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20 Mar 2009, 3:44 pm

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Ruveyn, I didn't notice your age, and I feel bad now, knowing you are a grandfather.
Sand is also an older gentleman, and although I find that *extreemly* cool; I do not see why it would make you feel bad. I always make a point to read their posts whenever I encounter them, but I happen to find people their age interesting. I may not always agree, but still find what they have to say worth reading. I rather enjoyed reading your post too.



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20 Mar 2009, 3:53 pm

Do I value pain? Most definitely, especially in the form of fresh French baguettes. :wink:


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20 Mar 2009, 4:30 pm

Apparently severe stress, or pain, can, according to mystics, provoke/trigger an instance of what they call "descending causality", in which something comes from somewhere inside/beyond the inside of you, and out through you, washing through you, leaving changes which you might otherwise never have managed.

I think that something like this happened to me 17 years ago, and it had a dramatic effect on me. I have always described it as a "moment of grace", and only a few days ago came across this information about mystics and "descending causality", which definitely fits.

I imagine that is why so many mystics/religious types have, over the years, practised self-mortification, flagellation, privation, etc, because they hope for such an effect.

I don't know if I would go so far as to try and provoke such an experience with self-inflicted pain/stress, but I can understand the desire. It was an amazing, and beautiful and utterly transformational experience. It all started with the worst headache I have ever had in my entire life.

I have had a child, and didn't use any painkillers, just breathing techniques, and my body's natural painkillers, which are produced in huge quantity as labour approaches. That was more like detaching myself from the pain, letting it go, opiated out, whereas the headache ... I "suffered" it, fought it, avoided it, struggled with it, ... for hours.

Generally I avoid pain. Low threshold to it.

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20 Mar 2009, 4:41 pm

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Generally I avoid pain. Low threshold to it.


But you live in France, how can you possibly avoid le pain? They are the best thing about France.


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20 Mar 2009, 4:54 pm

"pain" is the best thing France has to offer y'all! Hmm, Fresh Crunchy baguette..... -drool-



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20 Mar 2009, 9:17 pm

Hot cross (language) puns!


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20 Mar 2009, 9:23 pm

I would continue this joke, but I'm awestruck :lmao:


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20 Mar 2009, 10:11 pm

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Apparently severe stress, or pain, can, according to mystics, provoke/trigger an instance of what they call "descending causality", in which something comes from somewhere inside/beyond the inside of you, and out through you, washing through you, leaving changes which you might otherwise never have managed.


That is a great way of describing it. I've encountered that too and that is what turned me on to mysticism. I also think fasting helps to achieve this inner strength. Near death experiences are pretty cool too.


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20 Mar 2009, 10:22 pm

I have had lots of major troubles in my life and what they did for me is reveal the internal strength that was inherent in my personality and also the weaknesses. It did not either create or re-enforce them, merely demonstrated that they were there. Bad times do not improve me. They merely reveal who I am. As do times that were good.



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20 Mar 2009, 10:45 pm

Are you saying that you've always been the same? I've changed very much throughout the course of my life. I've also been in a place where I was cynical and found no meaning in anything. It's a very sad place to be. It's not until you can forgive or accept the cause of your suffering that you can grow beyond it.


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20 Mar 2009, 10:58 pm

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Are you saying that you've always been the same? I've changed very much throughout the course of my life. I've also been in a place where I was cynical and found no meaning in anything. It's a very sad place to be. It's not until you can forgive or accept the cause of your suffering that you can grow beyond it.


There is no forgiving a stupid sonofabitch that rendered my three year old son quadriplegic for the rest of his life or the thirty years of devotion and struggle I donated to give him some kind of life to augment his great intelligence and determination to stay alive and remain delighted to be able to use whatever abilities he retained. I gave him what I had already become and it did not make me better or worse.



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21 Mar 2009, 11:50 am

I think physical pain can be a very interesting experience, not only because it might lead to the "descending causality" ( as described by mystics ), which I mentioned in my previous post, but because the way we experience physical pain depends on a host of factors, from how we were brought up, one's entire life experience, to what we eat, and in what context it occurs.

"Exploring", ( as in facing, struggling, interrogating, attempting to ignore, dialoguing with, etc ), physical pain is perhaps like challenging/examining/re-experiencing some of the most formative/important parts of one"s conditioning, one's life, almost like meeting one's "Shadow" outside dreams.

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21 Mar 2009, 1:27 pm

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I think physical pain can be a very interesting experience, not only because it might lead to the "descending causality" ( as described by mystics ), which I mentioned in my previous post, but because the way we experience physical pain depends on a host of factors, from how we were brought up, one's entire life experience, to what we eat, and in what context it occurs.

"Exploring", ( as in facing, struggling, interrogating, attempting to ignore, dialoguing with, etc ), physical pain is perhaps like challenging/examining/re-experiencing some of the most formative/important parts of one"s conditioning, one's life, almost like meeting one's "Shadow" outside dreams.

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I have been alive for a very long time and there are many delightful things I would like to explore. On the other hand I have never sliced off a finger or been sodomized or eaten excrement or been bitten by a cobra or had tuberculosis or had my eyes immersed in acid. Those experiences never would tempt me although they certainly would be novel and perhaps result in philosophical viewpoints. Some educational experiences should, it seems to me, be thoroughly neglected.



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21 Mar 2009, 3:01 pm

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I have never sliced off a finger or been bitten by a cobra or had tuberculosis or had my eyes immersed in acid. Those experiences never would tempt me although they certainly would be novel and perhaps result in philosophical viewpoints. Some educational experiences should, it seems to me, be thoroughly neglected.

I didn't mean that we should, ( necessarily ), seek out physically painful experiences, but simply that any extreme pain, in the course of "normal" living, could be an opportunity to explore what it makes us feel, to investigate what we experience it as.

In my case simply enduring, struggling with, etc, a very bad headache, rather than immediately taking an aspirin/painkiller, triggered an extraordinary experience, a new understanding, a real enlightenment;

Not reaching for the painkiller could be worth doing from time to time.

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21 Mar 2009, 3:05 pm

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Interested in how many twists and turns that question takes, what angles the question approached from. Yes I have an opinion.


I have very clear relationship with pain. Sharp pain.

I like to practice martial arts. Pain is inherent there.

Sometimes, I use needles on my skin to release energy.



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21 Mar 2009, 10:53 pm

Zyborg wrote:
postpaleo wrote:
Interested in how many twists and turns that question takes, what angles the question approached from. Yes I have an opinion.


I have very clear relationship with pain. Sharp pain.

I like to practice martial arts. Pain is inherent there.

Sometimes, I use needles on my skin to release energy.


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