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26 Apr 2018, 12:05 am

Florida mom gets 'blood boiling' letter from neighbors regarding 'hefty' teen with autism

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When Leah Solomon's husband forwarded her a letter he found under their front door, the Florida mother was shocked. Her jaw dropped as she read the page-long note calling her 16-year-old daughter with autism a "burden" and requesting the family move out immediately.

"I went into shock. As much as it hurt, it made my blood boil and I was fuming," Solomon told Fox News. "I was not going to let anyone refer to my daughter like that."

The letter, signed by "Plaza of Bal Harbour Residents," said tenants were tired of the "hefty" girl's "screaming and outbursts," lecturing the mom that the building pool is not a "babysitting facility."

“The choice is yours. Either you move out of the building on your own volition, or the residents of this building will take action and you will be forced to move," the letter read.

The "fuming" parents contacted the condo association, asking if they authorized the letter and whether they were at risk of being evicted.

Management at the condominium told the family they did not condone the "disturbing" letter, WPTV reports, clarifying that it was a tenant who drafted it.

Bal Harbour Mayor Gabriel Groisman said in a April 20 Facebook post that he was aware of the "ignorant" note and asked residents to "reject this kind of hatred and ignorance."

In response, Groisman said he has teamed up with the Bal Harbour Police Department and local government officials to create an autism awareness campaign.

"I can confirm that law enforcement is looking into this incident, and everyone must know that this hatred and discrimination has no place anywhere, and certainly not in Bal Harbour," he wrote.

Solomon said her daughter, Batsheva, is non-verbal and attends the South Florida Autism Charter School in Hialeah. She loves singing, YouTube and watching "Sesame Street."

Solomon said she's working with the mayor and has since sought legal counsel. She also started a GoFundMe page in hopes of raising enough money to move out of the complex.


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26 Apr 2018, 12:15 am

Disgusting; if I were related to any of the Residents who helped with that Letter, I'm be deeply ashamed


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26 Apr 2018, 5:41 am

I have mixed feelings on this. The style and content of the letter, especially the insults and threats, are inappropriate and obviously unlikely to have any positive result.

The letter also alleges that the autistic girl stands in the pool and screams for 4 hours per day. IF this is true, then I can understand that other residents are unable to enjoy their own homes and are angry as a result.

I don't think an anonymous accusatory letter is ever going to be a suitable way to communicate problems, hopefully a solution will be found for all parties involved.



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26 Apr 2018, 5:17 pm

My family and I had lived in an apartment house a few years back where some of our neighbors bitched and moaned about our daughter's meltdowns. Unfortunately, management wasn't at all sympathetic to us. Not only that, but when were trying to find a new home, the manager went out of her way to vindictively try derailing our chances to find a new apartment. Thankfully, we were able to find our current residence, which is much more progressive minded.


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03 May 2018, 1:36 pm

Just heard this. Absolutely appalling.