K_Kelly wrote:
I feel like a bit of an outsider when people want to strongly associate tolerance of those with disabilities with left-wing politics. I actually find it quite offensive when people say that the right doesn't want to help those with disabilities. What I don't want is the government to mandate that others coddle me because of my autism. I think if the government should coddle people, it should be everyone regardless of whether they have autism or not.
Obamacare was initially touted as "free" healthcare, then "affordable" and, now, it is responsible for increasing costs for patients; sometimes many times over. Clearly, the icon of American liberalism has failed its own promises, whatever else it has done.
For better or worse, however, mandating the coddling of everyone by others resides our common law and simple sense of fair play. Governments, schools, workplaces and public accommodations (otherwise known as "the public square") are expected under public policy to play fairly regardless of differences among people including disabilities.
But, the good news is that those of us who are legally disabled may opt out of such coddling, or at least find a happy level of support commensurate to the level of attendent humiliation. As others Wrong Planetians have written, it is often easier to withhold disclosing one's autism than to accommodate the results of disclosing. For many others, including myself, it is more difficult to disguise certain psychological or physical disabilities. This means opting out would be much more involved. But, at least the attempt to mitigate one's life conditions is somewhat mutable. "Better" isn't always "best," but it is still better than nothing.