Can/should murderers and rapists be reformed?

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Can murderers and rapists be reformed?
No, they can't, all they deserve is suffering and hatred from righteous, law abiding good people 8%  8%  [ 2 ]
They can but they don't deserve a chance, I'd rather they just stay evil and be prevented from acting on it again 8%  8%  [ 2 ]
They can but we shouldn't risk it, I have some level of pity for them though 13%  13%  [ 3 ]
In certain situations, yes I think they can turn around and become good people 46%  46%  [ 11 ]
Yes, anyone can change for the better regardless of their past actions 17%  17%  [ 4 ]
Rapists can change but not murderers 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
Murderers can change but not rapists 4%  4%  [ 1 ]
. 4%  4%  [ 1 ]
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donnie_darko
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31 Oct 2012, 6:02 pm

Do you think a person who has killed or raped someone can turn around and become a decent human being or even a good person? Do people end up committing these acts because of mental illness, a toxic environment, or not receiving enough love from their family, or simply because they were born evil and made bad choices?

And if they can be reformed, should we take the chance?

BTW the dot choice would be none of them apply for you 'other'



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31 Oct 2012, 6:04 pm

Other - I don't think the can be changed, but I'm not about revenge.



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31 Oct 2012, 6:49 pm

Some definitely can, but not all. We should take the chance in all but the most extreme of cases, but IMO it should be a system where after your first chance at redemption, you're done for.


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31 Oct 2012, 7:09 pm

Why do people (on WP too) persist in putting murderers and rapists in the same category?



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31 Oct 2012, 7:12 pm

GGPViper wrote:
Why do people (on WP too) persist in putting murderers and rapists in the same category?


I definitely think murder is a lot worse but a lot of people disagree with me so I lumped the two together for the purpose of this thread.



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01 Nov 2012, 3:08 am

GGPViper wrote:
Why do people (on WP too) persist in putting murderers and rapists in the same category?

Because they are very much related. Rape is murder of the person the woman/girl was before she was raped. She'll never be the same again. It doesn't get very much more traumatic than that.
I'd also group torture and witnessing the torture, rape or murder of loved ones in the same category.


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01 Nov 2012, 4:08 am

Skilpadde wrote:
GGPViper wrote:
Why do people (on WP too) persist in putting murderers and rapists in the same category?

Because they are very much related. Rape is murder of the person the woman/girl was before she was raped. She'll never be the same again. It doesn't get very much more traumatic than that.
I'd also group torture and witnessing the torture, rape or murder of loved ones in the same category.


Compare these two:

A person is raped.

A person is hit in the back of the head with a blunt object, and - as a result - is left permanently paralyzed from the neck and down, having to live in a wheelchair for the rest of his/her life eating through a straw.



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01 Nov 2012, 8:21 am

Psychological trauma, being invisible, is frequently disregarded or trivialized by society. But it can cripple a person just as surely as physical trauma.



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01 Nov 2012, 8:33 am

I can justify murder, but not rape; e.g. murdering a rapist is perfectly justified to me. However, given the noted inaccuracy of our justice system I have to say that at least the attempt to rehabilitate all convicts must be made, otherwise we're just setting ourselves up for more trouble down the line with millions of broken people in prison and nothing to do with them.


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01 Nov 2012, 9:00 am

What kind of murder? A crime of passion or willful premeditated murder?

What kind of rape? A girl who doesn't say yes and doesn't say no, and the guy keeps going, or a guy who holds down a girl and forces himself in her?



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01 Nov 2012, 9:07 am

thewhitrbbit wrote:
What kind of murder? A crime of passion or willful premeditated murder?

What kind of rape? A girl who doesn't say yes and doesn't say no, and the guy keeps going, or a guy who holds down a girl and forces himself in her?


Hey now! This issue is black and white, not 50 shades of gray!



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01 Nov 2012, 9:12 am

My problem with the frequent murder/rape analogies is that this could put pressure on the justice system to hand down similar (or less different) sentences for murder and rape.

My guess is that this would:

1. decrease reporting of rape
2. decrease convictions
3. give rapists incentives to kill their victims



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01 Nov 2012, 9:44 am

TM wrote:
thewhitrbbit wrote:
What kind of murder? A crime of passion or willful premeditated murder?

What kind of rape? A girl who doesn't say yes and doesn't say no, and the guy keeps going, or a guy who holds down a girl and forces himself in her?


Hey now! This issue is black and white, not 50 shades of gray!


Impossible :)

Take for example the pharmacist who got into a gun fight with a robber, reloaded his gun and shot the robber in the head. He was convicted because he went, reloaded his gun, and came back and shot the robber. He was probably so high on adrenaline from being in a gun fight he lost control.

Someone like that isn't a lost cause (I have issues with him being convicted, I think the perp got what he deserved.)

Compare that to someone who carefully plots to kill someone.



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01 Nov 2012, 10:34 am

Read Mindhunter and Stanton Samenow's Inside the Criminal Mind and then vote in the poll!



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01 Nov 2012, 10:49 am

thewhitrbbit wrote:
TM wrote:
thewhitrbbit wrote:
What kind of murder? A crime of passion or willful premeditated murder?

What kind of rape? A girl who doesn't say yes and doesn't say no, and the guy keeps going, or a guy who holds down a girl and forces himself in her?


Hey now! This issue is black and white, not 50 shades of gray!


Impossible :)

Take for example the pharmacist who got into a gun fight with a robber, reloaded his gun and shot the robber in the head. He was convicted because he went, reloaded his gun, and came back and shot the robber. He was probably so high on adrenaline from being in a gun fight he lost control.

Someone like that isn't a lost cause (I have issues with him being convicted, I think the perp got what he deserved.)

Compare that to someone who carefully plots to kill someone.


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01 Nov 2012, 12:30 pm

TM wrote:
Hey now! This issue is black and white, not 50 shades of gray!


I LOL'd so much, coffee came out my nose!


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