Orwell wrote:
AG: Making widespread and accepted the practice of deliberately altering an offspring's traits rather than rolling the meiotic dice is a terrible precedent to set, and would without doubt lead to horrific outcomes later on. People choosing (on a purely voluntary basis, with no societal pressure one way or the other, no tax rewards or penalties) to reproduce or not to reproduce is much different. An individual in the latter case elects not to contribute to the next generation's gene pool. In the former case, humans are consciously picking and choosing certain attributes, and this is not likely to lead to as good results as we get from random shuffling in ordinary sexual reproduction.
"Without doubt"? Obviously there is some doubt for some of these things. Particularly given that no matter what is chosen, horrific outcomes seem a likely result.
I do not see why the results are better if people do not consciously choose. I mean, your own argument from heterozygous traits just seems arbitrary. Yes, heterozygous traits can protect against certain pre-existent problems, but against the unforeseen? There is not much that could be done, and it is hard to justify the suffering you do with a small sliver of possibility.
I actually think you have an ethical principle, but not one you are putting forward so much as covering up with utilitarian justifications just to seem more neutral.