Why are poeple on this site so obessed with feminists?

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17 Dec 2014, 10:43 am

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I don't understand feminists.. I don't advocate anything except equality of every human. Regardless of race, gender, sexuality, religion, class, etc.. I despise when people label themselves and formulate an ego/ define who they are because it limits themselves from the bigger picture instead of bridging with the people who are different. It's not us vs them, but some people still formulate that mentality.


Try to understand this. Ifr you do, you will see why people take labels.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qLm3HMG8IhM

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17 Dec 2014, 10:45 am

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You know what, I'll just be succinct and honest; feminists are often annoying, end of story.


Indeed. All who seek justice are annoying as they are teaching us how unjust we collectively are.

Better to leave us in our blind ignorance.

You must be a Christian.

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17 Dec 2014, 12:15 pm

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So is any group when considered as a collective, you fence-sitter you. :P


Eh, feminists tend towards a special kind of annoying, there are even studies on it:


http://www.salon.com/2013/09/26/study_e ... s_partner/


Much more like it! :lol:

Seriously though, the article pretty much nails it, albeit on the most mundane level.



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17 Dec 2014, 4:27 pm

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It's unclear if there is any pay gap for the same work, factoring out all differences in profession, experience etc. (not really). But the ~70% figure is not in any way for the same work, it's simply an average across all jobs, before factoring out any differences. If a company could save 15% on the wages by employing only women, it would vastly out-compete its competitors.


Actually, the male/female wage gap is something that I have delved into in depth. Even the most misogyny-apologist based study put the gap at 96% after controlling for everything they could think of to toss out conflicting data, including a few bizarre assumptions about how pregnancy and childbirth work.


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17 Dec 2014, 4:30 pm

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You know what, I'll just be succinct and honest; feminists are often annoying, end of story.


While I self-identify as a feminist, I will not argue with this sentiment. It is the same criticism I have with many atheists (which is something I also self-identify as). I guess the same could be said for every ideological group. Most have valid points (some more than others), but all have those who use it to justify that ingrained us v them style hatred we seem to have coded into our DNA.


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17 Dec 2014, 10:46 pm

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The US is miles behind the rest of the western world in terms of societal progress, but whatever floats your boat.

How about figures for:
% of all people that have been President
% of all people that are or have been SCOTUS justices
% of all people that sit on the Senate
% of all people that make up/have made up the House
% of eligible voters in USA that are female/male

Oh, we're upping the ante to all people, everywhere? Do you really want to go there?

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...93% of all workplace deaths are males, and it becomes apparent that it's statistically far more dangerous to be a man than a woman in the US.

two points:
1)that statistic generally leaves out women murdered in the course of sex work, because it's illegal in most states.
2)Men also make up ~89% of the Darwin Award recipients.
In other words, men choose to take on danger, and to do stupid things, in part because it is seen as 'masculine' to do so. The fact that they do so is part of the same poisonous ideology that says that men cannot wear makeup.

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Every one of these victims is important, yet the focus appears to be on a fraction of a fraction.

Death by industrial accident, death by voluntary stupidity, and death by murder are quite different things. If men would deign to take jobs that are considered 'women's work' like secretary or child care, or if they would refrain from harassing the men who do, and if they would refrain from harassing the women who try to take on 'men's work,' then the gender proportion of industrial accidents would change.
Here's an interesting essay on the topic:
http://inequalitybyinteriordesign.wordp ... ted-death/

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Suicide attempt statistics are notoriously inaccurate and rely almost exclusively on reports of those who have been admitted to hospital and where simple self-harm has not necessarily been ruled out.

Self-harm is, quite often, a prelude to suicide. Cutting of the arms results in what psychologists call "hesitation marks," a serious sign of suicide risk. Again, the fact that women want to go 'gently' and 'without mess' means that there is time for medical and pharmacological intervention, not that the did not mean to kill themselves. Having spent 15 years in a job that largely involved clinical work in an ER, I can state from my own experience that people who self-harmed with the goal of self harm were largely depressed to the level that they either did not care if they died, or actively sought death.

One thing that women have going for them, that men do not, is that women are already seen as 'weak' so there's not as much of a stigma to them asking for help. Again, if men were willing to fight against the repulsive, macho gender constructs that are imposed on them by society, and actually admit when they need help and seek it, they'd be better off.
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Back when women weren't allowed into Universities, up until the point where female numbers surpassed male, it was said that the imbalance was because men were more rational, smarter, etc. Why does that explanation no longer fly? ;p

Why do you think it appropriate to trivialise such an important issue when it isn't one which affects women?

because I think that it's a historical (and American) anomaly that the university gender imbalance is as it is. It has become 'effete' to be learned in anything - men going more into those dangerous, macho professions, striving to be jocks rather than scientists - but that will change sooner or later.
There's also the vast disproportion in men and women in the STEM fields, but that's another whole argument.
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Likewise women are still seen (along with children) as more worthy of protection. Where do you stand on the subject of chivalric behaviour, where a man who requires protection relinquishes his masculinity but a woman retains her feminine identity?

In general, I think that chivalry is BS, and I think that weak-kneed women who allow themselves to be rolled with no struggle are pathetic. A 30-lb dog will do more to protect itself than some full-grown women, though thankfully that is changing.
It does seem to be true, though, that men (at least NT men) like to 'rescue' women; in general, if a woman comes across as incompetent, she gets a lot more male attention. It's like the Japanese phenomenon of 'kawai.'

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There should be far greater onus on the privilege of inheritance over the privileges of gender.

The two are not mutually exclusive. Hence the feminist philosophy of intersectionality.

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This one {intersectionality} I will need to see some evidence for.

first five links for 'intersectionality' on google:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intersectionality
http://geekfeminism.wikia.com/wiki/Intersectionality
http://socialdifference.columbia.edu/fi ... enshaw.pdf
http://www.uccnrs.ucsb.edu/intersectionality
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/womens ... -care.html

You could also hang out on http://feministing.com, http://www.feministe.us/blog/
http://www.rawstory.com/rs/category/pandagon/, or any number of active feminist sites rather than listening to Rush Limbaugh about what feminism is.

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...the majority of men are not Presidents, Senators, Justices, Representatives, etc.

However, the majority of men are vastly better represented by presidents, senators, justices, etc. than are the majority of women. This has been patently clear in the last decade, with laws not only clawing back advances in abortion rights but de facto making women wards of the state (largely in southern states) when they're pregnant.

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The degree of privilege offered by being born into wealth is of far greater significance.

True, but, again: the two are not mutually exclusive. I'm a socialist as well as a feminist.

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When it comes to the fair evaluation of individual circumstances, sociology is irrelevant.

BS. When employers are more likely to hire a white felon than a black man with a clean record, your pretensions of 'fair evaluation' fly out the window. You might not like it, but statistical differences in how people are treated do accumulate not only over a lifetime, but over a society, in the same way that minuscule advantages in fitness accumulate in a population over thousands of generations.

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I can only surmise, from your chosen form of response, that you are not pro-equality. Either you value people for their individuality, or you see them as disposable stereotypes.

1)false dichotomy
2)it depends on what you mean by 'equality.' I am in favor of equality of opportunity, which we patently do not have in the US at this time, and I am in favor of taking measures to correct that.
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No, I'm not, though I agree that it's unfair.

Well, I'm not going to dig through the thread again trying to ferret out the quote that you meant. If you care about it, reiterate it.

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It's okay to lump all men together based solely on their gender, but it's not okay to loosely group feminists together based on their shared ideology?

the validity of lumping depends on the context, and you missed my point. I was saying that women who enjoy chivalry are largely *not* feminists, and largely would not claim to be so. Not all women are feminists.
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If you've read my previous posts and responses in this thread, you'll be fully aware that the conflation of 'feminist' with 'woman' is a behaviour I find tiresome - not to mention all too common.

Uh, yeah. My point?

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The statistics we've reviewed so far in this thread suggest the part in underlined bold is subjective interpretation.

I disagree, and the scientists who study the matter back me up on that despite your dismissal of the field because you don't like its conclusions.

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Expecting everyone to fly the same flag, and attempting to shame those who do not, is not so fine.

*snort*
that borders on chastising me for getting into an argument on an internet forum built for arguing. Disagreeing with you does not mean that I want everyone to 'fly the same flag,' nor that I am 'shaming you,' any more than you disagreeing with me means that you think those things.
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Of those advocating feminism in this thread alone, you are thus far the only one to not do either in lieu of an actual point.

That's a little bit of a backhanded complement, but I think it's largely because I've been scientifically trained and I've been doing this for a while. People get emotional in this sort of argument, on both sides.


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A woman with high self esteem and intelligence =/= feminist.

ad-hominem. That's about on the level of 'women of quality aren't interested in the vote.'

Only if you misunderstand what I wrote, which you seem to have. Unless you're actually saying that all feminists are women with high self-esteem and intelligence?

*snort* you need to study some basic mathematical logic, darling.

Mathematics when applied to linguistic concepts is more an art than a science, but I'll play anyway.
Perhaps the addition of brackets will help:
(A woman with high self esteem and intelligence) =/= feminist
Still reads much the same.
Perhaps if we reverse the positions of the arguments:
Feminist =/= a woman with high self esteem and intelligence.
Still open to misinterpretation.
How about super simplifying the equation to make my point more clear:
Feminist =/= a woman.
I hope that removes any ambiguity.

Yeah, it makes it clear that I was absolutely correct with my initial interpretation.



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17 Dec 2014, 10:48 pm

Dox47 wrote:
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So is any group when considered as a collective, you fence-sitter you. :P


Eh, feminists tend towards a special kind of annoying, there are even studies on it:


http://www.salon.com/2013/09/26/study_e ... s_partner/

Actually, that article makes it clear that what people have a problem with are the stereotyped images (aka straw-feminists or straw-environmentalists) that they have of activists, not with most actual activists or with the philosophy in general.



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17 Dec 2014, 10:55 pm

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Female nature has a bad habit of destroying rights as one can look at probation as an example and how they usually back censorship such as political correctness.

Uh, what? Actual censorship is usually enacted by the religious right, to which feminism is anathema.

Political correctness largely means 'don't be a dick.'
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It does not matter what situation we are born into there is a similar thread of "manning up" that is no different in any culture and is worst in other such as the african community.

Hang on, you just claimed that, having been born with a mental disorder, you shouldn't have to worry about anyone else's problems, yes? But now it "doesn't matter"?
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I am correct, it just that you are looking at the basic level. Women get help through the state with the court system as they are the clear winners of the divorce system. They are also tend to get lighter sentences then men do if they commit the same crime.

No. You claimed that you have no access to help from the state because you are a man. It is clear from my links that men do have access to state help. Where women are the 'winners' in state assistance and divorce proceedings, it is largely because 1)they are far more likely to sacrifice their careers in favor of their spous and children than men are, and 2)they statistically take the lion's share of child care. Support is given to custodial parents, and custody is given to the primary care-taker of the children. End of story. Equality of opportunity.

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You raised the subject of societal morality, I'm interested only in personal morality.

That's your prerogative, but given that feminism is a sociolgical philosophy, you're probably on the wrong thread then.



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17 Dec 2014, 11:22 pm

Yes. I get it. People think that all feminists are extreme man-haters. And that supposedly is worse and more unnatural then men being woman-haters. :roll:

I show any offense to woman-hating jokes or comments, and it's like, "Oh you're a feminist and we have free speech so we're allowed to say women are stupid, bad drivers, evil, and on and on"

Today I read on Facebook that a page was posted by a group of male student dentists at a college in Halifax saying evil things about the female students, including that one of them needed to be given a rag full of chloroform. The scary thing is that men like this could actually end up killing women out of hatred. It's right here in Nova Scotia, so it's quite literally close to home. :( It's happened before. The female nurses who were killed in Montreal years ago... of course they should all be expelled but that won't stop the hate. But since I have an objection to such things... FEMINIST!



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18 Dec 2014, 12:21 am

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You must be a Christian.

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Lifelong atheist actually. You're obviously not good at judging people, though you seem to think you are.


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18 Dec 2014, 12:31 am

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Actually, that article makes it clear that what people have a problem with are the stereotyped images (aka straw-feminists or straw-environmentalists) that they have of activists, not with most actual activists or with the philosophy in general.


I think we've danced this step before; I, and most people who are annoyed by feminists (AO aside) are not talking about the semi-mythical Dworkin straw feminist, but the all too common privilege checking trigger warning hashtag spewing LGBTWTFBBQ rights gender warrior type who claim that telling a woman to 'be careful' when walking through a bad neighborhood is "victim blaming", that 'good morning' is sexual harassment, etc. You can't tell me that this school of feminism isn't mainstream or common, as it is by far the most vocal and visible face of the movement at the moment, to the detriment of all.


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18 Dec 2014, 1:54 am

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Political correctness largely means 'don't be a dick.'

Than what is the line of in sand where someone is a dick or not a dick? Again PC movement is about censoring everything to protect the mystical pure of heart people. Who cares if you offend someone it has nothing to do about anything. I could be offended by your exist and you don't go killing yourself for me?
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Hang on, you just claimed that, having been born with a mental disorder, you shouldn't have to worry about anyone else's problems, yes? But now it "doesn't matter"?


Sorry for that misunderstanding. I don't see any value in my existents, I was just using myself as any example for my argument as a I find if you give personal examples people are more likely to relate you thus see the point in your argument.
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No. You claimed that you have no access to help from the state because you are a man. It is clear from my links that men do have access to state help. Where women are the 'winners' in state assistance and divorce proceedings, it is largely because 1)they are far more likely to sacrifice their careers in favor of their spous and children than men are, and 2)they statistically take the lion's share of child care. Support is given to custodial parents, and custody is given to the primary care-taker of the children. End of story. Equality of opportunity.

There is no such thing as equality of opportunity. Equality of opportunity is just a nicer way of saying slavery. That the slaves should drag down the masters to their levels. To clear up my other point, there are less funding for male needs in society as society sees the males as the expendable sex. Being male means your are more likely to have a violent crime happen to you, becoming homeless, and more likely to kill yourself. Of course the real killer is the slavery of man through marriage and divorce.


RAMBLE RAMBLE RAMBLE


This all comes down to feminism being just another from of slavery. The feminist want females to have all the rights without the responsibilities the comes from them. They always look for men or the state to bail them out whenever something goes wrong. But, who is the slaves of this society? Men, of course! Men only gets value from providing something where as a female has an inherent value. You don't see feminist fighting against this inequality.



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18 Dec 2014, 2:00 am

Sorry, but are you trolling or being serious by comparing feminism to slavery?

If you're being serious, your entire post is null and void after that. Might want to read the definition of slavery

slav·ery
noun \ˈslā-v(ə-)rē\

: the state of being a slave

: the practice of owning slaves


Now, let's compare that to feminism

fem·i·nism
noun \ˈfe-mə-ˌni-zəm\

: the belief that men and women should have equal rights and opportunities

: organized activity in support of women's rights and interests


Also, how in the name of sweet Jehovah are men "slaves"? Men have been in power for how long with no repercussions for oppression? This is Alex Jones level of trite, I'm sorry, but I'm just being honest.



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18 Dec 2014, 2:07 pm

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...93% of all workplace deaths are males, and it becomes apparent that it's statistically far more dangerous to be a man than a woman in the US.

two points:
1)that statistic generally leaves out women murdered in the course of sex work, because it's illegal in most states.


Ditto for drug-dealers, shoplifters and smugglers. Is Michael Brown in the workplace death statistics? Do you have actual numbers showing a gender bias in the 'workplace' deaths that your argument applies to, or are you hoping that everyone will leap to a non sequitur conclusion based on partial data?

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2)Men also make up ~89% of the Darwin Award recipients.
In other words, men choose to take on danger, and to do stupid things...


...and sometimes the opposite: Safer Sex as the Bolder Choice

There should certainly be a lesser cousin to the Darwin Awards for people who mistake gag sites for statistical evidence.



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18 Dec 2014, 5:18 pm

Here in Sweden, everyone talks about feminsm and feminists are everyhere, they have taken over all the swedish forums. In Sweden, we talk about racism, immigrants, Islam and feminism all the time.