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26 Feb 2011, 10:33 am

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IceCreamGirl wrote:
Don't talk about your special interests unless they're typical interests like music or celebrities.


Pretty much everyone tends to talk about their interests that are not music or celebrities.
This rule is a bit absurd, to say the least.

Everyone talks about their interests every now and then, however when one person starts talking non-stop about something it becomes annoying to those that are listening.

I have been on both ends(a couple of my class mates displayed OCD-ish behabiour) and I can assure you it´s annoying to the person that is listening unless the interest is shared with the listener.


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26 Feb 2011, 10:38 am

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Also, don't wear one color on the same color (like pink on pink or purple on purple) unless you're wearing a blue shirt with blue jeans.


Why not? I do this all the time. The clash is so in right now.



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26 Feb 2011, 1:39 pm

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Don't stare at the ceiling. It's a form of stimming, so people will know you're an Aspie.


What's wrong with people knowing you're an Aspie? I tell people and they don't care. And anyway, it's more a sign of daydreaming than a sign of stimming.



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20 Mar 2011, 8:01 pm

try being a random ahole to NTs and treat all the people you think might be AS nicely.

being random is a good self defence in a social situation btw



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22 Mar 2011, 8:51 am

I fidget with my fingers, so I guess that's my form of stimming. Social Rule Tomboywriter101 edition: Stop caring about what people think and you don't have to worry about these rules.


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22 Mar 2011, 1:47 pm

tomboywriter101 wrote:
I fidget with my fingers, so I guess that's my form of stimming. Social Rule Tomboywriter101 edition: Stop caring about what people think and you don't have to worry about these rules.


Best rule so far! Kudos to you tomboy.



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22 Mar 2011, 2:57 pm

Zeek wrote:
tomboywriter101 wrote:
I fidget with my fingers, so I guess that's my form of stimming. Social Rule Tomboywriter101 edition: Stop caring about what people think and you don't have to worry about these rules.


Best rule so far! Kudos to you tomboy.


+1.
no, +100000.



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23 Mar 2011, 9:43 am

Life moves pretty fast, if you don't stop and look around once in a while, and do whatever you want all the time, you might miss it.


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23 Mar 2011, 12:47 pm

Look at the person you are talking to.



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23 Mar 2011, 1:07 pm

IceCreamGirl wrote:
Don't stare at the ceiling. It's a form of stimming, so people will know you're an Aspie.


yup.



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24 Mar 2011, 5:56 am

Find yourself a group of friends who don't care if you dress oddly and talk about strange things. Also, bullies are less likely to pick on groups of people.


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