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Legato
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24 Feb 2009, 9:06 am

How does that apply to anything?



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24 Feb 2009, 10:06 am

Legato wrote:
How does that apply to anything?


It is about balancing your interests with and against the interests of others.

You have a goyische kopf.

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24 Feb 2009, 11:02 am

Because humans are naturally ignorant with a pack-like mentality. :wink:


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24 Feb 2009, 11:38 am

Q: why does good things happen to good people

A: cus the universe doesnt care about "good" or "bad", nobody does. not even most people.

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24 Feb 2009, 5:37 pm

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why do bad things happen to good people?

Because good people never admit they are actually bad people.


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24 Feb 2009, 11:54 pm

greenblue wrote:
Eggman wrote:
why do bad things happen to good people?

Because good people never admit they are actually bad people.


Or maybe there are no "bad" people. Merely stupid or misdirected people with no feeling for anybody else.



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25 Feb 2009, 1:29 am

Bad things don't just happen to good people, they happen to everybody...

also, there's a question of what is a bad thing... you may think a thing that happened to you is bad, but in the final analysis ends up being good for you...

like, you could get a flat tire (bad) and then boink the tow truck driver (good) who ends up giving you gonorrhea (bad) leaving you sick on the day your boss told you not to miss under any circumstances and so you lose your job (very bad) which leaves you no rent money and so you lose your home and end up homeless (extremely bad) and while you suffer as a homeless person you have a flash of inspiration that leads you to invent a totally new type of housing unit that permanently solves the homelessness problem for everyone and makes you a billionaire in the process (very very good)... would the flat and the STD and being broke and homeless have been a good thing or a bad thing at that point?



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25 Feb 2009, 5:32 am

s**t happens.

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22 Nov 2010, 3:41 pm

ruveyn wrote:
Why do good things happen to bad people?

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Maybe God is dyslexic?



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22 Nov 2010, 6:08 pm

The way the world works is that specific things happen at specific times in specific places due to specific factors (usually involving others' and your own actions), and to live a 'good' life (in the sense you are implying) you need to be there when 'good' things happen and not be there when 'bad' things happen. The problem is, it is very hard to predict when and where what things happen :wink: . Morally good people restrict themselves and bad people restrict others, so bad things happen to good people and good things happen to bad people.

We are all just running around a chaotic universe though currently we are trapped on a single planet (and a bit of space and a moon).

I find it makes me feel better about my life (which I regard as being pretty bad) if I think of things that way.

Now if only we could get an army of bad people united working under a good person who controls them all... but that good person would inevitable turn bad... I think a perfect society is impossible because humanity is flawed.



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22 Nov 2010, 9:20 pm

Legato wrote:
There's a balance somewhere in the middle of aggressive and passive, called assertive -- which is where I try my hardest to be, while still respecting others.

But "good" and "bad" are labels constructed by humans. What we label as good\bad is different from person to person.


While I agree with objective reality, I do believe that good and bad are valid concepts. Yes, what's good to Jeffrey Dahmer or Adolf Hitler isn't good to their victims. However, their happiness rested on the compromising the well being of other people. True good comes from a common harmony for all. True evil comes from the pursuit of personal harmony at the expense of disharmony for everyone else.



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22 Nov 2010, 9:21 pm

JNathanK wrote:
Legato wrote:
There's a balance somewhere in the middle of aggressive and passive, called assertive -- which is where I try my hardest to be, while still respecting others.

But "good" and "bad" are labels constructed by humans. What we label as good\bad is different from person to person.


While I agree to a certain extent that reality is objective, I do believe that good and bad are valid concepts. Yes, what's good to Jeffrey Dahmer or Adolf Hitler isn't good to their victims. However, their happiness rested on the compromising the well being of other people. True good comes from a common harmony for all. True evil comes from the pursuit of personal harmony at the expense of disharmony for everyone else.



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22 Nov 2010, 9:58 pm

Everybody has a different perception of 'good' and 'bad'. Most people believe that they are essentially good, regardless of whether they follow their own moral code as strictly as they enforce it upon other people.

It is therefore inevitable that 'bad' things will happen to 'good' people.



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23 Nov 2010, 12:36 am

Sand wrote:
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Why do good things happen to bad people?

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Because a lot of bad people are stronger and smarter than a lot of good people. In general, the world is run by mostly people who are neither good nor bad but act in their own interests whatever that requires.


and if what they believe is required happens to be bad for somebody else, then what does that make the people who performed said actions?



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23 Nov 2010, 4:16 am

auntblabby wrote:
Sand wrote:
ruveyn wrote:
Why do good things happen to bad people?

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Because a lot of bad people are stronger and smarter than a lot of good people. In general, the world is run by mostly people who are neither good nor bad but act in their own interests whatever that requires.


and if what they believe is required happens to be bad for somebody else, then what does that make the people who performed said actions?


Most frequently, rich.



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23 Nov 2010, 12:33 pm

Sand wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
Sand wrote:
ruveyn wrote:
Why do good things happen to bad people?

ruveyn


Because a lot of bad people are stronger and smarter than a lot of good people. In general, the world is run by mostly people who are neither good nor bad but act in their own interests whatever that requires.


and if what they believe is required happens to be bad for somebody else, then what does that make the people who performed said actions?


Most frequently, rich.


the love of moolah [and power] is the root of all evil. how do we uproot this infernal plant?