I want to go to Heaven to see God, but I'm having trouble
Who in the world told you that in Heaven, there would be no gender or no material beauty? There are some people who put forth the confusing idea that humans transform into angels after death ... that's not true.
As for the stormy times we're living in ... after the storm comes a rainbow. So don't give up hope on meeting your dream girl and getting married. Yes, it does seem like we're in for some really, super hard and dicey times ... stay strong, hold onto hope.
As for whether we'll all be wearing clothes in Heaven all the time ... while I'm sure clothing will certainly be available ... it's been debated by some as to whether clothing will be absolutely necessary in Heaven. Why? Because to start with, Adam and Eve were naked ... some say that before they lost paradise, they were "clothed" by light, and surrounded by great dignity, so they didn't need to wear clothes made from plants, animals, or polyester.
How long will you live, or how long will I live? Who knows? I might get run over by a truck tomorrow ... then guess what, that's my "end of the world." So I can't live in fear, eh?
As for feeling devastated, there's a whole lot of Catholics / Christians and I would say plenty of others who are struggling these days, with everything going on in the world. So no, you're not alone. There's plenty of challenges to live through and overcome ... for me as well as for you.
Oh, and in these turbulent times? You just may find yourself becoming a knight in shining armor. Really.
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1) Jesus Christ is the only person in the history of humanity to have ever declared himself to be the son of God, rather than a mere Prophet. Even former atheist Anthony Flew admitted that the resurrection is perhaps, the most documented historical miracle in world history.
2) Catholic Miracles. My personal favorite is Beauraing and Kibeho, not to mention classic examples like Fatima and Lourdes.
Well... there is something to be brought up against this.
1) Even biblical scholars do not agree on whether jesus made this claim himself, or whether others made this claim for him.
1A) Even if he did claim this, it doesn't prove anything; muhammed claimed that god would never lower himself to the point of sending a son (or avatar) to earth. (yes, allah, jahweh, god and jehowa are one and the same diety, read the holy books; they reference the same being)
1B) This is assuming that the biblical jesus existed in the first place
1.5) The resurrection is mentioned nowhere outside of the bible; just that it is in several gospels doesn't count, since they are all copies of the original gospel; you'd think that the romans would have mentioned something as overtly magical as this executed guy being revived.
2) None of them are described or confirmed outside of the bible. since the bible makes the claim that they happened, any evidence must come from somewhere else (not different chapters, not different books of the bible; from 3rd parties).
2B) Many of these miracles have a secular expanation (not all of them, but many); which means that just the fact that they happened (*if* they happened) doesn't prove your god anymore.
Here's a book I read recently. The author's view of Heaven & Hell seems plausible, but what do I know?
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I use the Jain concepts of cosmology in the book, but since I don't like proselytizing, I never mention Jainism in it.
Heaven has seven levels. If your soul warrants it, you begin your ascent towards perfect bliss in Level I, then, as the centuries pass, you travel up to Level II and so on.
Heaven Level I resembles the earth you'd just left behind. However, because there are no fossil fuels, things like plastic and petroleum don't exist. There are no animals either because the ascent to heaven is a conscious decision towards nirvana, a concept animals and plants won't be capable of. No zooplankton, no fossil fuels. Citizens don't die in Heaven. They're already dead; what we see are citizens rebuilt from celestial matter around a soul which had captured the "blueprint" of it's previous host. In that sense, the looks and behaviours of the past host is reborn.
Hell also has seven levels. Level I is for the petty burglars and thieves, and lazy people who basically amounted to nothing in life. Level VII is for the worst of the worst - serial killers, warmongers, leaders accused of genocide, etc.
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Well once you die you wouldn't really have a physical body with which to produce offspring or have sex. I mean I assume if there is an after life the idea is that you've transcended those things. Wouldn't make sense if it's just a second life you can live just like this one...
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But I am a lonely virgin, not even have a lot of friends, and I think time is running out here on Earth, a major catastrophe, or I will soon be annihilated by a nuke or raptures away to Heaven without advance warning. I really wanted the chance to find true love with a very beautiful woman who is pretty much my imaginary dream girl. But I'm sad it won't happen because Jesus was supposed to say there will be no flesh desire in the new kingdom. I'm so dejected and depressed about the concept of what Heaven is. It also appears that we will even be wearing clothes 24/7. No erotic intimacy, even with a Godly partner, happens at all.
I am afraid of going to Heaven and not being able to reclaim a sexual and romantic relationship with the partner of my dreams. I need to feel better. That, and the fear of being annihilated or having my life taken away on Earth so young because of nuclear war or World War 3, or another apocalypse.
Please help, what should I do? I feel like I can't escape the pain and emotional turmoil. Am I the lone Christian/Catholic who feels this devastated?
You will absolutely not be disappointed. If death is final you will not see anything because after death there is no more you. If God exists and death is not final then you will get your wish. In neither case will you be disappointed
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But I am a lonely virgin, not even have a lot of friends, and I think time is running out here on Earth, a major catastrophe, or I will soon be annihilated by a nuke or raptures away to Heaven without advance warning. I really wanted the chance to find true love with a very beautiful woman who is pretty much my imaginary dream girl. But I'm sad it won't happen because Jesus was supposed to say there will be no flesh desire in the new kingdom. I'm so dejected and depressed about the concept of what Heaven is. It also appears that we will even be wearing clothes 24/7. No erotic intimacy, even with a Godly partner, happens at all.
I am afraid of going to Heaven and not being able to reclaim a sexual and romantic relationship with the partner of my dreams. I need to feel better. That, and the fear of being annihilated or having my life taken away on Earth so young because of nuclear war or World War 3, or another apocalypse.
Please help, what should I do? I feel like I can't escape the pain and emotional turmoil. Am I the lone Christian/Catholic who feels this devastated?
I am a physicist and a Catholic so occasionally I do face perplexing issues in my faith. But I do think the Christianity is the one true religion, for a variety of different reasons.
1) Jesus Christ is the only person in the history of humanity to have ever declared himself to be the son of God, rather than a mere Prophet. Even former atheist Anthony Flew admitted that the resurrection is perhaps, the most documented historical miracle in world history.
2) Catholic Miracles. My personal favorite is Beauraing and Kibeho, not to mention classic examples like Fatima and Lourdes.
Why would that make it the 'one true religion'? There were plenty of beliefs before Christianity, and those haven't all vanished just were greatly diminished by historical Christians trying to spread they're one true religion often times by force.
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as spock might say, "fascinating..."
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author jurgen ziewe, in his book "vistas of infinity- how to enjoy life when you are dead," gave a description of a suicide bomber in the hereafter, he was [paraphrasing] stuck in a pit where every time he'd try to get up he'd get slammed back down into the muck, and he was surrounded by the 3D sight of his splattered body parts all over the place he'd last lived, and the other dead people also, and at a higher level he was surrounded by 3D images and sounds of his victims' families wailing in agony at the loss of their loved ones, and all pointing fingers at him. the implication was that the late suicide bomber would be in that situation for an incalculably long time, ages in fact.
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Everything that you have ever been taught about reality is wrong.
Pull up this page and use your browser's search-function to read everything written about sex.
Meanwhile, you can just order yourself a sex-doll, I recommend the life-sized PVC-type sex-dolls, and you can fit any appropriate wig on her to your liking. Get multiple dolls and make a harem! ;D
Time to lose your old religions/beliefs and adopt happier ones that are not self-contradictory to life-experiences/reality.
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Jains believe in reincarnation, just not in the familial sense that, for instance, your next door neighbor was Napoleon Bonaparte in his past life. The odds of that happening are WAY too high. Possible? Absolutely, but the odds are against that happening because the number of souls are huge; immeasurable, really.
Jains believe in Heaven, Earth, and Hell. To illustrate this concept, their logo is in the form of a Cosmic Man. All souls are on their way to somewhere; they are always in motion. Weighted down with karmic matter, they travel downwards (Hell). If the karmic matter wasn't too heavy, the soul would stay in the same plane it was "captured" in, that is, Earth. The soul, then, could be reborn in any animal, plant, or human. A soul not heavily weighted down with karmic matter would ascend upwards (Heaven).
I try my best to live a good life devoid of soul-destroying karmas such as ego, hatred, anger and jealousy. The chances of me inheriting Heaven, then, is greater than if I was a constant liar, thief, criminal, etc. It also helps that I practice ahimsa (non-violence), aparigraha (non-possessiveness), etc. to reach these ends.
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for this balky reader, can you give me the gist of the respective views of heaven and hell?