Suppose we switched from Patriarchy to Matriarchy?

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Is our society Patriarchal or Matriarchal?
Competely patriarchal 20%  20%  [ 7 ]
More patriarchal than matriarchal 51%  51%  [ 18 ]
Neither patriarchal nor matriarchal 20%  20%  [ 7 ]
More matriarchal than patriarchal 9%  9%  [ 3 ]
Completely matriarchal 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
Total votes : 35
02 Nov 2012, 9:56 pm

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That's what I say. Feminists want all the freedom and rights that men do, but none of the responsibilities. A man in our society has greater expectations, more responsibility, and less sympathy.


Please send me the address of this magic land.

I'm tired of being expected to work 10-12 hours a day to support myself.

I want some of this free money and the privileged lifestyle all of the other Western women supposedly have.


This. Pray tell me where this magic world is where I'll get free privileges and no dangers.



Iceland. 8)


Finland is also very much a female dominated society but Iceland takes the cake for being the most feminist nation on Earth. Norway? Not so much.



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03 Nov 2012, 4:25 am

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I'm not giving you sh** because you misinterpreted something; I do the same thing all the time. I'm giving you sh** because you're pretending that your point was something other than what it was (that 'tone' does not exist in text), and then doubling down on it when you've been called to the floor.

If you are making the claim that "tone" does not exist in text by saying that "tone" is strictly an audio characteristic, you are redefining tone as strictly an audio characteristc - not clarifying your prior statement.


So now you think you can read my mind too... What the f**k ever.

tone   [tohn] noun, verb, toned, ton·ing.
noun
1.
any sound considered with reference to its quality, pitch, strength, source, etc.: shrill tones.
2.
quality or character of sound.
3.
vocal sound; the sound made by vibrating muscular bands in the larynx.
4.
a particular quality, way of sounding, modulation, or intonation of the voice as expressive of some meaning, feeling, spirit, etc.: a tone of command.
5.
an accent peculiar to a person, people, locality, etc., or a characteristic mode of sounding words in speech.

OH LOOK, according to, oh, I dunno, just the f***ing DICTIONARY, TONE has to do with SOUND, which is how I was using it. I can't detect changes in the sound of one's voice thru text. SHOW ME SOMEONE WHO CAN.

Now who's redefining what?

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/tone
Scroll down for quite a few definitions that have nothing to do with voice, from muscle strength to paint to musical notes to, yes, literature.



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03 Nov 2012, 4:32 am

AspieRogue wrote:
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That's what I say. Feminists want all the freedom and rights that men do, but none of the responsibilities. A man in our society has greater expectations, more responsibility, and less sympathy.


Please send me the address of this magic land.

I'm tired of being expected to work 10-12 hours a day to support myself.

I want some of this free money and the privileged lifestyle all of the other Western women supposedly have.


This. Pray tell me where this magic world is where I'll get free privileges and no dangers.



Iceland.

Finland is also very much a female dominated society but Iceland takes the cake for being the most feminist nation on Earth. Norway? Not so much.

http://eng.velferdarraduneyti.is/depart ... -equality/
82% of Icelandic women work (compared to 58% of American women - look at that! women, granted more rights, choose to work more!http://www.dol.gov/wb/factsheets/Qf-laborforce-10.htm#.UJTkSZG9KK0) hardly the something-for-nothing situation described by black elk.



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03 Nov 2012, 4:39 am

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Yes, I feel better knowing that a random poster on WP considers herself superior to the work of full time scientists in the field of biology...


Eeeyeahhh, if we're going to accuse the people we disagree with of lying because we're on the Internet, there's really no point to debating each other, is there?

consensus expressed in multiple college biology text books > a few careless words in a few papers.

But, hey, maybe I just made all of that up instead of actually spending the time looking through the glossaries and indexes, eh? And maybe you're really a dog. Because on the Internet, nobody knows if you're a dog (/sarcasm).



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03 Nov 2012, 4:58 am

LKL wrote:
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I'm not giving you sh** because you misinterpreted something; I do the same thing all the time. I'm giving you sh** because you're pretending that your point was something other than what it was (that 'tone' does not exist in text), and then doubling down on it when you've been called to the floor.

If you are making the claim that "tone" does not exist in text by saying that "tone" is strictly an audio characteristic, you are redefining tone as strictly an audio characteristc - not clarifying your prior statement.


So now you think you can read my mind too... What the f**k ever.

tone   [tohn] noun, verb, toned, ton·ing.
noun
1.
any sound considered with reference to its quality, pitch, strength, source, etc.: shrill tones.
2.
quality or character of sound.
3.
vocal sound; the sound made by vibrating muscular bands in the larynx.
4.
a particular quality, way of sounding, modulation, or intonation of the voice as expressive of some meaning, feeling, spirit, etc.: a tone of command.
5.
an accent peculiar to a person, people, locality, etc., or a characteristic mode of sounding words in speech.

OH LOOK, according to, oh, I dunno, just the f***ing DICTIONARY, TONE has to do with SOUND, which is how I was using it. I can't detect changes in the sound of one's voice thru text. SHOW ME SOMEONE WHO CAN.

Now who's redefining what?

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/tone
Scroll down for quite a few definitions that have nothing to do with voice, from muscle strength to paint to musical notes to, yes, literature.


I'm not suggesting that those other definitions don't exist, but the primary definition has to do with sound, and since I used a word that has many meanings, I CLARIFIED which definition to which I was referring. I didn't redefine s**t.



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03 Nov 2012, 5:06 am

DerStadtschutz wrote:
I'm not suggesting that those other definitions don't exist, but the primary definition has to do with sound, and since I used a word that has many meanings, I CLARIFIED which definition to which I was referring. I didn't redefine sh**.

Darlin,' you have been trying to claim that tone cannot, by definition, exist outside of speech; in particular, you have been claiming that it cannot, by definition, exist in text. You are incorrect. If you don't want to call it 'redefinition,' fine: you're still wrong.



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03 Nov 2012, 7:18 am

...and now, back to our regularly scheduled derailing of a thread.

LKL wrote:
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Yes, I feel better knowing that a random poster on WP considers herself superior to the work of full time scientists in the field of biology...


Eeeyeahhh, if we're going to accuse the people we disagree with of lying because we're on the Internet, there's really no point to debating each other, is there?


I do not recall having accused you of lying. You have - on the other hand - most definitely accused me of posting BS while representing it as science.

LKL wrote:
consensus expressed in multiple college biology text books > a few careless words in a few papers.


You seem to forget that your claim about the universal use of the words "dominance" and "superiority" in biology doesn't need to be refuted by multiple college biology text books claiming otherwise (or equivalent collections of evidence) to be rejected. It only needs to be refuted by a *single* source. Also known as the logic of falsification.

And what basis do you have for considering the words in a peer-reviewed work "careless"? Did the use of these words diminish the scientific content of the work? Did it lead to bias in the Kruskal-Wallis and Mann-Whitney U-tests in that particular article?

Or perhaps - oh, the horror! - the words weren't careless at all because the authors simply used the definitions of "superior" and "dominant" in ways that were falsifiable and thus subject to empirical tests? (evidently obvious, as they couldn't perform the above tests if they weren't).

Oh, and since the article I posted is a peer-reviewed work, these inarticulate incompetent insane inferior ignoramuses are apparently careless as well. If not, why did they accept the article?
http://www.int-res.com/journals/meps/editors/

LKL wrote:
But, hey, maybe I just made all of that up instead of actually spending the time looking through the glossaries and indexes, eh? And maybe you're really a dog. Because on the Internet, nobody knows if you're a dog (/sarcasm).


Irrelevant due to my statement above.



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03 Nov 2012, 8:48 pm

already addressed all of that, Viper. Not going to repeat myself.



04 Nov 2012, 8:50 am

LKL wrote:
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mechanicalgirl39 wrote:
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blackelk wrote:
That's what I say. Feminists want all the freedom and rights that men do, but none of the responsibilities. A man in our society has greater expectations, more responsibility, and less sympathy.


Please send me the address of this magic land.

I'm tired of being expected to work 10-12 hours a day to support myself.

I want some of this free money and the privileged lifestyle all of the other Western women supposedly have.


This. Pray tell me where this magic world is where I'll get free privileges and no dangers.



Iceland.

Finland is also very much a female dominated society but Iceland takes the cake for being the most feminist nation on Earth. Norway? Not so much.

http://eng.velferdarraduneyti.is/depart ... -equality/
82% of Icelandic women work (compared to 58% of American women - look at that! women, granted more rights, choose to work more!http://www.dol.gov/wb/factsheets/Qf-laborforce-10.htm#.UJTkSZG9KK0) hardly the something-for-nothing situation described by black elk.




What blackelk described certainly does exist, and right here in the USofA. Women married to wealthy, chivalrous men who live off of their husbands money and can afford to hire a maid and a housekeeper. There are men who are willing to provide for women so long as they get sex from these women on a regular basis. And no, it is not prostitution! It is MARRIAGE. Anyone who is married and honest will attest that sex is a big part of marriage.



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04 Nov 2012, 4:44 pm

This thread is practically a battlefield at this point.



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05 Nov 2012, 1:10 am

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What blackelk described certainly does exist, and right here in the USofA. Women married to wealthy, chivalrous men who live off of their husbands money and can afford to hire a maid and a housekeeper. There are men who are willing to provide for women so long as they get sex from these women on a regular basis. And no, it is not prostitution! It is MARRIAGE. Anyone who is married and honest will attest that sex is a big part of marriage.

Oh, I don't deny that it exists - just that it has anything to do with feminism, equality of the sexes, what women in general want, and that it's as common as he suggests.



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05 Nov 2012, 3:03 pm

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I'm not suggesting that those other definitions don't exist, but the primary definition has to do with sound, and since I used a word that has many meanings, I CLARIFIED which definition to which I was referring. I didn't redefine sh**.

Darlin,' you have been trying to claim that tone cannot, by definition, exist outside of speech; in particular, you have been claiming that it cannot, by definition, exist in text. You are incorrect. If you don't want to call it 'redefinition,' fine: you're still wrong.


Someone just wanted to sound smart, and it isn't working. And it's not my fault you can't understand simple things. I also find it funny how someone uses a word, and then you scroll WAY PAST the first definition to find some obscure one and assume that's the one he must've meant. Then when he tries to clarify, you call it 'redefining' a word, despite the fact that such a definition already existed.

YOU'RE the one who's wrong.

Also, I never said "cannot exist outside of speech." I said "cannot exist WITHIN TEXT." there's a big difference there because "within text" specifically excludes ALL SOUND. Last time I checked, text doesn't create sound. If I'm so wrong, then prove it. You can't, unless you apply a definition other than the one I intended, which is exactly what you've done.



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05 Nov 2012, 4:03 pm

*sigh*
It's not obscure, Stadschutz. It's well-known by anyone who's ever taken freshman comp. You are simply, factually incorrect that tone cannot exist "within text," as has been demonstrated by dictionary entries.
As I already said, I'm not attached to the word 'redefining,' and am perfectly willing to say that you are artificially limiting the definition of tone to suit your purposes rather than that you are redefining tone.



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05 Nov 2012, 4:08 pm

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Well, arguments about semantics can only go so far.



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05 Nov 2012, 9:05 pm

LKL wrote:
*sigh*
It's not obscure, Stadschutz. It's well-known by anyone who's ever taken freshman comp. You are simply, factually incorrect that tone cannot exist "within text," as has been demonstrated by dictionary entries.
As I already said, I'm not attached to the word 'redefining,' and am perfectly willing to say that you are artificially limiting the definition of tone to suit your purposes rather than that you are redefining tone.


No I'm NOT incorrect, because I was referring to tone of voice, as in, changes in pitch... You know, like the difference between the musical notes A and B, god damnit. How hard is that to understand? I'm not limiting s**t, and I'm not redefining s**t either. THAT is what I meant by "tone," whether you choose to acknowledge that or not. The fact of the matter is ton OF VOICE does NOT exist in writing because there's no voice; only text. And the fact that a word has multiple definitions does NOT mean that they ALL apply when the word is used. Just like gay means happy, but it's also used to mean homosexual. Are all homosexuals happy? In the context of the song about the kookaburra, when it says "kookaburra gay your life must be," is it saying the bird is homosexual? No, it's not... If I say "It's a cold night," does it mean I think the night is heartless/uncaring? No, it doesn't. When I said "in the context of sound," I figured that should be enough to clarify what the hell I meant, but instead, I'm accused of redefining words, DESPITE the fact that the first like 8 definitions refer to SOUND.

I'll admit "obscure" wasn't the right choice of word to use to describe the definition, but it doesn't change the fact that tone's primary definition has to do with sound, and that's what I meant... But because someone else made the mistake of assuming I meant a different type of tone, we're having this stupid argument. ENOUGH already. Just accept that what I said I meant is what I friggin' meant already. Jesus Tapdancing Christ...



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05 Nov 2012, 9:58 pm

OK: writing, although it does convey tone, which can be (and is designed to be) interpreted as tone of voice when read, does not intrinsically contain tone of voice.
Happy?

Also: since you were Aspie-checking us earlier, I will remind you that perseveration is another trait of Aspergers.