karathraceandherspecialdestiny wrote:
Antrax wrote:
karathraceandherspecialdestiny wrote:
Antrax wrote:
karathraceandherspecialdestiny wrote:
Antrax wrote:
bitter minorities
angry minorities

How would you characterize a collection of individuals who frequently go on rants about the evils of "white people?" I'm curious.
I never said they didn't have reason to be angry, Trump makes me angry. It's just their anger is directed at me, and that also makes me angry.
I'm definitely not going to talk about racism with you. People that say things like you have here make me really uncomfortable.
Fair enough, no one forces you to engage with anyone. I've often found it useful to engage with people with differing views than mine. It helps me refine my views and perspective. I think more people should be able to have a dialogue on difficult topics and actually listen to the other person.
If you change your mind and are willing to have a dialogue I'll respond. If you want to leave it as is, have a nice day.
My experience has been that it's not possible to have a reasonable conversation with people who admit to being angry about issues like race, it inevitably goes to a place that is really negative and scary for me and I just don't want to talk to other white people about how angry they are at people who aren't white. It's just a gross conversation that I don't want to have, it never goes well and usually ends with the other person calling me something like a traitor to my race or just an idiot or other pejoratives, so I've stopped trying to have conversations on this particular topic with angry white people.
I might surprise you. I'll never call you an idiot or traitor to your race. In fact I reject the concept that one should have loyalty to their race. That's an inherently destructive mentality. Everyone comes from a different walk of life and carries different perspectives from them. I like discussing with others with different perspectives because it helps me reflect on my own. I've been wrong about many things in my life (or was I right the whole time, and am wrong now?).
I don't like that I've become more angry regarding race relations. I wish everyone would just treat others like people regardless of their skin color. However, I see no value in pretending that the hateful comments I routinely hear about white people haven't made me angry. They have, and I'd be lying if I said they hadn't.
You've had bad experiences in the past, so if you don't want to discuss with me I'll accept that. However, I would encourage you to give the discussion a chance.
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