puddingmouse wrote:
In Ancient Greece, as in other societies where male homosexuality is not disapproved of, it was actually seen as more 'manly' for a man to fancy men. They didn't have this concept that male homosexuality = anal sex, either (but they did greatly diapprove of any man who practice passive anal sex - that was seen as feminising). I honestly don't know why people fixate on the anal sex aspect of male homosexuality, but I suspect it's because it's a fear common to heterosexual men, which I won't understand because I am not one.
Interesting, I always
thought the anti anal thing was Roman, not Greek.
For Romans any "submissive" sexual act was shameful for a male... That would include all forms of oral sex.
However, it was fine for a Roman male to penetrate anyone, including non-Roman males.
As an example, Hadrian had a male lover, but he was Greek so it was not an issue.
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