Why Men's Issues Matter

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Women have never cared about men? That’s simply untrue. I am a woman who cares about men and men’s issues.

So I'm an idiot, huh? So much for your "love" -- you can keep it and shove it into a place that never sees the Sun.

Women DO care about men -- each one for different reasons. Maybe they don't care about YOUR issues, and maybe because you don't care about theirs.

And by the way ... that's not how "Genius" is spelled ...

the world is only pushed forward because people care enough about issues that they take them on and campaign to change things.

Your surrounding world is only as it is because people have cared so much in the past to make them how they are so we benefit from them.

I am perfectly aware thank you, but it is not possible to edit my username on this site.

Yes, they care about succesful men, like I said. It has nothing to do with me being nice or caring or not.

The older I get, the more bored I become of this conversation.

That is not correct, success is one of many factors that can make a woman like you or care about you. This is a serious thread so please don't turn it into lame incel whining.

I am not an incel, thank you very much.

My point was actually a serious one. My point was that men need to become succesful for society to have sympathy for them, which seems to me to be somewhat more factual than: "men need to be more emotional and adobt feminine traits, and society will suddenly start sympathizing". That's a ridiculous point if I've ever heard one.

Men's issues do matter. The issue is you're framing this conversation from a negative anti-woman POV.

If you care so much about men's issues, why don't you advocate for them instead of complaining about how women are advocating for women's issues?

I will lock this thread soon if it continues to be just another excuse to rant about women by the men of Wrong Planet.

I am taking actions to stop this environment of hostility in L&D because it's turning off women (and men as well) from wanting to participate on WP.

I don't care if you are one or not, I only pointed out that this is not the place for incel-like whinings like yours.

There's nothing serious about your point and I would hardly call it a point at all, lame generalization is better.
Now you say society, before you said women, haha! Besides who said that men need to acquire feminine traits to be loved by society and this thread's purpose is not to give you dating advices.
By ranting like this you attack women and make men look bad.
Look, now they want to close a thread about men's issues because of what you say.

Can't you keep him from posting here instead of closing the whole thread, please? It seems unnecessary.

The word seems to imply women have no part in causing it and it’s a male only issue.
Which is false

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*Sigh*

And this thread was actually going quite well before the, "Womenz iz awwfuul!" whinging started.

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Let's all get back to discussing men's issues instead of bashing the opposite sex.

Thanks.

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I’m wondering if this important topic would go better if we narrowed in on a couple of specific issues. Most of the trouble seems to happen when we make large generalizations without getting more specific.

Will you also put a stop to women framing the conversation from a anti-man POV? Or is it just going be against men and let feminist do as they please?
I and others including few women have seen this forum going feminism biased for while now and it seems now your just filling supporting feminist only side.

Saying women have right to fear all men cause women get raped more is anti man.
Say it’s sexist tonhave air conditioning on cause women get cold is antiman(men get warm, so not having it on hurts men. Gender differences I guess.)

It’s been suggest men should go to other autism forums. Do you want wrong planet to just be women and feminist? From a pure business side, wrong planets customers like dating sites is mostly men. If all the men leave, less advertisements are seen, advertising gets pulled. I’d like to stay here but it seems the policy’s are being changed to silence and force men off wrongplant. I’ll be looking at other autism forums that hopefully don’t habe a extremely feminist bias. All the mods here are feminist? There’s no balance. Mods are like the Supreme Court of wrongplant. Would you want a all feminist or all conservative Supreme Court? How could such a Court be balanced and fair? How can a all feminist mod team be balanced and fair?

I’ve been here for a long time and I’m constantly worried I’ll be banned last year or so. I worry anything I say will be taken wrong by feminist and I’ll be banned. Yet I see women post things that’d get me warned and it’s ok. It’s not ok to say women, or most women, or lot of women think or do this(even if it’s true) but it’s fine to say men, most men, a lot of men do/think something. It’s fine for feminist to post studies about how horrible men are , but nit ok for men to post any studies even from the federal government or United Nations that may have anything bad to say about women or contradict feminist “studies”
Even if it’s the people who did the feminist studies posted saying that’s not what they mean and that yes their study was bit biased.
Your policies and mods leaves me unable to express my personal struggles and experiences as a weak autistic male cause such experiences go against the dream world of feminism extremists. Is that what you want? For male aspies to feel invalidated for them to feel their experiences are false and lies that they’re just crazy?

Do you place any blame of toxic masculinity on women? Or do you also think it’s totally a male fault and men make women support it?

Depending on how you answer will change if I like you anymore.

I wouldn’t want someone to dislike me...

I think society puts a lot of pressure on men and women to fill certain roles - to be “masculine” or “feminine.” A lot of these notions are outdated, unhealthy, and need to be changed.

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