A beautiful example of theological reasoning
This thread has me thinking about a book my son was assigned to read last year, 6th grade. It's called "The Giver" and it slowly leads you to see all the problems that trying to create a so-called utopian society, with no suffering, created. Amazingly deep and thought provoking and, yes, a children's book (who said education no longer challenges children to think?). The theologian quoted may not have stated the argument with adequate depth and resonance, and some of it seems just like platitudes, but he does have a point in that there is some reason for suffering, even if it is very difficult to see. But, perhaps, reading "The Giver" would provoke more applicable analysis.
So why would God allow suffering? Because He knows what the world would be like if He buffered it. It would be like the frightening world you come to understand in "The Giver."
Fuzzy, I am sorry you feel it's like arguing that you get to be the whipping boy. I don't think it is.
Since Aspergers isn’t an illness, I don't think the passage applies to it. Yes, there is suffering involved for many on the spectrum, but is not true universally. My son, for example, does not seem to suffer for it - while he has difficulties and stresses, he is an incredibly happy person. Regardless, I don't think anyone is saying that you bear it for the sake of others, at least not in the way you are reading it. I do think that having autistics in the world has a purpose, however. Not so much about sympathy, but maybe embracing differences? Having someone to point out a different perspective so that the herd isn't doomed to be locked into its thinking?
If there is one thing I've learned in life, it is that no one "gets it all." NO ONE. No matter how it may look to those not living that one person's life, there is ALWAYS a burden. Some burdens are visible to others, some are not, but it does not mean they don't exist. Perhaps they are not perfectly evenly spread, but they ARE spread out. There are few times in my life that I've met someone else who makes me wish I could live their life, it seems so blessed. But as I get to know them better, I start to learn of the burdens they carry, very different from mine, and realize that I would have a lot of trouble living their life. You aren't someone else's proxy. That just isn't true, and while the theologian may have implied that, it isn't what he meant, for surely he had lived long enough to see what I've seen. Truly, NO ONE "gets it all."
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But a world where suffering doesn't exist has to be considered a possibility, and a truly utopian possibility to a believer. Think about heaven. If perfection can exist in heaven, then why not earth? If children who die in early childhood can go up to heaven, which many Christians believe, then it seems that none of the sufferings of this earthly stage are necessary, and if they aren't necessary for utopia to exist, then the problem of evil still remains.
Ha! But what about us rich westerners? We may not envy anyone, but we certainly have no reason to find a person who lives in a war-torn, and AIDS-stricken Africa to be very enviable.
Oh I agree on both points. I dont think I much suffer as a result of having aspergers. I'm big, male, reasonably attractive. I get to play the role of alpha dog often enough. A certain amount of strangeness is forgiveable when you play that role. And I'm inured and unmoved by others opinion of me (which is a problem in itself!)
My use of aspergers was to elicit an emotional response in readers. I could have said 'cancer' but not many people here would understand that travail (I dont) and likewise aspies are not noted for placing themselves in others shoes, so to speak. So aspergers seemed the best choice. I can only safely evoke their direct experiences.
And of course nobody gets it all, but as you've likely seen from the emo culture, upper/middle class youth with good health will still find things to suffer about.
I dont think anyone suffers at the whim of a omnipotent creator; we suffer just because. There need not be a reason. There is no creator to hang a blame on.
The whole point of the thread is that a man(Richard Swinburne) of that authority and 'expertise' could surely come up with a much more coherent dogma. He is, after all, an 80 year old Oxford scholar. His panacea for sin has more holes than a Hollywood blockbuster.
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I can't actually let this one go. And I think you people are failing to see just how profound this passage is in its potential to transform our humanity.
It's the job of someone educated in political matters to devise specific strategies for society's woes in a more comprehensive and detailed way. General and broader plans would eventually trickle down to impact upon each individual.
But it's the job of religion - I would have thought - to teach us a way of dealing with these woes with instructions that target each of us as an individual. And the effects supposedly would broaden outwards to affect -many- people.
Now suffering is a given and we can't realistically devise a plan to eliminate it from our world in any immediate way. And it's probably a very confusing aspect of our existence for most people. To tell them to just accept it or wait until their final exhalation is not only cruel - but it robs people of an opportunity to develop their minds in an extraordinary way.
Because you see -compassion- is a most underestimated state of mind. Not only is it a wish for the suffering to be alleviated - but it is accompanied by a sense of committment and responsibility that moves one from the concerns for one's own self to the outer world around one. Can you imagine what kind of world we would be living in if everyone did this? It would probably reduce a vast majority of the world's suffering in a single moment of it being thought by people on a large world scale. This is because a lot of the suffering is caused by self-interest (by both individuals and nations). Wars, poverty, diseases from a lack of health care, environmental damage - all result from self-interest that seeks gain for oneself at the expense of another.
Compassion can only come about by thinking deeply and intensely of another's situation of suffering. The more thought put into it - then the more intense the reaction. As I stated before - this reaction is not about pity, or making oneself emotional. Instead it's about making one feel responsible for the wellbeing of others. The intensity of the concern we each have for others determines how greatly we can reduce the causes of suffering - that cause being our own self-concern.
So IMO whether this person is a scholar or a theologian - if the message they choose to share with others is focused on suffering and the way to make that suffering -meaningful- then it is a message imbued with the highest intention for humanity. Considering the state of our world this message is the most realistic option we could hope for in achieving an alleviation of our woes, provided people interpet it accurately and mingle it with their own minds.
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It's the job of someone educated in political matters to devise specific strategies for society's woes in a more comprehensive and detailed way. General and broader plans would eventually trickle down to impact upon each individual.
But it's the job of religion - I would have thought - to teach us a way of dealing with these woes with instructions that target each of us as an individual. And the effects supposedly would broaden outwards to affect -many- people.
Now suffering is a given and we can't realistically devise a plan to eliminate it from our world in any immediate way. And it's probably a very confusing aspect of our existence for most people. To tell them to just accept it or wait until their final exhalation is not only cruel - but it robs people of an opportunity to develop their minds in an extraordinary way.
Because you see -compassion- is a most underestimated state of mind. Not only is it a wish for the suffering to be alleviated - but it is accompanied by a sense of committment and responsibility that moves one from the concerns for one's own self to the outer world around one. Can you imagine what kind of world we would be living in if everyone did this? It would probably reduce a vast majority of the world's suffering in a single moment of it being thought by people on a large world scale. This is because a lot of the suffering is caused by self-interest (by both individuals and nations). Wars, poverty, diseases from a lack of health care, environmental damage - all result from self-interest that seeks gain for oneself at the expense of another.
Compassion can only come about by thinking deeply and intensely of another's situation of suffering. The more thought put into it - then the more intense the reaction. As I stated before - this reaction is not about pity, or making oneself emotional. Instead it's about making one feel responsible for the wellbeing of others. The intensity of the concern we each have for others determines how greatly we can reduce the causes of suffering - that cause being our own self-concern.
So IMO whether this person is a scholar or a theologian - if the message they choose to share with others is focused on suffering and the way to make that suffering -meaningful- then it is a message imbued with the highest intention for humanity. Considering the state of our world this message is the most realistic option we could hope for in achieving an alleviation of our woes, provided people interpet it accurately and mingle it with their own minds.
Unfortunately, that's baloney.
There is undoubtedly much suffering imposed on people by sonsabitches out for power and money and glory and that's not to dismiss it but an awful lot of excrement travels fanward straight out of plain dumb stupidity, out of inefficiency out of incurable diseases, accidents, old age, lightning, flood, tsunamis, qnd all sorts of interesting cataclysms that just wait to be unleashed by the mere passage of time. So you either sustain or die and a good deal of it has nothing to do with compassion.
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Even if compassion can't prevent natural disasters, accidents, sufferings of old age - those unfortunate experiences are not wasted if people use them to realise the situation of humanity rather than revolting from them with fear and confusion and then using their own fear as an excuse to further pamper to their own needs whilst neglecting the needs of others.
It saddens me that this is even a debate - that people can't see what a world of difference compassion could bring. But then again - the beauty of debate is that it inspires further thought. And the level of compassion required to affect a change would require more than an intellectual understanding. There's an attitude that needs to be turned inside-out and then over onto its head.
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It saddens me that this is even a debate - that people can't see what a world of difference compassion could bring. But then again - the beauty of debate is that it inspires further thought. And the level of compassion required to affect a change would require more than an intellectual understanding. There's an attitude that needs to be turned inside-out and then over onto its head.
When my son died and someone tried to pat my head and tell me how peaceful he now was in heaven I had all I could do to not tell him to frankly f uck off and pop him in the nose.. I really do not need that kind of crap. There are some miseries that are pure and deserve to be suffered through personally to accept the pain and the misery as the price for losing a son. That is what reality is all about. Compassion involving needed money and medical care and food and other necessities are acceptable but you can take spirituality and shove it.
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That's a subjective emotional response that is ignorantly superimposing spirituality into a post that was purely about compassion. So I could say the same thing about emotions - shove them - because I really don't see how they could help things. The whole point of the post was to discuss ways of alleviating the suffering we know to exist. Not to further exacerbate it by everyone here getting all emotional.
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You may find my emotion disconcerting but it is genuine and the comment was right on the mark. Emotions such as I describe are common in real suffering and tragedy and anybody's compassion over someone else's emotion is irrelevant to the sufferer. If the compassion motivates some actual help that's fine but I need no one to weep over me. I am perfectly capable of doing that for myself.
Very interesting. So, if I were to go around inflicting suffering by setting people's houses on fire, that would actually be a good thing, because it would give the fire brigade an opportunity to put out the fires, and give the people's neighbours opportunities to be nice to them. If I were to create some suffering by chopping people's hands off, I'd actually be doing everyone a favour by allowing people to show sympathy.
Indeed. Creating illnesses is a great way of making people find cures for them. Setting bombs off in crowded markets is also a wonderful thing to do, because it gives society an opportunity to decide on the best way to respond to terrorism.
Which means that there is absolutely nothing wrong with deliberately infecting large numbers of people with deadly pathogens. Why do we spend so much effort fighting al-Qaeda, when we should really be treating them as heroes for allowing us to make valuable life choices with their acts of mass murder, and giving them all the weapons of mass destruction they might ask for?
By Swinburne's reasoning, one can behave as a total psychopath and still be morally virtuous. For any set of abhorrent behaviour, one can come up with rationalisations for how it was actually good. Think of all the suffering Stalin caused. The fact that he caused suffering doesn't make him a bad person, because he was providing so many people opportunities to build character and show compassion in the face of the suffering he caused. Basically, if one accepts Swinburne's argument, one forfeits the right to make any moral judgements, because in his view, no action can possibly be considered wrong.
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One of the points I'm trying to make is that if we all accept each others' suffering it distances us from our own suffering and we are less likely to suffer emotionally from our own woes. That's how it helps us.
I found the comment about finding peace in heaven to be irrelevant to this discussion. It seemed to be invoking an unnecessary emotional response in an attempt to counter what I was saying. But I wasn't actually talking about spirituality - I was talking about life.
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I found the comment about finding peace in heaven to be irrelevant to this discussion. It seemed to be invoking an unnecessary emotional response in an attempt to counter what I was saying. But I wasn't actually talking about spirituality - I was talking about life.
And I wasn't really talking about heaven, I was talking about bullsh it. And it strikes me that people who immerse themselves in other people's suffering to alleviate their own are indulging themselves in rather gruesome incidents in a rather repellent manner. If you can give people in trouble real practical help that is one thing. The other is rather ghoulish.
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Perhaps you are an extraordinary person with the talent to gather together all the forces to accomplish something spectacular in combating the corruption, the viciousness, the hatred, the immense ignorance and stupidity which has plagued humanity from time immemorial into the present. I certainly am not and being terribly clumsy with human relationships I have devoted myself to ducks who are much more amenable to my talents.That seems to be the limits of my compassion.
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