10 Apr 2012, 3:59 pm
Sorry I was gone for so long -- there were some women who needed oppressing, and, well, I was there, so...
ArrantPariah wrote:
puddingmouse wrote:
ArrantPariah wrote:
Why blame "society?" Maybe women are just easier to manipulate, because they wish to conform to what they regard as the demands of "society", when, in fact, it is just a handful of moguls who are calling "society's" shots. The moguls decide what styles are going to be fashionable, and the ladies knock themselves out with conforming.
I really hope that's not true.
One might wish, but do you have a better explanation for the phenomenon?
Ya, you forgot that all women's actions are men's fault -- for conditioning them that way. (You know, conditioning the "strong, indepedent" gender.) And since there will always be men living near women, feminists will always have someone to blame!
You feminists won't like what my wife thinks of women who constantly b***h at or about men. She has had this theory for years. She believes that many of those women unconsciously want to be controlled. Let me quote her from another forum, so I get it exactly right:
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When your in one of these Relationship Dynamics you have a clear cut role to be and what is expected of you. It is a very reassuring feeling.
Before I understood my self I would act out and be bitchy and naughty because deep down I wanted to be controlled. I couldn't control myself and I needed someone to do it for me. It was so subconscious. That want and the actions that followed. That I didn't realize it myself why I was behaving like that until we started this relationship. And then I think about the women in my family. How they would behave like me except 100x worse and it got worse and worse threw the years. And it led me to believe that could these women be craving the same control that I have been and not be aware of it? Could this be a need that women, by nature, want?
Now, I'm only going by my family and it might just be our thing. But sometimes I wonder when women get out of control and bitchy and angry, if it is a cry for help to be controlled from them selves. Because that's how it was with me.
Before I understood my self I would act out and be bitchy and naughty because deep down I wanted to be controlled. I couldn't control myself and I needed someone to do it for me. It was so subconscious. That want and the actions that followed. That I didn't realize it myself why I was behaving like that until we started this relationship. And then I think about the women in my family. How they would behave like me except 100x worse and it got worse and worse threw the years. And it led me to believe that could these women be craving the same control that I have been and not be aware of it? Could this be a need that women, by nature, want?
Now, I'm only going by my family and it might just be our thing. But sometimes I wonder when women get out of control and bitchy and angry, if it is a cry for help to be controlled from them selves. Because that's how it was with me.
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Vigilans wrote:
http://www.m0ar.org/2906
@Ragtime. I couldn't care less about 'men' as a category. I care about human beings. Seriously, I would be a lesbian if it wasn't for my boyfriend. I wouldn't interact with men enough to b***h at or about them. Funnily, enough, I love a man and still call myself a feminist. I don't b***h about men, I b***h about patriarchy.
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10 Apr 2012, 4:06 pm
10 Apr 2012, 4:06 pm
LKL wrote:
Ragtime, two points:
first, most of us don't give a damn about your love life, and we've already had TMI from you.
second, one couple is an anecdote. Your experience with your wife is an anecdote.
It''s not data, any more than if an individual woman was posting here about how her husband really liked her to be a dominatrix. Some people are really into that stuff, and some dress it up as religion, but it doesn't have relevance to the general population and frankly I don't want to hear about it any more than I want to hear about how my parents like to have sex. Please show the same amount of decency as everyone else on this thread and stop telling us about your sex life, ok?
first, most of us don't give a damn about your love life, and we've already had TMI from you.
second, one couple is an anecdote. Your experience with your wife is an anecdote.
It''s not data, any more than if an individual woman was posting here about how her husband really liked her to be a dominatrix. Some people are really into that stuff, and some dress it up as religion, but it doesn't have relevance to the general population and frankly I don't want to hear about it any more than I want to hear about how my parents like to have sex. Please show the same amount of decency as everyone else on this thread and stop telling us about your sex life, ok?
I'm not talking about our sex life.
And everything you feel is an anecdote, too.
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