Do you like kissing or do you not?

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08 Oct 2011, 8:42 pm

I've never kissed on lips before, so I don't no. I don't mind kissing the checks or anything.

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08 Oct 2011, 11:23 pm

DoubleSPY wrote:

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This. It feels too weird to me. Like I'm just putting my tongue in a girl's mouth and we're swirling our tongues in circles.

Uh, not sure if I should believe that but yea would you kindly not describe it. Cause honestly I don't really believe that cause when I see on T.v it doesn't look like there's any contact with the tongue.

The tongue is used in what's called "French Kissing" which is not something you see on TV a lot. It tends to be very passionate. No further details, as you requested.

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17 Dec 2011, 4:05 pm

I'm in the middle. I like it but I suppose the problem is that looking back on it now I don't love that girl anymore so I can't look back on it and say I'm happy about it. I suppose when I was with her I liked it but I'm guessing because of how it all ended for us I don't like the thought of it if that makes sense.

Also, guys don't ever date a goth girl, I don't recommend it or just don't make the same mistake as me and find out she gets enjoyment out of risking her own life it's not the most enjoyable relationship to have.

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18 Dec 2011, 7:32 am

I really love kissing. The feelings, butterflies, intimacy, everything about it. To me it's one of the best feelings ever. I could kiss someone all day. xD But only someone i really love ofcourse. :p I'd never kiss random guys. It's hard for me to imagine someone who doesn't love it. That's how much i love it. :p It's like someone telling me they don't like cupcakes or kittens.

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22 Dec 2011, 7:34 am

personally i enjoy kissing a great deal

kissing is a common practice these days because of the exchange of chemicals between mouths. and when proper chemicals *mix* they actually create a sweet taste. i read this and didn't believe it until i kissed a girl where this actually happened.

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22 Dec 2011, 9:38 am

I love kissing my bf, but family members kissing me... eww :eew:

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22 Dec 2011, 1:25 pm

Only things I've ever kissed are my parents and a bishop's ring. I don't enjoy either.

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22 Dec 2011, 1:26 pm

gailryder17 wrote:

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Kissing is merely the appetizer that leads to the feast.

^^^

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22 Dec 2011, 4:43 pm

Kaelynn wrote:

Im woundering if this is an aspie thing or not.
I have a boyfriend who I love and he loves me and I like hugging him and every now and then petting his hair but I really dont like kissing. He likes it but I dont know why. To me its just odd. Its shareing germs and the feeling of some one lips on yours is just strange to me. I dont like it. And I have no clue why he likes it so much. He knows I dont like it. Im just woundering if not liking kissing is an aspie thing or a me thing. Any one else not like kissing?

When I actually have someone to kiss I hate it! However not for the same reasons as you, my reasons are usually because I spend forever thinking if I'm supposed to kiss her now, and what kind of kiss? Then even when doing it I'm constantly afraid of doing it wrong (Which usually means you're going to do it wrong...) or trying to think what I'm supposed to do next...

(I also don't really understand the whole concept of having to slober over each other to prove your love... I understand it's an expression of love but I just don't know why it has to be like that.) Now when I have a girlfriend I usually just hug them and give them a kiss (Closed mouth), most don't understand and think I don't love them or say that I "Think they're unattractive" which creates yet another problem to put on my list...

(On another note @JaeDee, I still don't understand even if it makes a 'chemical mix'. To me it would be like spitting in somebodys mouth to say "Love you!")

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22 Dec 2011, 4:45 pm

I like kissing, and on a scientific level, humans do it to determine chemical compatibility, so it's not just "eww"

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22 Dec 2011, 5:30 pm

DoubleSPY wrote:

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MakaylaTheAspie wrote:

DoubleSPY wrote:

I really want to, I mean I'm 13 and I haven't kissed anyone yet plus I'm curious to see how it feels and what it's like.

To be completely honest, you're not missing much.

This. It feels too weird to me. Like I'm just putting my tongue in a girl's mouth and we're swirling our tongues in circles.

Because it's staged. The real thing with the wrong person... not fun.

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22 Dec 2011, 5:34 pm

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I like kissing, and on a scientific level, humans do it to determine chemical compatibility, so it's not just "eww"

Surely there has to be a better way then exchanging spit?

Humans shock me...

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22 Dec 2011, 5:38 pm

TheChamelion wrote:

Asp-Z wrote:

I like kissing, and on a scientific level, humans do it to determine chemical compatibility, so it's not just "eww"

Surely there has to be a better way then exchanging spit?

Humans shock me...

Humans can do shocking things.

Take Hitler, for example.

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22 Dec 2011, 5:41 pm

TheChamelion wrote:

Asp-Z wrote:

I like kissing, and on a scientific level, humans do it to determine chemical compatibility, so it's not just "eww"

Surely there has to be a better way then exchanging spit?

Humans shock me...

It's the best way for you to detect MHC.

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MHC is present in both pheromones and saliva, meaning that to really detect whether a partner is suitable, one must be in close proximity (to smell the MHC), and there must be an exchange in saliva (to taste the MHC). Now, what usually happens when these two events are placed together? That's right, ladies and gentlemen -- the kiss is in fact a goddamn taste test. We've adapted the behavior to make sure we find someone with whom our chemicals match up.

http://www.cracked.com/article_19024_6- ... th_p2.html

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22 Dec 2011, 5:55 pm

MakaylaTheAspie wrote:

TheChamelion wrote:

Asp-Z wrote:

I like kissing, and on a scientific level, humans do it to determine chemical compatibility, so it's not just "eww"

Surely there has to be a better way then exchanging spit?

Humans shock me...

Humans can do shocking things.

Take Hitler, for example.

True but I can't help but imagine what it was like the first time things happen/where in evolution we started it.
Maybe it went like this:
"Oh hey there! I like you, may we exchange some spit to show our love?"
"Oh sure! Nothing as cute as spit exchange!"
Or maybe it was:
"I love you,"
"Really!? How does this spit taste?"

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23 Dec 2011, 11:40 pm

I've never kissed anyone; therefore I have have no idea if I would like it or not. I'm sure I"ll be too old for this forum before my first kiss. XD

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