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Are you for, or against Gay Marriage?
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04 Nov 2010, 5:11 am

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I am familiar with all of those studies and addressed them in my previous comments when I stated "Stating that they have gone down by a little bit, in some places, recently simply does not cut the mustard as a credible defense for sex education. ". Taking a small trend line of only one decade does not demonstrate the effectiveness of sex education.

What would happen if you took that trend from the introduction date of sex education in west in the 1950s. We already know, the rates of sex among minors and STD rates of infection would be shown to have exploded. Governments love to show short term statistics to claim the trend is in a positive direction. If you don't believe me, look at how the government reports on recent economic data.

It is also worth noting that when studies demonstrate the opposite, as many do, they tend not to be published by organisations such as the Nih. For instance this one referenced here (http://www.inthenews.co.uk/news/health/ ... 309657.htm) and here (http://www.christian.org.uk/news/failed ... -increase/). Or this one (http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/ ... nancy.html). Or this one, there is also this position that argues quite well the abstinance only actually does work better, when the programs are well done (http://www.aolnews.com/health/article/s ... d/19341448) the study conducted this year showed that abstinence only work better than the standard sex ed classes, the study can be found here (http://archpedi.ama-assn.org/cgi/conten ... 2/152?home)

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'When it is left soley to parents, it too often does not get done. There is a great deal of social interest in preventing teen pregnancy regardless of whether a teen's parents give a damn about teaching him or her proper sex ed. '

We used to have a method of doing this, it was called a moral standard, which when combined with societal pressure, provably kept teen pregnancy low.

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'You are now being disingenuous, because another poster has already demonstrated that this is false with the example of STD and teen pregnancy rates in Northern Europe.'

Here you once again engage in supporting the use of short term data to prove that a long term policy failure is a success. Considering the long term trend, simply stating that there should be more of the same is a logical fallacy.

As to the accusation that I have used a sum hoc, ergo propter hoc logical fallacy the only response I can give you are the facts. There are no studies that can directly link the two together, I'll admit that too much time has passed to adequately draw that conclusion.

However, any basic reading of the early history of sex education shows that it was introduced to break down the moral fiber of the people. For instance when public school sex education was first invented in 1919 during the Hungarian Soviet Revolution, Education Commissar George Lukacs specifically intended its introduction to debauch Christian morality.


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04 Nov 2010, 5:41 am

Just to add my two cents:
My dad had attended high school in a backwoods hick town in the 1940s, where most people were embroiled in too much evangelical religion for their own good. He had told me that half the girls in his class never graduated, because they had ended up in "the family way." Illegal abortions were also big among the student body. And that was years before sex education of any kind.

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04 Nov 2010, 6:55 am

I don't really think sex ed should be taught in school. It's just a waste of time and kids don't really learn much. It's mainly just kids giggling and going ewwww. All tho I gotta admit, seeing a video of a baby being born disgusted me enough to where I never want to see one. I'll hold her hand but I'm not looking, good god I'm not looking. :lol:

Condoms should be provided and the school should have reading material for parents and students to take as they please. Parents and students have to show a certain amount personal responsibility.



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04 Nov 2010, 9:22 am

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I cant argue that sex education leads to high rates of teen pregnancy, those studies simply have not been conducted. Therefor you cannot argue the opposite. What I can say and this goes without doubt; is that since the introduction of sex education in schools of any kind, rates of teen pregnancy and infection have gone up.


But this does not prove a correlation between effective sex education and teen pregnancy. There are other factors to consider, such as changing values of society, over-sexualisation of teens in media and music, etc.

The fact is that in countries where sex education is taught at a primary school level, and consists of more than 'you shouldn't do it until you're married or you'll go to hell', teen pregnancy and STD rates are substantially lower.


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So let me be clear, you are agreeing the the modern moral age of permissiveness has indeed led to higher teen pregnancy and std rates.


I am stating that the cause of teenage promiscuity is not properly delivered information.

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But what you are advocating is more of the same.


I didn't advocate anything in my post. However, for the record, I do advocate sex education in our schools.

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This is typical of a bad establishment policy; if it fails, add more. Its an insult to the intelligence of the general population.


If something fails, learning from your mistakes and taking remedial action is the sensible thing to do.

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That is exactly the logic that was used by Gordon Brown's government in the UK. In the fact of the rising rates of teen pregnancy and std infections, simply made it law; that means parents could not opt their children out of the sex education program. What happened was inevitable, the problem got worse. For instance the rate of illegitimate births in Norwich in 1963 was 7.7% (against a UK national average of 5.9%), now the UK average is 46%.


There is no direct correlation between sex education and a rise in illegitimate births.

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In a study of 379 pregnant or parenting teens and 95 teenage girls without children, 62% of the girls aged 11–15 years and 56% of girls aged 16–19 years reported experiencing domestic violence at the hands of their partners. Moreover, 51% of the girls reported experiencing at least one instance where their boyfriend attempted to sabotage their efforts to use birth control (http://www.cpeip.fsu.edu/resourceFiles/ ... ile_73.pdf).


And you're still failing to show how sex education is the root cause of these issues.

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These children have been given a sexual education, but have been exposed to few attempts to teach them what is right and wrong. In Australia teen pregnancies account for 5% of all births and the answer simply cannot be more of the same following the typical modern mantra of 'do what thou wilt – but wear a condom while thou does it'.


Although it's a few years since I attended school, I don't remember this lesson in sex ed. Mostly we learned the scientific process of procreation, along with some fun facts about the risks involved with having sex. This approach seems to have worked quite well, as we have a very low number of pregnant minors in my hometown.

The rise in domestic violence, teenage pregnancy and illegitimate births is a product of modern culture, not of the increase in available knowledge, taught in a responsible and mature manner. The responsibility for teaching right and wrong to a child falls on the shoulders of the parent(s), not the state.



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04 Nov 2010, 9:44 am

Jacoby wrote:
I don't really think sex ed should be taught in school. It's just a waste of time and kids don't really learn much. It's mainly just kids giggling and going ewwww. All tho I gotta admit, seeing a video of a baby being born disgusted me enough to where I never want to see one. I'll hold her hand but I'm not looking, good god I'm not looking. :lol:

Condoms should be provided and the school should have reading material for parents and students to take as they please. Parents and students have to show a certain amount personal responsibility.


I remember that video, and I didn't look either. :)

Parents do need to shoulder the responsibility, but the problem is, many simply don't. Either they're too uncomfortable, too busy, or too against the idea of their child engaging in such activity that they refuse to even discuss it. I frequently hear these stories from other parents. I can't imagine not educating my kids on the matter, but from what I've seen, I'm in the minority.

Maybe there's another way we should be going about it. I often laugh with my husband that any kid thinking they want a baby should come to our house sometime. I think they'd change their mind pretty quick :wink: . We should still be teaching basic biology and disease transmission, but I think we should be moving beyond the lame egg experiment at this point.



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04 Nov 2010, 9:50 am

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If you create something entirely new and call it something other than marriage then one could essentially torpedo the legal arguments that groups like NAMBLA would make.


Ok, I must interject. Is this the "NAMBLA" you keep talking about?

North American Man/Boy Love Association

You do realize that this is a joke, right?



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04 Nov 2010, 10:23 am

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If you create something entirely new and call it something other than marriage then one could essentially torpedo the legal arguments that groups like NAMBLA would make.


Ok, I must interject. Is this the "NAMBLA" you keep talking about?

North American Man/Boy Love Association

You do realize that this is a joke, right?


NAMBLA is a real group.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nambla

And I wouldn't touch their website with my worst enemy's computer. Yuck.


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04 Nov 2010, 10:40 am

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Its too bad that since the introduction of sex-ed teen pregnancy has sky rocketed. By whatever practical measure you choose to use, it has been an utter failure.

no... in some european countries like the netherlands, sex ed has helped reduce teen pregnancies:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Global_inc ... _pregnancy
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Netherlands 7.7
Canada 22.3
United States 55.6

The Netherlands has a low rate of births and abortions among teenagers (5 births per 1,000 women aged 15–19 in 2002). Compared to countries with higher teenage birth rates, the Dutch have a higher average age at first intercourse and increased levels of contraceptive use (including the "double Dutch" method of using both a hormonal contraception method and a condom.



in the u.s. and canada, there is too much focus on abstinence as opposed to contraception, which fails utterly. people are still having sex, so teaching prophylaxis is the way to go.


It's a matter of how sex is taught, not that it is taught.

Sex here is way too much about shame and hiding sex. Over there, it's more open and accepted. It's no wonder our sex education sucks: most of society is too embarrassed to actually talk about sex so the ret*ds just default to "just don't do it" aka "abstinence".


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04 Nov 2010, 11:24 am

I have a sure way of making underage pregnancy fall massively!

Decrease the age of consent :lol:



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04 Nov 2010, 11:51 am

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I have a sure way of making underage pregnancy fall massively!

Decrease the age of consent :lol:


We're actually on the high end here with it being 17/18 on average. Most of Europe is actually around 15 with a +/-1 variable for their age of consent. The aforementioned Netherlands' age of consent is 16.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_Europe

Spain's age of consent is 13. Kinda wonder if maybe we're the weird ones here.


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04 Nov 2010, 12:34 pm

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I have a sure way of making underage pregnancy fall massively!

Decrease the age of consent :lol:


We're actually on the high end here with it being 17/18 on average. Most of Europe is actually around 15 with a +/-1 variable for their age of consent. The aforementioned Netherlands' age of consent is 16.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_Europe

Spain's age of consent is 13. Kinda wonder if maybe we're the weird ones here.


EXACTLY! For once we agree on something!

I've actually been saying that whenever this subject comes up, the US is far above the majority of the world in most states, and even in the UK we have an age which is a year above most of Europe.



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04 Nov 2010, 12:44 pm

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However, you don't have to call two people of the same gender entering into a civil union marriage. That's what a lot of people find so objectionable call it something else and a lot of the opposition wouldn't be so up in arms.


The reason this is not an option is because separate but equal is ILLEGAL. For a separate name, there has to be a separate and distinct set of benefits from it. That would, inevitably, create the same issue we're already having by making one superior to another. The people in the inferior unions would demand to have access to the superior union.

We can't 'just call it something else'. Period.

Give same sex couples the SAME RIGHTS STRAIGHT COUPLES HAVE and I promise nothing will change beyond Sally being able to keep the child she adopted with Ashley.


Oh come on... no comment on this point?


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04 Nov 2010, 12:46 pm

skafather84 wrote:
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I have a sure way of making underage pregnancy fall massively!

Decrease the age of consent :lol:


We're actually on the high end here with it being 17/18 on average. Most of Europe is actually around 15 with a +/-1 variable for their age of consent. The aforementioned Netherlands' age of consent is 16.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_Europe

Spain's age of consent is 13. Kinda wonder if maybe we're the weird ones here.


This is because the US still considers teenagers to be children. They aren't. They are right in the middle of adulthood and childhood, and that's generally when mammals start procreating.


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04 Nov 2010, 12:52 pm

skafather84 wrote:
number5 wrote:
Inuyasha wrote:
If you create something entirely new and call it something other than marriage then one could essentially torpedo the legal arguments that groups like NAMBLA would make.


Ok, I must interject. Is this the "NAMBLA" you keep talking about?

North American Man/Boy Love Association

You do realize that this is a joke, right?


NAMBLA is a real group.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nambla

And I wouldn't touch their website with my worst enemy's computer. Yuck.


Holy crap! I stand corrected.

Please excuse me while I go vomit.



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04 Nov 2010, 1:02 pm

number5 wrote:
skafather84 wrote:
number5 wrote:
Inuyasha wrote:
If you create something entirely new and call it something other than marriage then one could essentially torpedo the legal arguments that groups like NAMBLA would make.


Ok, I must interject. Is this the "NAMBLA" you keep talking about?

North American Man/Boy Love Association

You do realize that this is a joke, right?


NAMBLA is a real group.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nambla

And I wouldn't touch their website with my worst enemy's computer. Yuck.


Holy crap! I stand corrected.

Please excuse me while I go vomit.


for a long time, poe's law prevented me from making a firm decision on whether nambla was real or satire. they've done enough to support child molesters in court that we can reasonably say that the organization isn't funny.



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04 Nov 2010, 1:06 pm

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@ adifferentname

However, you don't have to call two people of the same gender entering into a civil union marriage. That's what a lot of people find so objectionable call it something else and a lot of the opposition wouldn't be so up in arms.


The reason this is not an option is because separate but equal is ILLEGAL. For a separate name, there has to be a separate and distinct set of benefits from it. That would, inevitably, create the same issue we're already having by making one superior to another. The people in the inferior unions would demand to have access to the superior union.

We can't 'just call it something else'. Period.

Give same sex couples the SAME RIGHTS STRAIGHT COUPLES HAVE and I promise nothing will change beyond Sally being able to keep the child she adopted with Ashley.


Oh come on... no comment on this point?


that would require overtly admitting a prejudice against homosexuals. anti-homosexual bigots try really hard not to do that, sometimes. it's almost as if they realize that it makes them look like anti-homosexual bigots.