more people keep saying it is a bad habit because it makes me an easy target to be walked all over. ![]()
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There shouldn't be a fight. Until recently, it was covered here (only for women, though - thank you, feminism), but then people realised that they were paying for other people having sex.
I don't like the idea of being forced to pay for something optional that basically only means others can have sex for fun with less of a risk.
For medical reasons, it's appropriate. However, insurance-covered birth control for all (or worse, only for women) is something I strongly oppose.
Driving is fun. It feels really bad that speeding tickets aren't covered by mandatory car insurance, but I realise it's my own responsibility not to drive too fast, and to pay for speeding tickets if I do.
Perhaps the United States government would be better off making sure people aren't financially ruined by paying for actual medical treatments instead of having these fun subsidies.
I want to personally apologize to Joker for answering his question honestly. It was not in keeping with WP's TOS. He asked me what I would call a male feminist, and I responded honestly. This was wrong of me. I have been warned.
Also, here is my favorite Dilbert comic:

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Men are stronger and more logical. They can use there strength to over power a women.
A good man will use his strength to protect a women and his logic to care and maintain her life and there children.
Bad men abuse that power because men naturally see women as beautiful and something they must have and use there strength and power for lust.
So I believe that it is biological.
i am not emotionally based in the slightest; i am logical and rational. i am also physically and mentally strong, and people who know me well have called me fearless. if you're going to draw conclusions about your entire gender, you need to make statements that include women like me. otherwise you are speaking inaccurately.
I am rational, logical but I become govern by my emotions. (ie. when I see a puppy I want to touch or when I want to snuggle or have sex or when I PMS) I am very much tied to my emotions when it comes to many daily things. I am not physically stronger then a man. Many women are not. I am fearless when it comes to spiders and bugs but not when it comes to needles and dentists. I can be mentally strong depending on the situation. I can excel in many things and fail at others.
I am only giving a general idea of how women are. I'm sorry if it came out to matter-fact-ly. Most women are govern by emotions. It is not something to be ashamed of like it is a weakness to over come. I celebrate my femininity because it makes me soft and kind and easy to talk to.
And I'm not a typical women either. To my husband, I'm more of a tomboy. All my friends growing up where boys till I met my best friend who was a tommish girl like me. I don't dress in dresses. I don't do much with my hair. I Like to be comfortable and modest. Sometimes I put makeup on when we go out and paint my nails every once and a while. I just have learned who I am and my limits early in life. I'm not assertive. I am meek. I learned that if you treat people with respect they treat you with respect. When I was polite they were kind to me back. And being polite and kind and happen to be a women fell in place for me. Men treated me with respect and would look out for me and I like it because it makes me feel safe and that's how men should make there women feel. Safe and secure and well loved and taken care for. Why fight tooth and nail to become a man. To have to work against your nature to prove, mostly to yourself, that you can be better then they are. This is why I don't understand feminism. Why fight to be seen as exactly equal. We are the same under law. What is wrong with being different. I want a man to see me as a beautiful women to be taken care of. I can't imagine how a man would want to marry a feminist.
you're giving an incorrect assessment of how women are.
Well, as I asked you pages ago, give us the truth about women, hyper, since you apparently know it, as you claim that my wife didn't state it accurately.
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I guess what seems the most babyish about feminists to me is that, unlike my wife, they can't admit any faults whatsoever about women -- faults that ALL of us, and all of them, know about. Oh, but that would be generalizing to do that? Ok, then why do they generalize in bragging about women? It's an old, and tired answer: hypocrisy.
I would respect a feminist who took a moment to stop whining like a little girl, to frankly admit that women have faults. Oh, but NOOOOO, all women are super-human goddesses with no flaws whatsoever! Why? Because they have vaginas! Of course, it's so simple!
Talk about insecurity! That's what it means when you boast endlessly about your identity.
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Wait, no, there are no flaws inherent to any gender. So you saying things about the faults of women is BS. Non-straw feminists combat patriarchy and macho stupidity which is not something you are destined to be when you are a man. I am not identified at all with patriarch or macho idiots, so really, those criticisms from feminists against those things may ultra offend you for good reason, But they are not against all men in general.
Driving is fun. It feels really bad that speeding tickets aren't covered by mandatory car insurance, but I realise it's my own responsibility not to drive too fast, and to pay for speeding tickets if I do.
Analogy does not work.
Let me explain this: No one is getting free birth control. American Women happen to be tax payers. This is something that society as a whole is paying for.
And it is only a win win scenario to make insurance cover for birth control. At long it will reduce health care costs as less people will be born. As a tax payer, your net expense for this is negative. This is effectively going to make you spend less rather than spend more.
And again, life is not "punishment" for having sex. You don't have the right to enforce women to be 'punished' for the very grave mistake that is having fun with mutually consensual sex. Because there is really nothing wrong about consensual sex between a group of adults of size greater than 0, specially if it is done using birth control and protection. Which is what insurance would be for.
And once again, it is disingenuous to say that giving free birth control to women will only benefit women. It certainly won't. Because men happen to need to have sex with women before having children. In other words, giving birth control to women will make men also less likely to have unwanted children.
You are not, however, dealing with Valentine's argument. No matter what you think about the punishments of sex or whether people should get stuff for free. Completely besides your ideology and whatever.. There is no reason whatsoever to call the witness a "whore" just because her ideology says free birth control. And it shows really how incredibly bad the climate around a good portion in the American country is, because Rush still has a job after something as incredibly libelous and ridiculous as what he did.
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Also, here is my favorite Dilbert comic:

I can't be bothered to look back and see what you called a male feminist, but, I did tell you: it was your turn to be tied to a desk and spanked.
There shouldn't be a fight. Until recently, it was covered here (only for women, though - thank you, feminism), but then people realised that they were paying for other people having sex.
I don't like the idea of being forced to pay for something optional that basically only means others can have sex for fun with less of a risk.
***Insurance coverage of birth control isn't about paying for people's fun, it is about saving society money. It is studied and proven that covering birth control costs a fraction of what the accidental pregnancies will cost. Insurance companies have known this for decades, and had been quietly acting accordingly, until the values police got wind of it. It is insanely short sighted to say, "we shouldn't have to pay for that."
Viagra ... Now THAT is paying for someone's fun. Saves no money elsewhere.***
For medical reasons, it's appropriate. However, insurance-covered birth control for all (or worse, only for women) is something I strongly oppose.
Driving is fun. It feels really bad that speeding tickets aren't covered by mandatory car insurance, but I realise it's my own responsibility not to drive too fast, and to pay for speeding tickets if I do.
Perhaps the United States government would be better off making sure people aren't financially ruined by paying for actual medical treatments instead of having these fun subsidies.
My response ended up in the middle of the quoted section here because I'm on my phone - I'll have to fix later. Mine is between the stars *** and was meant to be in response to HisDivineMajesty.
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Dutch women paid taxes as well, and costs got out of hand as they all saw the benefits of not having to pay for their own birth control, even if they had well-paying jobs or rich parents.
It wasn't theoretical here. It was a normal measure for years, and it was abolished last year to save money because it was basically just a free, fully-paid for way of having sex without worries.
There hasn't been a rise in unwanted pregnancies that could possibly be attributed to that measure.
More people being born is a short-term loss, but a major long-term profit. We're facing a population that's naturally declining.
The only way to keep our population at this level at the moment is to import people who, even in Africa, are known as no-good, religiously conservative and near-illiterate peasants.
I'd love to have more natural population growth. We're lacking in workers in many fields already, and it will get worse.
That is your opinion. However, keep in mind - I'm not against birth control. It shouldn't be banned. However, I'm against having to pay for their fun. They can easily pay for it themselves - even without insurance, birth control is cheap. I'm not in favour of slicing education budgets in order to subsidise other people having sex for fun, as austerity measures have to be chosen right now.
However, this measure - again - favours women. When we subsidised birth control pills for women through taxpayer money, men still had to pay taxes on top of high prices for condoms.
Basically, men still had to pay if women didn't feel like taking birth control pills.
I didn't exactly call her a whore, did I? I ignored that part as one person's outburst a thousands of miles from where I live isn't my opinion.
What I'm saying on this issue is that I don't feel like paying for women's casual sexual expenses.
I would respect a feminist who took a moment to stop whining like a little girl, to frankly admit that women have faults. Oh, but NOOOOO, all women are super-human goddesses with no flaws whatsoever! Why? Because they have vaginas! Of course, it's so simple!
Talk about insecurity! That's what it means when you boast endlessly about your identity.
Was your first spanking so delightful that you want another one right away, before the bruises have healed?
The more feminists whine, the more respect I have for Women's Rights in societies in which all their rights are already granted and protected by law!
Well, not really, but anyway...
I'd like to take an informal poll, for all those who wish to participate:
Has this thread accomplished anything? Is this thread accomplishing anything presently? Will this thread accomplish anything?
I vote "no" on the second two questions, but am unqualified to answer the first since I joined the thread rather late, at Page 74.
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A thread isn't supposed to accomplish anything. It's just where people communicate over the internet about their opinion.
And call people who disagree with them 'discriminatory' or 'bigoted'.
In that respect, it's hardly surprising that a thread about feminism has gotten so popular.
I am a feminst not a sexist or a man hater either.
Instrumentality – if the thing is treated as a tool for one's own purposes;
Denial of autonomy – if the thing is treated as if lacking in agency or self-determination;
Inertness – if the thing is treated as if lacking in agency;
Ownership – if the thing is treated as if owned by another;
Fungibility – if the thing is treated as if interchangeable;
Violability – if the thing is treated as if permissible to damage or destroy;
denial of subjectivity – if the thing is treated as if there is no need to show concern for the 'object's' feelings and experiences.
Those are the criteria for objectification as laid out by Martha Nussbaum. In this case, men are objectified as men called up in the draft are in fact treated as interchangeable and permissible to damage or destroy. The further humorization of violence against men in sitcoms, in societies views on spousal abuse and quite a few other things. Furthermore, when it comes to sexual objectification, women are as guilty of this as men.
Now, if government has mandated equal rights and we have established that both genders and trans-gender people deal with social issues, what issues are left which women deal with Joker? I also wanted to chime in with Ragtime, that you seem to view women as a whole rather than individuals constantly, in your head there seems to be no difference between Angela Merkel or Hilary Clinton and a 14 year old trafficking victim.
But the objectifiers are likewise male, so it's not a distinction based on sex, but on other hierarchies, among men.
The government hasn't "mandated" equal rights- the ERA is screamed down everytime someone breathes of it.
There's still a fight to get insurance coverage of birth control, for goodness's sake-
the political climate is such that a woman who testifies before Congress about her friend's ovarian cysts gets called a "slut and a prostitute".
That's apart from the general cultural atmosphere, and from-birth indoctrination of children into strict sex-based gender scripts.
A couple last year attempted to raise their child as an individual, without telling others of his/her sex, and the amount of rage-filled vitriol they received for it was frightening.
I guess I'm just wired wrong in that I don't see a difference in an act based on motivation. As I said earlier, gender-motivated violence is BS in the same sense that gay marriage is BS, there is no gender motivated violence just like there is no gay marriage, there is violence and marriage. You seem to draw this line where if a woman beats the crap out of another woman, that's a "better" form of violence than if a woman beats the s**t out of a man or vice versa.
I get why you do it, because if you didn't then your ideology and thus large parts of what makes up your identity would die, just like parts of mine would die in a communistic system. However, legal systems should be based around the act itself, not the motivation for the act. I know you respond to this with sarcasm and ridicule and but one cannot establish that X was motivated by Y as an objective fact because its in essence what Orwell called "thought crime". It's kind of the issue with psychology and sociology, that you can only theorize about what was in a person's head and it cannot be proven true or false. Law needs to be based on objective facts, not on subjective interpretations.
One of my main issues with Ayn Rand is that her ideology compartmentalizes reason and makes it an objective faculty when the truth is that everyone's "reason" is colored by their subjective perception of the world. It reminds me of how a lot of doctors tend to make diagnoses based on their field of expertise. Some people when looking at the Zimmerman-Trayvon case see a racial issue, some see a gun issue, some see a legal issue when it comes to the "stand your ground" type laws, it all comes down to your individual perception.
I suppose it comes down to whether or not you judge an act or the motivation behind the act as the primary "offense", in my case I elect to use the act as that can be objectively established, whereas motivation is always a matter of subjective interpretation. You are more than welcome to argue that "If we do not deal with the motivation behind the act, the act will happen again" which is a kind of "thought police" in that you are telling other people "You are not allowed to even think this subconsciously" whereas I tend to think that its morally reprehensible to tell someone which values they aren't allowed to hold, which thoughts they are not allowed to have or which subconscious influences they may have, but it is permissible to say "You are not allowed to perform these acts".
That's my core problem with large parts of the "left" that they seem to be very "thought-police" oriented and excessively bombastic in telling people what they may or may not think or feel. The "right" is not really better, which is why I tend to be an independent when it comes to politics and vote mainly on economic issues. It's the kind of irony where both sides are quite authoritarian, yet both claim to be promoting freedom. However, I tend to judge the left as "more guilty" in the "thought crime" and "value crime" department in that the right rarely try to dictate what you are allowed to think and what you are not allowed to think.
It's the kind of ironic actions and thought processes that allows a group of people who claim to hold free speech as a major value, yet prevent others from exercising theirs. There is the "if you tolerate intolerance, then you're not a liberal" however, if the liberal him or herself is intolerant of intolerance, then they must be intolerant of themselves. As I've stated before, I'm in favor of everyone having the same human rights and I see no point in separating genders, ethnicity, nationality and so on because the second you do, you imply that there needs to be additional sets of rights beyond those that should be universal to every human. If this is the case, then the concept of human rights need to be voided and one needs to create sets of rights for each group. If there is no universality, then where concede that every group is different and thus unable to be held to a universal standard.
I personally hold that a majority of humans are born with the capabilities to do what they want to do provided they are willing to put in the effort to do so. This is regardless of gender, ethnicity, social background and a lot of other individual factors. Some will face larger challenges in some fields than others. However, in a world where one of the most brilliant mathematicians we know came from a village in the rural parts of India and rose to become one of the greatest mathematicians that have ever lived. In a world where IMF chief is Christine Legarde, where the leader of the biggest economy in Europe is Angela Merkel and where women have lead some of the biggest corporations in human history, it becomes very hard to hold a position that women are held down.
Certain ideologies take away a persons motivation for self-realization through convincing them that they have failed before they've even tried and such ideologies are dangerous because rather than freeing their adherents they shackle them.
I would appreciate if you respond to the entirety of my post rather than criticizing sentences and sometimes part of sentences without regard for the context of the whole.


