hyperlexian wrote:
the psychological benefit of wearing high heels is not really just internal, aghogday. women wouldn't like wearing the heels if they thought men considered them ugly, for example. so it's not really possible to look at it as a purely psychological benefit as it is vetted (is that the right word?) through the real or imagined reactions of other people.
My premise is based on
if a women perceives that she looks attractive and gains confidence from wearing high heel shoes, that there is a psychological benefit, regardless if men perceive the high heels as attractive.
The study quoted from the daily mail and the huffington post suggests that men don't notice women wearing high heels.
My point is, even if that study wasn't flawed in it's methodology, and it actually provided conclusive evidence that for centuries men have not been noticing women in high heels,
if woman believe they look attractive and gain confidence from wearing high heel shoes, they gain a psychological benefit. In this case the psychological benefit of feeling attractive, and having greater self-confidence.
The science of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy provides evidence that this is the way that the human mind works.
There are some folks in the world, that have confidence and assurance in their attractiveness, in their method of personal style in fashion, regardless of how most of the rest of the world perceives them. I don't suspect this is the majority of individuals, but it works for some.
They could be much better off than those that constantly seek perfection, and never find it. Cognitive Behavioral therapy, has had some success in treating some of those folks.
UIltimately, what matters the most for any individual, is how they perceive themself in relation to others. I don't think there is any question about the validity of that statement.